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confession thread

Mrs.Babba

THE CHIMNEY!!
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After telling my friends I was gay (my male friends, females have impeccable gaydar) two of them expressed to me that they were bisexual. Or curious.

not just because they felt like they could "trust me" more than any of our other friends, but they want to fuck me (they think because they have known me for years that suddenly I am an easy lay or want to touch their weiners.) and I have not told anyone because I don't want to make things more awkward.

So I've been carrying that around for a very long time, and every now and then whenever I chill at one of their houses by myself and I get changed to go to sleep I feel very vulnerable wearing tiny gym shorts and a vneck shirt. It's made things awkward for a while.

Also, I know that one of my best friends is cheating on his girlfriend, but I am torn over whether or not I should interfere in their relationship.

maybe wear more cloths around your friends, then it might not be so awkward, and just tell em Im not that easy!! hehe but seriously, just try to let them know its not like that...
the best friend cheating thing is real tough, someones going to hate you if you get in the middle, I might just not say anything for a while and see what happens, she might find out on her own. But damnit, I would want to know tho!! soooo its a toughy like I said! lol good luck dear :)
 

Feyd

sunshine in a bag
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maybe wear more cloths around your friends, then it might not be so awkward, and just tell em Im not that easy!! hehe but seriously, just try to let them know its not like that...
the best friend cheating thing is real tough, someones going to hate you if you get in the middle, I might just not say anything for a while and see what happens, she might find out on her own. But damnit, I would want to know tho!! soooo its a toughy like I said! lol good luck dear :)
I am too non-confrontational to be like that. Like I try to pretend like when they tell me they are bi that they are just trying to like bond or something, and not hit on me. ugh.

Like for instance, a friend of mine was like. So man I've never told anyone but I'm bi-curious. And I mean I'm not like trying to say I like you, I mean I do man, but like, i still like girls.
*pause*
But like I'd be down to like, experiment. you know?
-uh no not really let's just watch this movie.
*pause*...later on:
so man I mean we should do something.
*trying to diffuse situation*
-Yeah well its like 2am there's nothing to do here at 2am. i'm tired i'm probably going to sleep after this movie
nah I mean we could like. do something. get what I'm saying?
-not happening.
wait, what do you mean? I didn't even suggest anything, what are you thinking I'm thinking about?
(trying to see if I am on the same train of thought as him)
-nothing I guess.
I mean, are you totally against that? I mean I'm open to whatever dude but whatever you are comfortable with.
-dude I'm tired and I don't know what you're saying I think I'm gonna go to sleep.


LIKE WOW. most AWKWARD night of my life. that was the short version. Seriously, who would risk a 5 year+ friendship because you are so desperate for sexual contact that you would try to hit on your best friend? ugh! >:[

And the girlfriend and the cheating thing... I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to save her the heartache but then again it's not MY business and I think there's still the possibility that he could tell her himself and ask for forgiveness or whatever...I'm sure that there's a better way the situation can be handled besides me ruining things.
 

Mrs.Babba

THE CHIMNEY!!
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yeah feyd,thats not right for your friend to put you on the spot like that, but some ppl dont think before they speak, was there drinking going on?..alcohol can make you way less inhibited and say and do stuff you normally wouldnt?
sounds like you handled it very well, so I wouldnt trip too bad, your a good guy and your friends better realize that! :D
 

Feyd

sunshine in a bag
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no that particular friend has never had a girlfriend, has only a few friends who regularly speak to him, and is very desperate for some sort of emotional connection or affection, and i think very lonely and desperately desires some sort of sexual contact. i feel extremely bad for him because in a way i understand but at the same time i still am slightly offended and disturbed.

i dont know if it has anything to do with it but he has aspergers, and he is very awkward socially and especially interacting with girls. he is usually very blunt and straight forward so he usually does not have that wall in between thought/mouth. he just says things and does not understand that he should not say certain things the way he does or at all.

