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HOPS5K

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DarthFader, the force is strong with you...man...lol...good advice right there from DarthFader.

Now, how much does Comic Con cost anyways? that would be a riot! nerdy girls far as the eye can see...essentially, a nerd nirvana of sorts..ahhh, my family..hahaha

can't wait till summer time!! yeehaw!
 

HOPS5K

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chad vader is hilarious...just watched that and LOL'd...good stuff "Chad's got a daate."
 

Stoner4Life

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It's absolutely freaky lookin' in on a thread to find Yummybud's avatar staring back @ me.......
 

HOPS5K

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sorry about the yummy avatar...just a show of small support for yummy, where ever he may have went to..lol...

anyways, I went on a a few dates already again and it was fun..staying up late talking, smoking, listening to music...good times...some of the least suspecting people (women, ladies) let me know they were interested..very nice, but I can only go on one date at a time.

only one is very up with cannabis though, the others, not so into it like I thought..1/3 ain't bad right?
 

thaicat

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and about the fighting,i think that makes an attraction stronger,when you have brief feelings of hatred,and mixed emotional feelings,i think its healthy to fight in a relationship,it helps to get points across,and learn where you stand in the relationship,and yeah,alot of the younger crowd is attracted to that sorta thing,its called passion


You my Dear, are obviously Batshit crazy...Somehow, I always knew my ex was stalking me on here...J/K, LOL

Seriously, ''passion'' should be left to writing, art, sports and hobbies. Not relationships...

A relationship should not be a lot of work, riddled with fighting and arguing, despite what ''experts'' claim. I run at the first sight of either. Compatible people ''click'' naturally, they share the same interests or most interests and simply exist with each other without thinking about it.

I agree with the previous poster...Find a clean fuck buddy, better yet, buy a dog and box of tissues and avoid the whole relationship nightmare as a whole.
 

thaicat

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I think women become enthralled by all that shit for multiple reasons. Some were raised in abusive/inflammatory family. Some are simply addicted to chaos and disfunction (This is usually young girls.) I think many have grown up watching television and actually believe that relationships should be explosive...

Please believe me when I say; I have absolutely no problem expressing my opinion or distaste of any issue and it's almost never sugar-coated. The thing to remember is opposites do not attract. Well, they may attract each other but it's certainly not conducive to a healthy relationship. Too many people are too afraid to be alone and jump into the first relationship they come across. They've been brainwashed to believe they NEED to be in a relationship or something is wrong with them. If you're not comfortable with yourself, you'll never be comfortable in a relationship.
 

huligun

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I think women become enthralled by all that shit for multiple reasons. Some were raised in abusive/inflammatory family. Some are simply addicted to chaos and disfunction (This is usually young girls.) I think many have grown up watching television and actually believe that relationships should be explosive...

Please believe me when I say; I have absolutely no problem expressing my opinion or distaste of any issue and it's almost never sugar-coated. The thing to remember is opposites do not attract. Well, they may attract each other but it's certainly not conducive to a healthy relationship. Too many people are too afraid to be alone and jump into the first relationship they come across. They've been brainwashed to believe they NEED to be in a relationship or something is wrong with them. If you're not comfortable with yourself, you'll never be comfortable in a relationship.


People are looked at as freaks if they don't pair off with someone. There is this sense of urgency to get the freak camera off of themselves. I know people that slide from one relationship to another without any kind of break.

Whenever I break up with someone there is a lot of healing that needs to be done before I can think straight. The older I get the longer I need to heal. One day I may never heal. One can only hope.

I have a friend that says, "If it flies, floats or fucks... Rent it". I am not there but I think of these words of wisdom every time I venture into the three Fs
 

mean mr.mustard

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I gotta agree with thaicat.

Brief periods of hatred do not equal passion.

If you're fighting for the makeup sex then just get to the makeup sex.

All the dumb shit gets even dumber after your twenties.

:2cents:
 

catalyte

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HOPS5K

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Mr. Clean Cut comes through with some fine honey on a Saturday...boo yah! that gal is beautiful, gets my Saturday started right!! boo yah!
 

thaicat

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People are looked at as freaks if they don't pair off with someone. There is this sense of urgency to get the freak camera off of themselves. I know people that slide from one relationship to another without any kind of break.

Whenever I break up with someone there is a lot of healing that needs to be done before I can think straight. The older I get the longer I need to heal. One day I may never heal. One can only hope.

I have a friend that says, "If it flies, floats or fucks... Rent it". I am not there but I think of these words of wisdom every time I venture into the three Fs


Absolutely!
I, myself used to stress over not continually dating someone. At some point, around 30 I guess. I just woke up and realized it's much easier to be alone than be in a chaotic relationship with constant drama. Matter of fact, after my divorce, I realized that I was out of my mind and in no shape to even choose a partner. Up until that time and without realizing it I'd pick the craziest woman I could find. Afterward, I'd wonder why the relationship failed. Oil and water don't make a good union...
 
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ThirstyKenny

Hi there HOPS5K, good to meet you. Sounds like you're having a great time mate!! A man after my own heart- except for the comic book thing haha. I have to admit though, some of those comic, computer type gals are deeeerrrrnnnn cute!! :D

Best of luck and above all, keep having fun!!
 

HOPS5K

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not to try and sound uber cool or anything or e pimp or whatever..but, tonight is going to be awesome...another date with that same girl who I tried to hook up with a few months ago, but couldn't get a hold of cuz I ran out of minutes on my phone..well, she's back man...we're gonna bake up and get drunk, play games and even do shots of jello or something..hahaha..fucking awesome...who wants to listen to Bon Jovi and smoke a bowl, lol...hahahaha...sounds like a kick ass saturday night to me man....herb, alcohol and a fine foxey lady to kick it with...hopefully things turn around for old hops tonight for the better.
 

Stoner4Life

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not to try and sound uber cool or anything or e pimp or whatever..but, tonight is going to be awesome...another date with that same girl who I tried to hook up with a few months ago, but couldn't get a hold of cuz I ran out of minutes on my phone..well, she's back man...we're gonna bake up and get drunk, play games and even do shots of jello or something..hahaha..fucking awesome...who wants to listen to Bon Jovi and smoke a bowl, lol...hahahaha...sounds like a kick ass saturday night to me man....herb, alcohol and a fine foxey lady to kick it with...hopefully things turn around for old hops tonight for the better.

I'm gonna request that as long as this thread's up n' running & you're making posts like the one above that you switch back to the Yummybud avatar.......



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thnx bro, much better.
you'll find a sweetie real soon.

:tumbleweed:
 
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ThirstyKenny

r u serious about the bon jovi part? oh the horror!

Gee i don't know so much bombadil.360, I think the man might be on to something. While she is getting nice n giggly from the jelly shots and weed ol' romanic Jon Bon Jovi comes on singing one of his emotionally supportive yet somehow manly ballads. Their eyes meet. He smokes another bowl and the rest is history.:woohoo:
 

HOPS5K

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ThirstyKenny is absolutely right.

"She gave love a bad name" :)

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Hydro-Soil

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A relationship should not be a lot of work, riddled with fighting and arguing, despite what ''experts'' claim. I run at the first sight of either. Compatible people ''click'' naturally, they share the same interests or most interests and simply exist with each other without thinking about it.
Totally agreed...

This is what you're looking for when dating. :dance013:

I don't mind healthy disagreements, everyone has them. No fighting and arguing though... life is soooooo much more productive with out all that crap in the way. :)

Kick the non-tokers to the curb... sorry. No herb? The Curb!

Stay Safe! :blowbubbles:
 

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