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How do gardeners date safely?
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phenoi3arbidoll
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I would be mad if I got negative rep. I totally agree with your opinion on the matter.
StoneElemental
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Sorry I've thought much on the subject myself and I really don't think theres a way. I'm just open that I smoke and nothing further. Right now I've been with my girlfriend over 2 years and while she doesn't participate much if at all shes ok with me just being who I am and doing what I am passionate about. I'm at least ok with that and I hope you can at least find the same thing...A person who accepts who you are and cares to stay. Take care and best of luck to ya.
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straintester
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been single 5+ years. found the perfect girl a few years ago, she was a grower too, running like 6 lights. long story short sometimes people are perfect for each other, but meet at the wrong time in life.
in my opinion, the only way to truly be safe as a grower in a relationship is to be in a relationship with someone as dedicated to the plant and community as you are.
in my opinion, the only way to truly be safe as a grower in a relationship is to be in a relationship with someone as dedicated to the plant and community as you are.
I met my wife in a shroom shop in japan, we were both attending the same conference and recognized each other. Her parents on the other hand are another matter. . . Always remember you're marrying the whole family.
StoneElemental
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Haha I don't believe in marriage (just my opinion) in any case even when you get in a serious relationship it still feels like you're dating the whole damn family. You're too right for words there geo.
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OMountainMix
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Straintester, you got POSITIVE rep, at least in the last two pages of this thread. Did you get negative rep elsewhere??
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OMountainMix
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I just gave you some positive rep for post #84 just above. How did it show up for you??
I don't think that this is a good way about doing things. I think that acting like an adult, and not treating each other like pieces of garbage, and if a relationship does take a downward spiral, simply remain mature adults, recognize difficulties, and improve or break it off before too much animosity causes undue and unintended consequences.
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lil skunk baby
"Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned".....uh..., that should pretty much say it all.
OMountainMix
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If only it worked that way, amannamedtruth! People can be immature.
ZackMorris
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This is a really great thread topic and id love to hear more opinions on the subject. Hate to sound like a bitch but deep down no one wants to be alone.
TheHashAssassin
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I find it rather easy really. Just dont date or get involved with people who arent cool with the herb in the first place. Worked for me so far.
dating and fucking is not a problem. the problem starts when you get into a relationship and have the girl staying at your place often times she will find out over time. personally i havent been in a comitted relationship for 2 years and dont plan to do so.
MAD DAWG
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I can totaly relate. I am a single guy and I do small personal indoor grows. I keep thinking to myself, if I meet a woman interested in dating, how am I going to have her over? So far I haven't been faced with that possibility. Not sure what I would do. Right now I don't know any women who likes to smoke bud. But I sure would like to meet one. Would sure make bringing up the growing thing go a little easier. Not many women are going to have anything to do with a guy who smokes and grows if they don't. Ideally I would love to meet a woman who would like to help out or grow together. That would be cool.
StoneElemental
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I've gotta agree with you here. However I would not want my significant other involved in on a grow considering the legal trouble we can still get into in our modern system/society. In an ideal and free world I'd open up shop with her to sell all kinds of homegrown ripe organic herbs, roots, fruits, veggies and whatnots of all kinds. Until that happens I'll bear that burden alone in my own civil disobedience.
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ZackMorris
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Hmm seems like we have enough chics on here that we may should look in to figuring out a way to do some match making. The prospect of having a gf that grew is more then i can even wrap my head around. How many single girls are on here i wonder? I mean ive seen the threads on other sites (maybe here too) that are titles FL growers or Michigan growers. Id be willing to divulge my area and state and trust i wasnt talking to a cop if someone had more then 25 or so posts. I dont know... just thinking out loud.