and thanks. :) and i think my friends do. all of my female friends tell me whenever i get all emo over a boy or something (trust me not in a yummybud way) they are all aww you're such an amazing person. you are the catch. etc etc.

to be totally honest i think this friend has had a thing for me for quite some time and thought that perhaps i did too or that i would not be adverse to the thought of being with him because i have always said that a good relationship begins with a good friendship. he just let his hormones control his thoughts. he also asked me if i was the pitcher or catcher which actually really offended me and i did not even feel that i should dignify that with a response.
 

iGro4Me

The Hopeful Protagonist
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Ulterior motives suck ballz

I had just the opposite experience Feyd, a friend of mine who happens to be gay told me it's sort of a "game" he and his other gay friends play.

They try to get a professed straight guy to do something sexual with them....kind of like a "Wee-Blo" (<---sorry, couldn't resist :nanana:) scout badge.

It does suck that a "friend" would put you on the spot that way.
 

madrecinco

Active member
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Feyd is a really cool gay guy ....monogamous by nature and I like that he is not a slut.
I like the diversity here and Feyd can teach us much as we all need to learn tolerance for other lifestyles. Especially a liberal weed community.

Pops and I teach about crazy old seniors and Feyd teaches of the gay lifestyle.

Cultural exchange is a good thing. Feyd is a really good role model for young gays who might be coming out and post here. Weed is used a lot in the gay communities.
They might be advocates we need for the cause. Sexual preference is a decision and for that person and nobody should ever ridicule them for it.

It takes true courage to be honest on a weed site that is prolly mostly heterosexual.
I just hope that stoners in general are more enlightened and tolerant than the average person.
Most here are INDEED! Tolerance is a good thing.

WTF is porkcharsui?????
 
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heavy dank nugg

I I cant wait for sunday night at 10 so I can keep up with the kardashieans. ohhhh and Khole is my favorite.
 

luv2garden

Member
When I was 13 yrs old we went to Hershey Park in Pennsylvania.
I had a hot dog and about 30 minutes later had a BAD attack and needed the bathroom quick!
Well ran all the way to the other side of the park to the mens room.
All the stalls were taken I had NO CHOICE I whipped my pants off and took one in the urinal!!
Cleaned myself with the paper towels next to it and Ran out!!
Well a kid walking in with his dad was like WHAT IS THAT SMELL DAD!!!
That bathroom was closed the rest of the day with police type tape!!
Funny how it was Hersey Park too lol….
 
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heavy dank nugg

ok ok i also like chunky girls not huge but curvy ya know. I have Anne Hathaway on top of the spank bank. list then khloe kardashian then Chloe Agnew.
 

Thundurkel

Just Call me Urkle!!
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I've been smoking Blue Dream Full Melt tested at 68% THC!!!!
 

bambam

Member
Had a good friend with a nice looking (100%blood)sister...........Walked in on them having sex! Str8 up nailing it.I tagged it also. She was a freak and we were very young, I was 13,he was 13, and she was 15.:(
 
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heavy dank nugg

talk about keeping it in the family. so you got naughty with a dude and his sister....???? thats straight up trailer park..
 

bambam

Member
Yea i know Kharmagirl......It was bad i know. Its not like i joined in with them. I had my way with her on my own. Hell she lived next to me. What was i to do? Really i was 13 and she was a 15er with a banging body that put all the 7th graders i was looking to shame..I was just a boy.:(
 

trouble

Well-known member
Veteran
Back in the early 80's, in the middle of a 10 year non-stop cocaine, qualude, and alcohol party, I let a "Spider Monkey" fuck a girl in the ear that passed-out at my home.

I just sat there in a drug induced daze, unable to intervene, and watched the monkey mount her head, pull-out his little monkey stick, and fuck her in the ear as if there was no tomorrow. She finally came to, pulled the monkey off her head, and threw it across the room.


Needless to say, the poor girl was the talk-of-town after being molested in the ear by a spider monkey. I haven't seen her around since, and have always felt somewhat guilty for allowing the monkey to have his way with her.




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