I think if you let her know you guys arent judging her. FInd out why she is puffing is it peer presure, Did she do it on her own or with friends? did she like it? Was it her idea? be honest about lettin her know you guys are both so open that she can totally always discuss anything with you all sex, drugs, etc.... And that opens up the all important word Communication... once you have that established she should always be up front about stuff with you guys from there on out.. And then again ya never know with teens these days.. I hope that gives a lil more help.. ohh one other thing friends of ours tried the different approach and used news articles, internet video of teen gurls gettin violated, murdered, etc.. the scare tactic. We have not spoke with them for a bit so i dont know if it worked or not.. Its just another option i guess. Good Luck brother to you both and the youngin.. peace..
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