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I have always thought we men are more superficial than women. We care a hell of a lot more about looks than the women do.
How many young women you see latching at the arms of decrepid old man with 7 digit bank accounts? Ton's just turn on the TV and look at the wives of all the old ass CEO's and Aged guys like Donald Trump, Robin Leach, Marc Emery Hugh Hefner, Michael Douglas, Larry King, J. Howard. Marshall (Back when he lived)
How many young guys you see latching at the arms of decrepeid old women with 7 digit bank account? Not that many. Hell to the top of my head I don't even know any.
To women as they start to mature the $$$ starts to become more and more important and looks get flushed down the toilet, us guys we tend to remain the same about wanting a gourgeous women at our side, doesn't matter if she is broke or rich as long as she is gentle on the eyes we are happy
How many young women you see latching at the arms of decrepid old man with 7 digit bank accounts? Ton's just turn on the TV and look at the wives of all the old ass CEO's and Aged guys like Donald Trump, Robin Leach, Marc Emery Hugh Hefner, Michael Douglas, Larry King, J. Howard. Marshall (Back when he lived)
How many young guys you see latching at the arms of decrepeid old women with 7 digit bank account? Not that many. Hell to the top of my head I don't even know any.
To women as they start to mature the $$$ starts to become more and more important and looks get flushed down the toilet, us guys we tend to remain the same about wanting a gourgeous women at our side, doesn't matter if she is broke or rich as long as she is gentle on the eyes we are happy
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Trophy Wifes are overrated, I know from experience.
LOL man quite a knight you big guy you eh?hillbillieonpcp said:
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here's the answer to all your problems:
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Guest said:
yeah, - if this is the status quo; I guess I'm gonna die alone...
women want me.
and mr. hankey finishes a close second <<<<<<<<
and mr. hankey finishes a close second <<<<<<<<
kinesis
Member
ok when it comes 2 women i am no master but i have been studying long and hard w/ about 10+ years of research in this field. What i've learned is women want to have fun, women like a guy who is not a turn off to them. What turns women off? i dont know, good question every woman is different. Women want a guy who don't show too much affection. The more you give the more she can be pushed away. Women do not like to be approached in public, it freaks them out - i learned this the hard way =(. Best settings for talking to women are just casual like on a bus, or waiting in line. If you notice the picture above, with the different buttons that is exactly correct and knowing how to be the 'smooth operator' that works those knobs and buttons is really up to you and it's inside every man you just have to tap into it. i recently have gotten a little better in my conversations with women i dont know if it comes with age but it's definately noticeable. If you were to take your last ten or twenty negative experiences trying to get a woman or land a date, where you got rejected or she just said no - think about what you may have said wrong, or what you could have said differently. I've found just treating a woman like a common friend in your conversations is the best way to build trust with them, for example if you are just getting to know them. Don't get nervous or shy, try to be natural. that is what i've been doing, just trial and effort until i finally know what to say and it's not a problem anymore. Like I said this is my thesis here and all the knowledge I have absorbed and can pass to you. Theres also a few videos on youtube about 'what women want' or 'success with women' you can search for- peace kinesis
cabanetforester
Active member
What do women want?
What do women want?
I'm thinking this could very well be the original question. Well maybe right after the survival basics on the list anyway it's way up there.
The list of what women want probably varies (as to the order of importance) as much as the list itself. If that makes any sense.
It is interesting that people are so alike, yet have all these nuances? about them that make them rather unique.
Another way to approach the question might be, "What do I want in a woman"
I think the easiest way to get things off to a good start is knowing what 'type' of woman you would want to get to know. I think most people gravitate toward this, perhaps subconsciously for some.
Oh yeah and on getting to know someone..You never really know anyone IMO. People are more dynamic than that Anyone could do anything at anytime
When I was younger I was asking "what do women want?" Probably because I wanted women as in the more the better
. Ah, one night stands, hot tub parties turned orgies, to be young again, good times and not a care in the world 
Sex is always important obviously for both people. The question is how important is sex to each person and are they satisfied. On that note, sex can be both good and bad by comparison but there is no such thing as too good when it comes to sex IMO.
