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wife finds my 2 plant grow ugh!

SCF

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SCF-thanks man.I've been on this does 480mg for over a year now and it has lost it as far as effectiveness.I go to Pain Clinic on monday and either he has to up it or switch to something different again.Maybe Avinza again.Peace BigD


you ever thought of a methadone treatment? or tried it? not sure if they can prescribe that much for pain though.

NY almost became medical if i remember correctly. i think its only a matter of time my man. Hang in there. And if u do quit smoking because of all this. Let me know how that effects ur med intake. i know when i quit smoking, its like im withdrawing even though i didn't quit taking any meds except pot. as it ups the effect of the opioid.

Peace and love brotha,

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Relentless

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I didnt lie.I chose not tell tell her or anybody.Loose lips sink ships.My best bud didnt even know I had any outside.Thats the way I grow.I had over 20lbs ripped off 10 years ago and I do not want that to happen again.So lets clear up that missconception.I just didbnt tell her because she isnt on a need to know basis when it comes to my medicine.
I beg to differ. Shes your wife, you have kids together, and the plants are on both of your property right? IMO she needs to know whats up, if she can be helf liable. God forbid if something were to happen, but just say for whatever reason cops found your two plants on your property.. Theres a good chance that they would book her, and possibly take the kids.. Im sure she would get off in the end, but surely you see my point.. Just be honest and theres nothing to hide.. All my opinion, of course..:tiphat:

BTW to the people saying smoking pot and being in a relationship with a woman that doesnt smoke pot will never work, thats totally not true. Im with a girl that ive been with for 10 years.. She came down on me when I was doing it all day everyday, but shes smart, and she knows that its a hell of a lot better than alcohol and it does have its benefits.. As long as Im doing everything safely, she doesnt care..
 

crazybear

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Sorry to hear about your unsympathetic wife bigD , I have come to find out that it's usually the people in the medical profession that are mostly clueless about the benefits of maryJ. I also live in a non-medical state,& I suffer from chronic pain and use cannabis for relieving my pain, & live in a state that is even less likely to ever allow medical maryJ than NY. But what the hell until the federal government if ever legalizes it, we all take the chance of being put in jail for a beneficial plant. The only thing I have going for me is my wife understands . I really don't think I could stay with somebody that doesn't but that's just me. Maybe you could try informing her on the benefits of cannabis vs. the bottles of pills that very well may kill you. I still wouldn't grow it outside on my property too risky, had a friend that got lucky I don't believe the plants were on his property but so close to it that the sheriff came to his trailer & only took most of his stash & the plants not arrested didn't search house talk about luck. Good luck bro.
 

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Muleskinner

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sometimes being single is a bit lonely, but this story is great reminder of why I'm not married now.

American women are becoming crass, materialistic narcissists. Many are devoid of compassion. Most of my married friends suffer heavy abuse from their wives, abuse that would NEVER be tolerated if it was coming from the man.
 

RoachClip

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Relationships are a 50/50 thing and in order for them to work both sides must give and take and understand each others needs so with that said if this is an ongoing battle their will never be peace.
 

SCF

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sometimes being single is a bit lonely, but this story is great reminder of why I'm not married now.

American women are becoming crass, materialistic narcissists. Many are devoid of compassion. Most of my married friends suffer heavy abuse from their wives, abuse that would NEVER be tolerated if it was coming from the man.

This has never been so true in our history of unionship between men and women. Abuse by many american women, is how they get the upper hand. Not all. But at least 50 percent of the 40 year age and below.

and thats being modest.

I reccomend reading " A Road Less Traveled" by Scott Peck

Its all about trusting yourself to not become dependent on anyone else no matter what. Because it will always be you in the end. And nothing is forever in this human life.
 
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DocLeaf

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Throw her out! and get a camp bed! Just think of the extra growing space.. lol
 

bigdaddyc9

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Woke up at 430am day before yesterday and knew I was gonna puke.I puke 24/7,so I know ahead of time if its gonna happen.So I jumped out of bed sneezing and dry heaving and made it to bathroom,puking heavily.My wife said"Go smoke now" so I grabbed my weed and headed back to bathroom.After 4 tokes of Durbin Poison,I was a non-puking man.As I headed out of broom she is shrieking"Go spray the bathroom,I have to shower in 1 hour"..little did she know thats where I was headd to get spray.I crawled back into bed and knew if I got cold again,Id be puking..again.My ST Bernard was then begging to go out.I said to him"its too cold for Daddy to let you out" she says "Didnt you just smoke pot?".I turned around and screamed(Never ever even raise my voice to her)"Im still fighting it" dead silence and 15 minutes later I got up and let dog out.So the proof is in the pudding.Again she saw me turn it around in minutes using cannabis or Id be ill for hours.Im begining to think she is just a mean spirited bitch that likes to watch me suffer.....Peace and One Love BigD (spring grow is in the planning stages..need a few more beans and it is a GO!)
 

Bullfrog44

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Glad to hear she is letting you smoke pot for your ailments. I also hope it continues to help. Be safe and take care.
 

Hash Zeppelin

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All-chronic pain person here whos wife is an RN..she should know the difference between med use and rec use.She comes storming into house"what do you have growing out in the old garden" I told her 2 plants."I'm leaving,you are the dumbest man alive and why do you think you stand alone at the football games? You smell like weed and nobody wants to talk to you" well I went out and dug up the plants and reburied them off the property.I hope they do not die as they are days away from finishing.I am sick of being a second class citizen.Why can folks in 14 states use this precious medicine and I get hell for it? I don't want to lose my family but are I or are I not worthy of having some quality of life or do I have to be a puking,no sleep and in agony all day monster.Kids wouldn't leave with her and called her a psycho bitch.I dont want them to disrespect thier Mom but her treatment of me over my MEDICAL use of cannabis is getting old.We have been together 15 years and on our 1st date I told her I smoked pot and wasnt gonna stop.In a nutshel Im fucked and would rather be dead than to continue to have a shitty life I didnt deserve.:wallbash:

My mother is an R.N. in the south and after years of discussion her attitude about the drug war has changed from "all for it" to "completely against it."

I just presented her with facts, and told her how much it helps ulcerative colitis. I told her how it keeps my bowls from becoming inflamed which helps prevents me from getting colon cancer. She also did not like it when I was taking a doctor prescribed opiate for the pain. She is no fool she knows where that leads.
 

RockyMountainHi

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Life is too short for bunk bud and a woman with no heart.

Sounds more like she was looking for an excuse to leave.

Personally, I would let her! My pecker will complain, --- sigh..........

A good woman, is worth her weight in gold.

I live in a house, surrounded by females, a doberman, siamese cat, and about 35 phine assed medical grade pot plants. My job is to keep em all happy. It's a full time job!!! lol I suspect you would trade with me,, so maybe you should! -- I won't trade with you tho,, lol

It is illogical to expect a different result from the same old actions.

You gotta be in in Texas or southern states. I've known some good peeps that were "From Texas"
It's a great place to be from. So is NY.

Come out west - there's a pot plant on every corner and hash for dinner, leave the woman there tho.....
 
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La Voz

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I can't believe you've subjected yourself to this treatment for this long.Loveless miserable bitches tend to stay that way no matter what you attempt to appease them with.To use someone's illness,and maybe the fact they earn the lionshare of the money against you is a soulless act.

Just goes to show gingers got no soul.
 

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