Ganglere
Member
I am aware that I risk becoming Yummy2, but that can't be helped.
Here is the deal. I'm with this girl, and she's pretty great. Most of her atributes are a perfect match for me. However, when it comes to sex, she's extremely passive. She's down with me pleasing her, she actually gets pretty wild. But she never take her turn. Her idea of sex is me working my ass off and her lying there enjoying herself. I would do anything for her (or any girl I'm with), and I frequently do.
After having been together for quite some time I am starting to feel really frustrated and I am considering ending it. With my upbringing it feels wrong to finnish my relationship with this reasoning, but I feel like I'm loosing out on my life. And I feel taken advantage off.
What I'd like to know is: do you think you would stand for this? Is sexual problems (even admittedly minor ones) a good reason for breaking up with somebody? I love her and shit, but love-schmove...
Input would be grand
Here is the deal. I'm with this girl, and she's pretty great. Most of her atributes are a perfect match for me. However, when it comes to sex, she's extremely passive. She's down with me pleasing her, she actually gets pretty wild. But she never take her turn. Her idea of sex is me working my ass off and her lying there enjoying herself. I would do anything for her (or any girl I'm with), and I frequently do.
After having been together for quite some time I am starting to feel really frustrated and I am considering ending it. With my upbringing it feels wrong to finnish my relationship with this reasoning, but I feel like I'm loosing out on my life. And I feel taken advantage off.
What I'd like to know is: do you think you would stand for this? Is sexual problems (even admittedly minor ones) a good reason for breaking up with somebody? I love her and shit, but love-schmove...
Input would be grand