Girlfriend is demanding I open the locked door. What to say?
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Darkstarlive
Tell her to respect your privacy.
You've only been dating a couple of months.
Stay at her place.
You've only been dating a couple of months.
Stay at her place.
and dont have people over..
people always forget this one...
your grow house is not for the following
parties
homless homies crash pad
hooking up
hanging out
parents visiting
brother ran away
lan gatherings
neighborhood watch meetings
yard sales
political signs
you get the idea
actually..............to keep...SAFE...............loss the girl...
move the grow/ and U'r self to another house.......sever ALL............contact w/ said person.......live safe and live to grow again..............
better to be alone and stoned than together and in jail................
move the grow/ and U'r self to another house.......sever ALL............contact w/ said person.......live safe and live to grow again..............
better to be alone and stoned than together and in jail................
AHAHAHAHHA
AHAHAHAHHA
Lousy portuguese pothead that should not "Thrust" his english language skills while high on ACheese... at least you had a laugh and me too
Thrust no one...it might hurt
AHAHAHAHHA
What a typo :
Lousy portuguese pothead that should not "Thrust" his english language skills while high on ACheese... at least you had a laugh and me too
Thrust no one...it might hurt
David762
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A "ring on her finger" is no guarantee of security.
A "ring on her finger" is no guarantee of security.
A "ring on her finger" is no guarantee of security. While it is true (for now) that a spouse cannot be compelled to testify against the other spouse, that does not mean that they cannot do so voluntarily. When she knows the truth, how long will it be before her girlfriends or her parents or even the police know the truth, after your first serious falling-out?
If you are bound and determined to keep this relationship, then you need to lie (for a little while) that the locked rooms are a long-time friend's personal gear. Then clear away all evidence of your "other life", and keep it that way as long as you two are together. You have presented what is known in diplomacy as a "Hobson's Choice", with no middle ground and only one bad result or the other. If you don't come to that realization, we will eventually be reading about your ex-girlfriend getting you busted.
Three people can keep a secret only if two of them are dead.
A "ring on her finger" is no guarantee of security.
A "ring on her finger" is no guarantee of security. While it is true (for now) that a spouse cannot be compelled to testify against the other spouse, that does not mean that they cannot do so voluntarily. When she knows the truth, how long will it be before her girlfriends or her parents or even the police know the truth, after your first serious falling-out?
If you are bound and determined to keep this relationship, then you need to lie (for a little while) that the locked rooms are a long-time friend's personal gear. Then clear away all evidence of your "other life", and keep it that way as long as you two are together. You have presented what is known in diplomacy as a "Hobson's Choice", with no middle ground and only one bad result or the other. If you don't come to that realization, we will eventually be reading about your ex-girlfriend getting you busted.
Three people can keep a secret only if two of them are dead.
Dojo
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Zach you keep dancing around this subject hoping for the golden answer that YOU want to hear...You want to hear a way to keep the girl and grow...dude you cannot do both and you have to make a choice...sure you managed to get some nice home pussy but listen man just because your afriad your gonna be alone dont let that cloud your judgement
You already know what to do but your hoping someone says "hey man itll be ok i had the same situation"....WRONG
Ive absorbed so much storys of betrayal and backstabbery and these were dude that were married...for YEAR....and KIDS and the woman STILL burns them...its enough to tell me that if your woman could betray you at ANYTIME...ring or not
I know youll stay with the home pussy though cause you seem weak for it...you seem to have no confidence that life will go on without this she devil .....first things first love yourself man before you love another...that way you wont be scared of being ALONE
I am my own best friend...Only I can relay upon myself for happiness...i would never let me down
You already know what to do but your hoping someone says "hey man itll be ok i had the same situation"....WRONG
Ive absorbed so much storys of betrayal and backstabbery and these were dude that were married...for YEAR....and KIDS and the woman STILL burns them...its enough to tell me that if your woman could betray you at ANYTIME...ring or not
I know youll stay with the home pussy though cause you seem weak for it...you seem to have no confidence that life will go on without this she devil .....first things first love yourself man before you love another...that way you wont be scared of being ALONE
I am my own best friend...Only I can relay upon myself for happiness...i would never let me down
i learned early on to be honest with my wife.
it's tougher trying to remember all your lies and stories than it is the truth.
now i'm not saying tell her, you gotta make sure she is ride or die 1st.
it's tougher trying to remember all your lies and stories than it is the truth.
now i'm not saying tell her, you gotta make sure she is ride or die 1st.
