Of course after I cut back the ones that were held back, I realize that my lone SSDD is in fact a fucking dude. I must have seen something that made me label it a female but it is in fact a dude. Im gutted as that was the one I Was most excited about. If I had seen that a day or two ago, I would have been able to put one of the hold backs in but such is life. Adapt and overcome. I took him out and will run with 5 3 gal pots and just give them a few more days to bush out a bit after some LST.