Some people are more 'wired' for sex (libido) than others. There is probably some correlation between peoples sex organs and their libidos. So to say some may have more/more sensitive nerve endings and or more frequent/intense orgasms than others. Sex is just 'better' for some people so one could conceive it would be more important to these people. Nonetheless sex is important to some degree no matter how well your 'wired' for it.
One thing I tend to see guys get 'burdened' with is the sexual responsibility for the relationship. If not through a specific relationship then by general double standard.Yeah I know, Awww.
I have seen some women really tear guys up over sexual performance, but rarely do you her men stating the woman has performance issues. We men have our own set of reasons why we don't critique sexual performance to the detail and sometimes negative like the women do (has to do more with macho than morality though). There are as always exceptions, I'm just speaking generally.
So dudes remember, if ever the woman in your life says your not that good in the sack you should politely say goodbye and go have sex with 5-10 women, maybe 20 . Then you should know exactly what she was talking about and will have had some fun along the way!
Another thing about folks. Again just common sense opinions based on anecdotal observations with a few large words thrown in to add credibility.. and because the spell check is working..
People excel in some aspects and lack in others. Some people excel in many more areas than they lack, others obviously have less general prowess.
One of these skills seems to be compatibility either by individual design or having a keen sense of the different traits of a potential mate. The term 'soul mate' comes to mind. Do you suppose some people might have more 'soul mates' than others?
Anyone of middle age that has kept in contact or informed about people/couples they knew when they were younger might know what I'm talking about. Some couples married right out of high school. You know the ones, we all said they are too young wished them the best but had our doubts?
Some of these couples stayed married just long enough to get some kids going, then splitsville; however, there are a select few couples who seem a better match now than they were 20 years ago.
Did these couples with the best marriages just get lucky? Or was it something they were able to see even at such a young age? Was it a mutual connection? Or was one more aware than the other?
Or maybe they just rocked it like porn stars from the get go.
About women and bad boys..This is an interesting yet often tragic situation that plays out again and again. As has been said women and men both probably have priority changes as they mature. Younger women will often fall for the 'bad boy' 'rebel' or 'jerk' types. The answer
why might seem ironic. The reason is -drum roll- emotion. these types of men are often more emotional or show emotions more easily than their robotic brethren. Most men don't think much about emotions like women do. More emotional men might also make better more passionate lovers. Ladies?
Whats so bad boy about being a passionate emotionally available (this is killing me so I hope someone finds this useful) lover? I would have to say they get the good with the bad meaning mood swings that can become fatal. I think murder is one of the leading causes of death (outside of pregnancy complications) for pregnant women. This happens again and again. We all know the stats, yet it continues to happen. I suppose anyone could snap and kill their mate, but I think one would see the trend more often in certain personality types.
Maybe some women are drawn to bad boys because they feel safe and protected, another possible irony. IMO it takes a rather keen sense of character on the womans part to know what kind of man will truly protect her.
Any wives/GF's of the soft spoken humble military heroes who walk though living hell and have been born with the killer instincts to thrive in such a place as only a warrior can care to speak up? Those are the guys you want if you want to be protected in a physical way, IMO. Then again these types don't have the emotion on their sleeve.
Interesting stuff, I could ramble on forever. Enough for now. Peace CF
What do women want?
I'm thinking this could very well be the original question. Well maybe right after the survival basics on the list anyway it's way up there.
The list of what women want probably varies (as to the order of importance) as much as the list itself. If that makes any sense.
It is interesting that people are so alike, yet have all these nuances? about them that make them rather unique.
Another way to approach the question might be, "What do I want in a woman"
I think the easiest way to get things off to a good start is knowing what 'type' of woman you would want to get to know. I think most people gravitate toward this, perhaps subconsciously for some.
Oh yeah and on getting to know someone..You never really know anyone IMO. People are more dynamic than that Anyone could do anything at anytime
When I was younger I was asking "what do women want?" Probably because I wanted women as in the more the better
. Ah, one night stands, hot tub parties turned orgies, to be young again, good times and not a care in the world Sex is always important obviously for both people. The question is how important is sex to each person and are they satisfied. On that note, sex can be both good and bad by comparison but there is no such thing as too good when it comes to sex IMO.
