Is It OK, For Your Better Half To Snoop Through Your Phone?

[krunchbubble]

My girl is livid because she decided to snoop through my phone when I was busy and found naked pictures of a couple ex girlfriends...

She confronts me, blowing the fuck up. I then pointed out thats they were taken a couple years ago, from an old phone. If you upload your pics to your T-mobile account, they transfer to your new phone automatically ......

She apologizes...

But now im thinking, can I trust her? She just went through my phone, I feel like its an invasion of my privacy...

 

[ThePizzaMan]

If you care about her...than I would put up with it. If you don't...then I would lock my phone and be done with it. It's not right...but we don't live in a perfect world.

TpM

 

[Iron_Lion]

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[Mr.Bill]

If she was going through your phone then she doesn't trust you, either because she generally has trust issues or has done something that would break your trust out of a guilty mind trying to rationalize doing it. Either way it's hard to trust someone who doesn't trust you, and going through a significant others phone without permission in an obviously subversive fashion such as you described is an invasion of privacy and a truly untrustworthy action. THE REAL QUESTION is can/are you get it out of your mind or is it going to be a pivot point between you and hers relationship? I dunno I'm ripped and rambling. Good luck though man.

 

[Storm Shadow]

Naked Pics of other Men should make her concerned


**Yet another waste of IC Server Space**

L.O.S.E.R

 

[dalilguy]

Lock it. She will continue to do it. Women are weird like that. Ur prolly out long hours of the day an shit.. It comes with the job so they start thinking stupid shit. My wife has a car on her finger an she still finds the need to try an snoop. Now it stays locked an if u have an iPhone you have a ton of features available to u incase u do have shit u need to hide or certain txt an calls u gotta block during certain hours.

Let her know u don't go through her shit an you would like the same respect. Of course u can always ask her what she's upto? Usually when they are acting shady they are upto something lol

 

[dasher65]

Face it...most women are insecure about themselves. My wife is welcome to go through my phone whenever she likes. If I didn't the curiosity would kill her!!! I just make doubly sure I have nothing on there to hide!!!

Now...as for going through my postal mail...that's another thing entirely.

 

[fukndenny]

wait... you uploaded pics of your ex's naked to tmobile?

i think im confused.

why would you upload them to tmobile? can't you just store photos on your phone?

what am i missing here.

 

[Sir_Syzurp]

Same here, I just let my wife check on me... I don't do anything I need to hide from her, I just give her a hard time every time I catch her doing it lol. The one that pisses me off is diving in to the wallet without telling or asking me.

 

[Sir_Syzurp]

and to go with the naked pics, a buddy of mine has been with 2 playmates and an ex of his overheard him bragging that he still had their playboys and one day while he was out of town in Utah doing a job she found his storage bin with the mags and burnt them up.

 

[krunchbubble]

Face it...most women are insecure about themselves. My wife is welcome to go through my phone whenever she likes. If I didn't the curiosity would kill her!!! I just make doubly sure I have nothing on there to hide!!!

Now...as for going through my postal mail...that's another thing entirely.

I have no problem her going through the phone, if she asks. Those pics are so deep in there, I dont know where they are...

wait... you uploaded pics of your ex's naked to tmobile?

i think im confused.

why would you upload them to tmobile? can't you just store photos on your phone?

what am i missing here.

You have an option of where you want them uploaded to, your Tmobile account, your sim card or your SD card....

 

[resinryder]

Did she say why she felt she needed to go through your phone? If it takes some reassurance on her part, let her delete the pics. If you want to hang onto the pics, load em on a card and keep that hide where she can't find it that way you can relive the memories anytime you want while rocking out with your cock out.
Looks like you have your very own cannastalker following you around. lol

 

[benzo]

ummmm.. what would u have done if the situation was reversed?

thats your answer.


edit: hey if she didnt break shit in rage before talking to you , i say she might be a keeper

 

[fukndenny]

You have an option of where you want them uploaded to, your Tmobile account, your sim card or your SD card....

ahhh.

never used tmobile, was confused.

 

[Stoner4Life]

can't give a bona fide opinion w/out seeing the pics myself, you shoulda made that a poll (pole?) option bro.......

btw, now's a good time to make sure your gf falls asleep before you do or learn to sleep w/one eye open.

 

[Harry Gypsna]

Is it OK?? Hell no!
Is it inevitable sometimes with some people(dudes do it too!)?? Hell yeah!
Have you ever had someone stay in, or look after your home, and you come home one day and realise that all your drawers and cupboards and boxes of junk in the garage have been rummaged through? Nothing at all is missing, but you know it's been searched because your stuff just is not how you left it?
Some people just can't help themselves, they are extremely nosey and snooping is a compulsion-literally pathological. Some people are really insecure and paranoid.
The depth of the relationship dictates if I would tolerate this or not. If you want to give this lady children or spend the rest of your life with her and think that these are possibilities, then you put up with it and try to make some boundries, maybe suggest therapy if it really is major insecurity and paranoia-that can be dangerous.
If you are just passing time then I'd say bye bye personally.
What does she know about your horticultural activities?

 

[razor ridge]

u should have known better

 

[sso]

it depends on the relationship.


if its a share all and everything relationship, then yeah its allright, if its a phone with other capabilities (she might have just checked it to look at photos or see what games are on it)
"hey, its a small computer thats incidentally a phone too, and im bored." kinda thing..


but if she does not trust you and has no reason for it, girl has got some issues, might want to talk it out with her, help her get over it (maybe a scummy boyfriend in the past or a dad who did the same.(fooled around))
if she´s completely nuts and wont get over it and allow herself to trust you, well, unless you absolutely love her with all your heart and cant imagine your old age without her,
id look for a way to end it and fast.
but your situation is probably somewhere between those extremes i mentioned, if ya love her, id just talk it out and see what happens,

quite alot of people have trust issues and are still fine people.

its also a bit of a compliment.

it says that she thinks that you are hot enough to worry about other women and losing you.

 

[sso]

and btw, i voted no its not allright.

Unless, she´s perfectly fine with you going through all her stuff.

 

[krunchbubble]

Is it OK?? Hell no!
Is it inevitable sometimes with some people(dudes do it too!)?? Hell yeah!
Have you ever had someone stay in, or look after your home, and you come home one day and realise that all your drawers and cupboards and boxes of junk in the garage have been rummaged through? Nothing at all is missing, but you know it's been searched because your stuff just is not how you left it?
Some people just can't help themselves, they are extremely nosey and snooping is a compulsion-literally pathological. Some people are really insecure and paranoid.
The depth of the relationship dictates if I would tolerate this or not. If you want to give this lady children or spend the rest of your life with her and think that these are possibilities, then you put up with it and try to make some boundries, maybe suggest therapy if it really is major insecurity and paranoia-that can be dangerous.
If you are just passing time then I'd say bye bye personally.
What does she know about your horticultural activities?

Ya, she is a keeper....

Last month she made 4 100+ mile trips for me, to grab product while I was working, or at the 9er game with the ic family....

Just looking through my phone bugs the fuck out of me....