this is coming from a posturing masochist who never gets laid so take it with a grain of salt, believe it or not, some women like a man who can take charge and steer the ship, it makes them feel safe if they have a confident man and not wishy washy little boy, like someone who has to "ask" permission on every decision, if you are in a equal relationship, congratulations, im happy for you, im in an equal relationship too, but when i comes to my business, i call the shots. period.