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Girlfriend is demanding I open the locked door. What to say?

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You said the sex was good? I'd just quit answering her phone calls, cold turkey. Meanwhile, finish up your grow. If she's hot enough she'll be back for more anyway, because hot girls can't stand rejection.

Personally, I'd have deleted her number the second she said she didn't blaze. I wish I was gay.
 

Stress_test

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What if she has known all along but LEO can't get a warrant or bust you until they get an eye witness to say what is behind those locked doors?

How much could you have inadvertently let slip?
How much could she already know?
 
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tell her being nosey and distrustful is a big turn off and you need some time to think.
 
Feelin for ya man. I had a fiance that was an IV Coke freak, I know...STUPID, but she was hot and the sex was phenomenal AND I was only 19 and on and on. Anyway I had to throw her out of my house, yes the one I was growing in. The next thing I know she wants my Cadillac and money and says she will snitch if I don't give it to her...so I did. She had it for a few months till I had finally had enough of worrying about some coked up bitch driving my car, on my insurance and having her hand out all the time. I took the car back and told her to get lost. This was the riskiest decision ever.

I am not sure how they found out, but a little while later a lifelong friend from across the street that had connections with law enforcement told me I needed to stop doing whatever it was I was doing cuz they were about to come and get me. I tore it down and moved to another state.

Now it might not have been her. I mean you could smell that Williams Wonder clear out in the street. These are the things we have to live with in the current culture. Unfortunately you will have to go with the worst case scenario. I lost a LOT when it happened to me, but I didn't get caught and anything that can get you busted is NOT worth it. Especially a relatively new relationship that most likely won't last anyway, odds are anyway.

You have to cover your ass and THEN figure out what to do about the girl. I hope you live happily ever after with or without her, but the one thing I def know is you don't wanna go to jail.
 

Chem&M

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Personally, it sounds like you are a man who hasn't had the pleasure of jail time yet. You're situation is worse than you think. You just got that opinion from a shitload of random strangers who have no reason to lie to you.
 
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Oh yea and one more thing. Did you happen to see the clip of the guy who was shot dead, fractions of a second after uniformed cops kicked in his door. No questions asked none answered. He's just dead now. That isn't the regular. But then again u'r bullet proof right?
 
Sounds like u covet money/ status , abusing the gifts given by jah herb, you will no doubt be visited by fate, hope your girl isnt with you when they come..............
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Buddle

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Just quit growing. Seriously no one who doesn't smoke weed should grow it. Sure, wait to harvest and tell her whatever till then, then tear down,(it's not like you need to grow your own) and have a good life with her.

Best advice I've read in eight pages.It's bad enough we have to hide from Leo.I refuse to live in secrecy from those who love me and I love them.I wouldn't know this for sure after only 2 months in a relationship but to each their own..My hubby doesn't smoke but I would NEVER hide it from him.That would make me feel like the fakest piece of crap..but thats me..and yes I am far from perfect..just believe in an honest relationship..Good luck..do something before someone makes the choice for you..
 

Rob547

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Plausible deniability if she doesn't open the door? If she's cool enough not to rat on you to any degree wait til harvest, just my two cents....
 

B. Friendly

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she should not care

does she pay rent, NO

if she's crazy about it, and there are so many ladies around

get one you think you can trust.

never tell a bitch your business,
because one day she might be an eye witness.
 

TruthOrLie

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tell her you use those rooms for your internet pornography bizniz and only working girls can go inside.

if she still insists on going inside now you got a business to replace your growing with
 

SOTF420

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Tell her you just found out you have the herplee erplees and don't want to spread it she needs to go get tested right away. If she stays and say's she loves you anyways then you can trust her and just show her the room dude because she might very well be ride or die with ya. :bigeye:
 

GET MO

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Tell her like this " Its none of your business, keep askin me that shit n we gonna have a problem." be real firm with her, tell her " I dont wanna here shit about that door no mhore, dont ask me again" .... If she wanna keep pesterin tell her, u aint finna open the door, if she wanna leave over some petty shit like that then BYE!
 

genkisan

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You can tell her it's yer voodoo sex ritual sacrifice chamber, and she's just about properly fattened up to see it first hand.......
 

TruthOrLie

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Tell her you just found out you have the herplee erplees and don't want to spread it she needs to go get tested right away. If she stays and say's she loves you anyways then you can trust her and just show her the room dude because she might very well be ride or die with ya. :bigeye:

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JJScorpio

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Some of these comments are pathetic at best......

Number one, the dude likes her, and he doesn't know whether she's cool with it or not... It's still way to early to tell her the truth, but if some of you guys would dump someone because you grow there's a lot of lucky women out there....

Second, would all of you guys give up having a family in exchange for growing? I hate to inform you but it's human nature to fall in love and start a family at some point. Maybe some of you prefer beating it I guess.....

To the thread starter. Only you know what to do here. Have you ever discussed this type of thing with her? How does she feel about people that smoke? Where do you want the relationship with her to go? Is she possesive? There's a lot of variables to consider here.

And I don't think it's that odd for someone you've been with for months to wonder what's in locked rooms. Humans are curious creatures...... If she isn't being wacky about it I guess I'd consider it normal to wonder.

Maybe she's worried you live a double life and the rooms filled with child porn or something, lol.....
 
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