I hate my wife

[ZZar]

yeah, you're wife is a bitch. ever since i met her, i just haven't been able to pee right!

 

[RNDZL]

ok i'll admit i just wanna fuck her on the rebound

nothing wrong with honesty

or rebound sex for that matter

 

[Zendo]

Here is some serious advice..

show us some pic's/vids..

 

[praisehim.]

she honestly sounds, emotionally and probably mentally unstable. Before you end things, and get yourself in trouble. Remember, you once loved her very much, and she could now be in trouble she's not even aware of. Recommend to her that you should get counseling from a pshychiatrist, that way your marital an possible mental issues can be resolved.
If that doesnt work... run. : )

 

[!!!]

I added my responses to the original post so that ppl don't need to go through every page

 

[!!!]

she honestly sounds, emotionally and probably mentally unstable. Before you end things, and get yourself in trouble. Remember, you once loved her very much, and she could now be in trouble she's not even aware of. Recommend to her that you should get counseling from a pshychiatrist, that way your marital an possible mental issues can be resolved.
If that doesnt work... run. : )

I did, very much!

 

[!!!]

I miss the days when people had the common sense to not air their dirty laundry in public and that's what I'm talking about.

I don't consider the Internet public unless I state my identity explicitly and refrain from hiding my physical location (I won't.)

I can't talk about this stuff with anyone else because I can't mention that I grow weed, so nearly all the advice I get is "dump that bitch. kick her out. change the locks etc"

This is the perfect place to air dirty laundry.

 

[supermanlives]

declare bankrupcy and move out. nothing worse than a childish nagging woman. except a mad divorced woman. good luck.

 

[Balarama67]

I don't consider the Internet public ...
This is the perfect place to air dirty laundry.

The only thing I find offensive is the chance some mean fuckers take to kick a wo/man when s/he's down.

You're right, for some people, this is the only chance some people get to air their issues.

Go for it; I love anonymous gossip! Now Spill!

 

[Pythagllio]

You can't trick somebody into cheating. What a bitch.

Couldn't identical twins pull it off?

 

[!!!]

extrapolate that equation and you get someone who rushed into something they weren't prepared for and now they want to end it by placing blame on the other person

Oh I definitely rushed into things. I'm not the best husband but I'm the only one between us trying to actually work it out. She has done irreparable damage to the relationship numerous times and the only reason I stated with her is because I felt sorry for her. She has NO family here, no where to go, and is very suicidal, cutting herself if I tell her to "just fucking sign the divorce papers."

You make the assumption that one gets married, and after the first argument goes on a weed forum and starts bitching. Your opinion is appreciated and in fact one that I completely agree with, but there's A LOT more to the story that's too personal for me to share. Perhaps your view on my situation would change if I let it all out, or maybe not. For one, you assume we haven't tried any sort of counseling?

I like that you put a lot of fate in people, but sometimes the best thing to do is break it off.

 

[Balarama67]

People make the mistake that what they read on forums is the be-all and end-all of the story - so often what is written is just a mere nugget.

Only you know what's what - take whatever advice you want, discard the rest and fuck those that would delight in kicking you while you are down.

I wish you luck and I wish you resilience.

You know what's right, Man - Go and do it.

 

[Miss Blunted]

If I buy her ice cream, she'll say "if I was <insert her best friend's name here>" you would have bought me a bigger one!"

What woman wants a ginormous ice cream? Unless we're completely tiny, we don't pig out like that....just a thought. Not exactly the comment you were looking for....sorry you're unhappy buddy

 

[RNDZL]

Oh I definitely rushed into things. I'm not the best husband but I'm the only one between us trying to actually work it out. She has done irreparable damage to the relationship numerous times and the only reason I stated with her is because I felt sorry for her. She has NO family here, no where to go, and is very suicidal, cutting herself if I tell her to "just fucking sign the divorce papers."

You make the assumption that one gets married, and after the first argument goes on a weed forum and starts bitching. Your opinion is appreciated and in fact one that I completely agree with, but there's A LOT more to the story that's too personal for me to share. Perhaps your view on my situation would change if I let it all out, or maybe not. For one, you assume we haven't tried any sort of counseling?

I like that you put a lot of fate in people, but sometimes the best thing to do is break it off.

my responses were really meant to address the two to tango comment in general.

I think its a great way for people to really believe they are not culpable in a relationship.

Once people recognize their decisions that feed into this type of situation the sooner they can learn to keep from making the mistakes

 

[Balarama67]

Once people recognize their decisions that feed into this type of situation the sooner they can learn to keep from making the mistakes

You may be expecting a level of insight/maturity that (some) people just don't have.

Shifting the blame is a game most of us learn as kids, and we use it as a defense mechanism as adults, because most of us do not want to believe the depths we can stoop to.

 

[cocktail frank]

sounds to me like you need another woman.
one who isn't as insecure as the one you have now.

 

[teemu shalanie]

dude !!!!!, In a weird way everyone subconsciously looks/ finds a woman/man like their mother or father, I don't know what to call that ? Just that humans do weird shit , even to themselves, Everything in life is a choice, you either got to choose is she gonna stay or go , simple.
!!!!!!!Change is hard , but sometimes good.
peace TS

 

[!!!]

dude !!!!!, In a weird way everyone subconsciously looks/ finds a woman/man like their mother or father, I don't know what to call that ? Just that humans do weird shit , even to themselves, Everything in life is a choice, you either got to choose is she gonna stay or go , simple.
!!!!!!!Change is hard , but sometimes good.
peace TS

Yeah. You grow up thinking "I would never be with somebody like this or that person" and "I wouldn't let a bad marriage like my parents' happen to me" and a decade down the line you realize that's exactly where you're headed.

 

[!!!]

sounds to me like you need another woman.
one who isn't as insecure as the one you have now.

She's definitely insecure. Out of nowhere she will say "you're not giving me attention because I gained weight right?" even though she's still skinny and I'm not giving her any more or less attention than I normally do (and I do give her attention.)

It's as if she's anxious all the time and her mind is always looking for logical reasons for why she feels like that. I've had anxiety for awhile too and know the feeling, but she doesn't seem aware that it's a problem for her.

If I tell her to STFU and take a deep breath and chill the fuck out while she's screaming, she'll shove me and break stuff. I hate the fact that ALL our kitchenware is chipped.

She also has never cooked or cleaned throughout the marriage. 4 fucking years of eating out or cooking my own food!

 

[superbolan]

I had a close call with one like that,, get out while your soul is intact