Is It OK, For Your Better Half To Snoop Through Your Phone?

[teemu shalanie]

password protect that shit krunch
'I figger the less she knows the better
TS

 

[BlueBlazer]

Without trust, any relationship is doomed. My wife and I never go through each other's things and we've been married over 30 years. Everyone needs privacy. Everyone.

 

[vonforne]

My girl found naked pictures of a couple ex girlfriends...



But now im thinking, can I trust her?

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They are ex´s. You should have deleted the pics long ago. It is disrespectful to here what you have done.

The question should now be.......can she trust you. Goes both way brother.

V

 

[Mtn Dew]

They are ex´s. You should have deleted the pics long ago. It is disrespectful to here what you have done.

The question should now be.......can she trust you. Goes both way brother.

V

My lady of 15yrs has access to everything but asb account and the forums i roam . but phone and everything else yes . Cuz i have NOTHING to hide from her at all.

 

[yortbogey]

if she was REALLY U'r partner.... there would be NO~NEED to Hide ~NADA....
past...present...or future....

 

[Harry Gypsna]

They are ex´s. You should have deleted the pics long ago. It is disrespectful to here what you have done.

The question should now be.......can she trust you. Goes both way brother.

V

I disagree... My ex had a shoebox with pics of old boyfriends and her with them, mostly ordinary pics from holidays or special occasions, but a few racy polaroids too(the days before cameraphones or the digital camera takeover).
They were her memories...nothing to do with me. Should she have burnt them?

 

[h^2 O]

no

 

[supermanlives]

is it ok ? no do they all do it ? yes. they also check your email if they can.

 

[supermanlives]

did she make you erase them is the question ? lol

 

[Scottish Research]

This is what they do. They snoop around.

In a former life I was an accomplished photographer, and I took naked photos of several girls that I was helping. Well after I got married the wife found this box of nude photos; all pre-digital and b & w. She had a fit but got over it.

Not sure why you keep those nudes on your phone, but to each his own.

Good luck.

R.Fortune

 

[supermanlives]

i bet anyone with a gf. get you a nanny cam and leave your phone out . if no immediate interest call it a few times. sit back and watch what happens.i keep my other phone in the car.

 

[yerboyblue]

It's only okay if you have nothing to hide, and know how to make them feel like a complete ass for doing it.

 

[dagnabit]

define "snoop"

hell i have to convince my wife to even pick up my phone to help me while im driving!
she is an iphone and im a droid so she cant stand the thing.
but i figure i aint got shit to hide so "snoop" away

 

[supermanlives]

my gf once answered the phone and did buisness for me . i lost money on that deal. got no nude pics on my phone . but its my fucking phone.

 

[gloryoskie]

Her previous boyfriends have pics of her on their phones, right? : )

At least you know she goes through your private things. Always assume she does fellas.

She was honest with you about it at least. Reinforce that good behavior. A nice dinner and some jewelry should do the trick.

Has she found your porn stash yet, or saving that for your next thread?

Giggles.

 

[RetroGrow]

Only you can answer that question, and I think you already have when you stated she is a "keeper". Funny enough, this exact situation is an episode of Two & A Half Men. I'm guessing she saw it. One of Charley's exes sent him topless photos while he was engaged. Of course his fiancee found them and made him delete them. He didn't want to, but eventually caved (but he imprinted them on his brain first). I don't think there is anything wrong with you keeping nude photos of exes. I have nude photos of almost every girl I have been with going back 40 years. Found a box of them the other night and it was fun "reminiscing". I had forgotten about them. But in this digital age, everyone has photos of everything. I don't think it was really malicious on her part. Jealousy often makes people act out of character. I wouldn't condemn her for it, considering her other "good" qualities. But if the photos are still a problem, send them to me, and I will take care of them
I didn't vote in the poll, because it's your decision. Only you can make it, and I think you already have. You certainly can't dump her for that. Curiosity is a powerful force. Let it go......she sounds like a good girl.

 

[vonforne]

Should she have burnt them?

yep. all but the one of her first boyfriend. or her prom.

 

[Space Toker]

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[hayday]

My wife can do whatever she wants.I'm sure she realize's the consequences of being nosey.
Just like me,just like you.

 

[Space Toker]

she got you by the balls better go see Jarrod!
Seriously though absolutely not! There are some things that should be private no matter what in my opinion that is one of them. unless the sex is really good then ignore everything I said!