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FreezerBoy

FreezerBoy

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Not to kick you when you're down but, this is getting worse by the minute. All other things aside, you're sticking around out of fear?
 
asstastic

asstastic

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dude that sounds like shes already pregnant i just had a baby with a girl like that and now i have a restraining order against her cuz her drama did not stop ide break it off before you get fucked
unless your fine raising a kid on yer own
cuz a bitch that crazy will not get better shell just find more justafication for treating you like shit
ive learned my lesson and if they argue with you over nothing and no matter how nice you are they dont let up then shes not gonna change no matter how much you want
i wish you the best and you deserve someone that will listen
 
funkervogt

funkervogt

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FreezerBoy said:
Not to kick you when you're down but, this is getting worse by the minute. All other things aside, you're sticking around out of fear?
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Nahhh. I'd could always leave her and head out to pretty much any state on the W. Coast and find a job if I wanted. There, I am a medical patient, with a still-active 12-month rec!

I like the town here a lot actually. It's pretty much a great balance of work and life, good weather and good people. However, it's small. She knows I grow, but again, I don't think she's the vengeful type...
 
Stoned Crow

Stoned Crow

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funkervogt said:
Bare with me. I promise this won't be an endless cycle of whiny ridiculousness. I just need to ask you guys something because honestly I have no one else I can confidently turn to about this...

I have a girlfriend. We were (are?) in love. This is the first person I feel I could really be with. I'm have not good with personal relationships and am a bit of a misanthrope. She is also a bit of a misanthrope. We are both a bit afraid of being alone and are reaching the baby-making/marraige age.

I have a budding career but put that aside to stay with her "in town" near a University where she works. I've got a job here for next year making good salary, and generally like the area, though staying here is professionally limiting. However, I'm staying for her, and felt it was the best decision to make.

Recently she's had a really tough go at work - she got a bad review and has not been taking it well. I've been extremely nice to her - doing all of the cooking, cleaning, shoulder to cry on. And frankly she's been not nice to me. She yells at me if I interrupt her while working (even if it's something small). She is easily set off if something doesn't go her way.

Last night she pestered me repeatedly about not wanting tomatoes in the dinner and kept calling me a "sissy". I tried to make light of it but she kept calling me a "sissy" and mocking me. I was being nothing but sweet before but then she came out of left field with it. When someone calls me a "sissy" it hurts because I was bullied relentlessly as a child and they used to call me then. I've since grown up but it still hurts (the Yummy inside me). I asked her to stop but she kept doing it.

When I couldn't stand it anymore I called her a sissy for moaning about all of the difficulties she's been having professionally as of late. She basically became defeated after a bad review and just said "fuck it, I'm not good enough to do this". It upset me more because her setback was minor and I'm basically staying here for her career and I felt she was just giving up.

Anyway, she was really upset at me. I apologized for saying it and explained why I did it (felt pestered).I then told her about my childhood and she laughed at the fact that I was bringing it up. She refused to accept she was being hurtful and won't apologize, but continues to tell me how much I hurt her. Earlier today she brought it up on chat, then promptly signed off while I was mid-sentence.

I'm beginning to think that we're not a good match. Every time I do something wrong I apologize and we make up. Every time she does something like this it's never her fault, and she refuses to accept she did anything wrong. I don't want to be with someone who is mean or abusive or inconsiderate, and I think she can sometimes be those things.

Now, for the big questions: how much of this back and forth hurtfulness is common in long-term relationships? Is it acceptable? Do you feel you're better off alone in a situation like this? Am I just being a big sissy or do you think I have some merit in being upset here?
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You make me sick......SC
 
Stoned Crow

Stoned Crow

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asstastic said:
thats fucking rude you should elaberate
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Well asstastic, here's my top 3 reasons why the original post makes me sick:

#1. He is asking the internet if the "back and forth hurtfulness" is acceptable in his current relationship. Come on, I mean, he is the one that has to wake up to that relationship every day. That's a call you should decide on your own.

#2. This person is hurt when called a "Sissy" by his significant other. Even after continuing being "nothing but sweet", it still hurt him. There becomes a point when you have to have a spine and stand up for yourself. The OP needs to ask, "Do I deserve being called a sissy?

#3. In what I would guess is the OP's most significant relationship, the other person laughed at him when trying to relate his childhood to his current feelings.

Yeah, I am rude, but I have a really hard time giving advice to people who refuse to help themselves.........SC
 
IWanaGetHiSoHi

IWanaGetHiSoHi

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Damn granny ... someone forget to spike your geritol? It isn't like funker makes a hobby out of these type of threads. If you got sick while reading the post it's Your Problem ... this Thread is about funkers Problem. Start a "funkers thread makes me sick yet I can't stop posting in it" Thread of your own.
 
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Cinderella99

This thread is living proof that Yummy himself is not the magnet, but the DRAMA associated with his threads. We all want to help (or at least look down our noses at somebody else)-- isn't that cool. right on FU...Ah... I mean, FV

As long as you keep this alive with the occasional response filled with (pathetic) pathos, the number of hits on this thread is limitless

Gee FV, you really are like Yummybud lol
 
flubnutz

flubnutz

stoned agin ...
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after that additional info, i'm thinking step back slowly, don't make any sudden moves, and go quietly out the door, and no grows while you're still in that town.

you're not playing social worker to some bimbo, are you?
 
funkervogt

funkervogt

donut engineer
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flubnutz said:
after that additional info, i'm thinking step back slowly, don't make any sudden moves, and go quietly out the door, and no grows while you're still in that town.

you're not playing social worker to some bimbo, are you?
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GAHHHH I knew that would be the inevitable conclusion.

4 Mosca C99 BX-1 in the flower chamber @ 3 weeks looking like they're at 4 weeks...

9 Dutchgrown/Rezdog Witches Weed (that's Rez' OGK/SFV/ChemD impregnated with Dutch's C99 sperm) in veg...

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
 
Justa6655321

Justa6655321

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College town = college girls = lots of horny young pussy all over the place = heaven

lifes too short for bullshit like this. Get the fuck our of there if for only one fucking reason..the sex sucks...get out, run brother run.
 
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Cinderella99

funkervogt said:
GAHHHH I knew that would be the inevitable conclusion.

4 Mosca C99 BX-1 in the flower chamber @ 3 weeks looking like they're at 4 weeks...

9 Dutchgrown/Rezdog Witches Weed (that's Rez' OGK/SFV/ChemD impregnated with Dutch's C99 sperm) in veg...

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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LOLLLLLLL....Thats a Good One!

Don't be a Yummybud LOL
 
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