I'll have one more stab at it too. Anybody who gives a simple answer to this question doesn't know what they are talking about.
There is no evidence that suggests any of the traits we are breeding for are sex-linked in cannabis. It used to bother me somewhat that I had observed vastly different ratios of intersex males:females in the same line but this could be explained away via various hormones affecting/modifying intersexed males differently from intersexed females.
So if we accept the above to be true -and I really believe we have to or start breeding by way of bizarro unfounded theories- we can cease all this BS that has come before on this topic. This is not a simple question, and the answer has never been simple either. So let's get past that before we can even begin.
What we are really talking about is which to use to increase the odds of success.
Immediately and unavoidably we need to start talking about things such as heterozygosity, homozygosity, phenotypic evaluation, genotypic evaluation, etc, etc, etc.
It is extremely difficult to place a phenotypic value on a male drug cannabis plant (as apposed to females), we are not breeding hemp. So we need to observe its progeny, to place a genotypic value on it, this is what matters. What might we do to increase the odds of success?
Here is just one single example:
Let's say I have an F1 cross in mind, a Mexico/Afghanistan and that quality of smoke is highest on the list of goals. They both are relatively true breeding (homozygous) for many traits. However, they differ in the percentages of high quality smoke within their respective populations. Let's say that the Mexico has historically/generationally held a much higher percentage of individuals per growout that were exceptional smoke. Ok, then we'd likely be correct in assuming that quality of smoke was more fixed (homozygous) in the line from Mexico. So to increase the odds of success, we're going to be testcrossing males from the Mexico population to phenotypically selected females from the Afghanistan population. Because we know we don't have to look as far through the Mexico population to find what we're looking for in comparison to the Afghanistan population.
Can't have the conversation without these types of considerations, once we get past this not being a simple question with no simple answers. -Tom
Okay to sum that up into a short sweet answer are you saying that the one that is closest in character to the goal you're seeking should be the male?