Some people are more 'wired' for sex (libido) than others. There is probably some correlation between peoples sex organs and their libidos. So to say some may have more/more sensitive nerve endings and or more frequent/intense orgasms than others. Sex is just 'better' for some people so one could conceive it would be more important to these people. Nonetheless sex is important to some degree no matter how well your 'wired' for it.
One thing I tend to see guys get 'burdened' with is the sexual responsibility for the relationship. If not through a specific relationship then by general double standard.Yeah I know, Awww.
I have seen some women really tear guys up over sexual performance, but rarely do you her men stating the woman has performance issues. We men have our own set of reasons why we don't critique sexual performance to the detail and sometimes negative like the women do (has to do more with macho than morality though). There are as always exceptions, I'm just speaking generally.
So dudes remember, if ever the woman in your life says your not that good in the sack you should politely say goodbye and go have sex with 5-10 women, maybe 20 . Then you should know exactly what she was talking about and will have had some fun along the way!
Another thing about folks. Again just common sense opinions based on anecdotal observations with a few large words thrown in to add credibility.. and because the spell check is working..
People excel in some aspects and lack in others. Some people excel in many more areas than they lack, others obviously have less general prowess.
One of these skills seems to be compatibility either by individual design or having a keen sense of the different traits of a potential mate. The term 'soul mate' comes to mind. Do you suppose some people might have more 'soul mates' than others?
Anyone of middle age that has kept in contact or informed about people/couples they knew when they were younger might know what I'm talking about. Some couples married right out of high school. You know the ones, we all said they are too young wished them the best but had our doubts?
Some of these couples stayed married just long enough to get some kids going, then splitsville; however, there are a select few couples who seem a better match now than they were 20 years ago.
Did these couples with the best marriages just get lucky? Or was it something they were able to see even at such a young age? Was it a mutual connection? Or was one more aware than the other?
Or maybe they just rocked it like porn stars from the get go.
About women and bad boys..This is an interesting yet often tragic situation that plays out again and again. As has been said women and men both probably have priority changes as they mature. Younger women will often fall for the 'bad boy' 'rebel' or 'jerk' types. The answer
why might seem ironic. The reason is -drum roll- emotion. these types of men are often more emotional or show emotions more easily than their robotic brethren. Most men don't think much about emotions like women do. More emotional men might also make better more passionate lovers. Ladies?
Whats so bad boy about being a passionate emotionally available (this is killing me so I hope someone finds this useful) lover? I would have to say they get the good with the bad meaning mood swings that can become fatal. I think murder is one of the leading causes of death (outside of pregnancy complications) for pregnant women. This happens again and again. We all know the stats, yet it continues to happen. I suppose anyone could snap and kill their mate, but I think one would see the trend more often in certain personality types.
Maybe some women are drawn to bad boys because they feel safe and protected, another possible irony. IMO it takes a rather keen sense of character on the womans part to know what kind of man will truly protect her.
Any wives/GF's of the soft spoken humble military heroes who walk though living hell and have been born with the killer instincts to thrive in such a place as only a warrior can care to speak up? Those are the guys you want if you want to be protected in a physical way, IMO. Then again these types don't have the emotion on their sleeve.
Interesting stuff, I could ramble on forever. Enough for now. Peace CF
AmishFarmer
Member
A joke
A joke
A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City,
>where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the
>entrance is a description of how the store operates.
>
> >You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the
>attributes
>of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is,
>however,
>a catch: you may choose any man from a particular floor,or you may choose
>to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the
>building!
>
> >So, a woman goes to th e Husband Store to find a husband.
>
> >On the first floor the sign on the door reads:
> >Floor 1 - These men have jobs.
>
> >The second floor sign reads:
> >Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids.
>
> >The third floor sign reads:
> >Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids, and are extremely good looking.
>
> >"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
>
> >She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:
>
> >Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead good looking
>and
>help with the housework.
>
> >"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it"
>
> >Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads: .
> >
> >Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help< BR>>with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak.
>
> >She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign
>reads:
>
> >Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on
>this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible
>to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
>
>
> >A New Wives store opened across the street.
>
> >The first floor has wives that love sex.
>
> >The second floor has wives that love sex and have money.
>
> >The third through sixth floors have never been visited.
A joke
A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City,
>where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the
>entrance is a description of how the store operates.
