from what i read here, either you american guys like to do a lot of macho posturing online, or we have a much more progressive attitude towards women in the UK.
the guy is skint and his girl is paying all the bills - in my books that doesnt put him in the position to 'call the shots'.
also when the power bill comes, a 1k is going to be a lot more of a shock to the system and may end up in his girl (the current breadwinner) refusing to keep paying in the future - thus my advice to get a 600.
of course it would help if we knew the size of the room and whether the grow will be for personal or commercial.
and just for the record, i have a hot wife, together for twenty + years, we are equals in the relationship and that's the only way i would want it.
VG
Funny how ole VG talks about how this guy should lay down and be a door mat for his girl, and do whatever she says, and then at the end of his posts he talks about how "everything is equal" at his house, and that's how he wants it.
Lol, your girl crack the whip on you and make you post in defense of women?
So many guys let themselves get walked on everyday by their woman, because they are scared if they speak up that she will leave, and they will be alone.
I know from personal experience just how many fish really are in the sea, my girl wants to cope an attitude about something as small as the size of the light I want to get, I don't spinelessly cave in like some here, I merely say "next" and show her the door.
Nothing macho or posturing about it, I know that there are enough women in the world that I don't have to stay in a relationship where my needs are not being met, and neither does she.