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ak-51
I am pretty appalled by the idea that if she doesn't smoke then she's automatically not cool.
I know nobody here wants to be judged for the drugs that they may or may not do. I don't want to be lumped in with a certain stereotype based on the drugs I do and/or the drugs I don't do. I'm sure that nobody who smokes wants to be judged for it, yet I hear so many people judging this person you don't know. She can't be trusted because she doesn't smoke huh? Maybe she just doesn't like it? Surely you don't actually think that everybody who doesn't actively smoke weed is a prohibitionist and a narc right? Obviously there are people who just talk to talk and love to tell other peoples business, and that is a valid and critical concern. Accusing her of being a narc is something else, I think that implies that she gets busted for something and decides to narc you out instead of do the time. If she doesn't smoke and is a law-abiding citizen (for the most part at least) why would she just narc you out out of the blue? If it's unlikely that she would ever be put in a situation where she would greatly benefit by narcing you out then that's a big plus to me. If I had somebody knowing about my grow who was slinging dime bags and pills outside of the local high school and everybody knew it, I would be way more worried about that person; that person can smoke 2oz a day and it's not going to make me trust them any more.
You gauge trust by looking deep into a person. Their integrity, their personality, the strength of will that they have displayed in their actions; do they live by a code or are they out to get over on anybody to better themselves? Pot doesn't factor into that when I ask myself whether I trust somebody; it doesn't hurt them and it doesn't help them either.
I know nobody here wants to be judged for the drugs that they may or may not do. I don't want to be lumped in with a certain stereotype based on the drugs I do and/or the drugs I don't do. I'm sure that nobody who smokes wants to be judged for it, yet I hear so many people judging this person you don't know. She can't be trusted because she doesn't smoke huh? Maybe she just doesn't like it? Surely you don't actually think that everybody who doesn't actively smoke weed is a prohibitionist and a narc right? Obviously there are people who just talk to talk and love to tell other peoples business, and that is a valid and critical concern. Accusing her of being a narc is something else, I think that implies that she gets busted for something and decides to narc you out instead of do the time. If she doesn't smoke and is a law-abiding citizen (for the most part at least) why would she just narc you out out of the blue? If it's unlikely that she would ever be put in a situation where she would greatly benefit by narcing you out then that's a big plus to me. If I had somebody knowing about my grow who was slinging dime bags and pills outside of the local high school and everybody knew it, I would be way more worried about that person; that person can smoke 2oz a day and it's not going to make me trust them any more.
You gauge trust by looking deep into a person. Their integrity, their personality, the strength of will that they have displayed in their actions; do they live by a code or are they out to get over on anybody to better themselves? Pot doesn't factor into that when I ask myself whether I trust somebody; it doesn't hurt them and it doesn't help them either.
100% idiocy, right here folks!
IF you truely believe that, you are totally fucking clueless and are behaving in a completely asshated manner.....putting her at that kind of risk so you can make money selling buds and still git laid...
fucking selfish, puerile little boy........grow the fuck up.
Well why would you even start a relationship with a person you need to lie too??? Either man up and be honest or get rid of her LOL peace out Headband707
the_man
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Yeah you know she has said something to another girlfriend already.
I would just come clean with her. If she is cool great. If not go you sperate ways and move on.
Chem&M
Member
Where have you been all my life? Seriously awesome. We need more of this......
Also, this can be said about anything, but if you think they know, they know. Maybe your lack of actually smoking cannabis lead to such a poor lapse in judgement? I make all types of dumb decisions when I'm not high.
Bullshit. If she's in the house when you get raided then she catches a charge. Count on it.
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