>
> >You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the
>attributes
>of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is,
>however,
>a catch: you may choose any man from a particular floor,or you may choose
>to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the
>building!
>
> >So, a woman goes to th e Husband Store to find a husband.
>
> >On the first floor the sign on the door reads:
> >Floor 1 - These men have jobs.
>
> >The second floor sign reads:
> >Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids.
>
> >The third floor sign reads:
> >Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids, and are extremely good looking.
>
> >"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
>
> >She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:
>
> >Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead good looking
>and
>help with the housework.
>
> >"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it"
>
> >Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads: .
> >
> >Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help< BR>>with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak.
>
> >She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign
>reads:
>
> >Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on
>this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible
>to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
>
>
> >A New Wives store opened across the street.
>
> >The first floor has wives that love sex.
>
> >The second floor has wives that love sex and have money.
>
> >The third through sixth floors have never been visited.
Huey_Wunder
Member
AmishFarmer said:
Excellent...
hw
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Brother_Monk
This is an easy one. First, you have to realise, we are all on common ground with this question. None of us "really know" exactly what we want. The best advice I can give any one is to know exactly what you don't want, and start from there.
From what I know of women, they want men to treat them like they are his bratty, annoying little sister. In a brotherly way. Funny thing is, the women don't know this about themselves. Don't believe me...try finding a woman you would never approach, then bust her balls. In a cocky but funny kind of way. Then...when she complains, turn up the heat a little more. Always try to be fun with it, never in an asshole kind of way. For example....lean over to her and say..."hey, I know why every guy in this place is looking at you like that" When she asks why, just kiddingly say to her, "it's that big honking zit on your nose" and then proceed to chuckle a little, then walk away from her. Or ask her if she bought them shoes "new"? It's easy man...just be a little creative. Remember never to be derrogatory tho...that's just a turn off. What I'm telling you is the mens secret weapon that your mother never will tell you. Be cocky and funny. You can now scrape and bow at my feet HA!
From what I know of women, they want men to treat them like they are his bratty, annoying little sister. In a brotherly way. Funny thing is, the women don't know this about themselves. Don't believe me...try finding a woman you would never approach, then bust her balls. In a cocky but funny kind of way. Then...when she complains, turn up the heat a little more. Always try to be fun with it, never in an asshole kind of way. For example....lean over to her and say..."hey, I know why every guy in this place is looking at you like that" When she asks why, just kiddingly say to her, "it's that big honking zit on your nose" and then proceed to chuckle a little, then walk away from her. Or ask her if she bought them shoes "new"? It's easy man...just be a little creative. Remember never to be derrogatory tho...that's just a turn off. What I'm telling you is the mens secret weapon that your mother never will tell you. Be cocky and funny. You can now scrape and bow at my feet HA!
where'd he go?
where'd he go?
I have a feeling that hillbillyonpcp met someone because he hasn't come back to post. Maybe he took some of the advice here and ran with it?
Damn, i was going to find out what continent he was on and see if he wanted to hook-up.
most people are "charming" princes and princesses in the beginning
you want to be the best you can and hope that when your real self starts to leak through it isn't too far off from the person you represented yourself to be.
some people are better actors than others, but they are just reading lines - saying things that sound good and are what you want to hear.
I watch what they do, how they treat strangers, how they talk to kids, how they drive, what they fill their days with- that is who they really are. and if they have kindness and humor , think of other people and the world around them-
thats what I look for in people.
size, age, shape and financial status are things that seem much less impotant
peace
where'd he go?
I have a feeling that hillbillyonpcp met someone because he hasn't come back to post. Maybe he took some of the advice here and ran with it?
Damn, i was going to find out what continent he was on and see if he wanted to hook-up.
most people are "charming" princes and princesses in the beginning
you want to be the best you can and hope that when your real self starts to leak through it isn't too far off from the person you represented yourself to be.
some people are better actors than others, but they are just reading lines - saying things that sound good and are what you want to hear.
I watch what they do, how they treat strangers, how they talk to kids, how they drive, what they fill their days with- that is who they really are. and if they have kindness and humor , think of other people and the world around them-
thats what I look for in people.
size, age, shape and financial status are things that seem much less impotant
peace
