Guys the title says it all.
Some background.My son started down the road with hard drugs at an early age. Can't count the number of times he od'ed on the trash.
He's nearly 30 years old with no direction. No motivation, no concern for his health or anyone's else. Just generally doesn't give a shit about life. Just the next high.
I'll say this, my son is smart. Very smart,(or he was) But when he's on that shit any idiot could run circles around him.
This past Saturday he decided it was just aok to shoplift a rotisserie chicken and some alcohol.
When stopped they found enough shit to charge him with possession with intent to distribute, 1st possession of cocaine, (not the drug he was charged with distribution of) drug paraphernalia, and shop lifting. Judge told him he's looking a 10 years for the distribution charge. This in in the south so it won't be pretty,
He hasn't been assigned an attorney yet and is in max security.
My entire family and that of his birth mothers side have tried to help. It always ended the same way, Stealing, blood on the walls, causing serious trouble, etc.
I have been expecting a call about something like this for years.
I love my son with all my heart and soul. But at the same time he is exactly where is arrogant ass, they can't touch me, I'm invisible shit has been heading. So it is very hard for anyyone that's been there for the long self destructive ride while they chase the dragon or other personal favorites to have an over abundance of sympathy for him but still having a great deal of concern at the same time.
For the past several years he has been doing shit that is reminiscent to the thinking of a 12 year old.It's really sad that he just quit at an early age.It's like his way of thinking has been rewired, which I understand it can screw up the brain.
I'm really down about this this afternoon. Heart broken, concerned, scared for him, and all that goes along with this kind of situation.All I can do is hope things work out for him some way.
So thanks in advance for any post. resinryder
Some background.My son started down the road with hard drugs at an early age. Can't count the number of times he od'ed on the trash.
He's nearly 30 years old with no direction. No motivation, no concern for his health or anyone's else. Just generally doesn't give a shit about life. Just the next high.
I'll say this, my son is smart. Very smart,(or he was) But when he's on that shit any idiot could run circles around him.
This past Saturday he decided it was just aok to shoplift a rotisserie chicken and some alcohol.
When stopped they found enough shit to charge him with possession with intent to distribute, 1st possession of cocaine, (not the drug he was charged with distribution of) drug paraphernalia, and shop lifting. Judge told him he's looking a 10 years for the distribution charge. This in in the south so it won't be pretty,
He hasn't been assigned an attorney yet and is in max security.
My entire family and that of his birth mothers side have tried to help. It always ended the same way, Stealing, blood on the walls, causing serious trouble, etc.
I have been expecting a call about something like this for years.
I love my son with all my heart and soul. But at the same time he is exactly where is arrogant ass, they can't touch me, I'm invisible shit has been heading. So it is very hard for anyyone that's been there for the long self destructive ride while they chase the dragon or other personal favorites to have an over abundance of sympathy for him but still having a great deal of concern at the same time.
For the past several years he has been doing shit that is reminiscent to the thinking of a 12 year old.It's really sad that he just quit at an early age.It's like his way of thinking has been rewired, which I understand it can screw up the brain.
I'm really down about this this afternoon. Heart broken, concerned, scared for him, and all that goes along with this kind of situation.All I can do is hope things work out for him some way.
So thanks in advance for any post. resinryder