Here's an idea.. Grow some weed, then come to ICmag for advice about growing weed...
After you start that, stop trying to expect a bunch of stoners that don't really give a shit to fix your shit... That's what this place is for...
http://drphil.com/articles/category/5/
I don't expect anyone to fix anything of mine. I come to the toker dens to vent. I am not the only person on this site that types non marijuana threads. In fact I do grow and that is why I have so many problems controlling those around me. Growing with other people knowing is the most stressful and vulnerable position I have ever been in. If I were Not growing I would have taken these people in my life to task a long time ago. My girl's daughter even hinted at federal prison to me one time when I was scolding her. I am not a big player by any means, but I still don't want any problems. I come on here asking a question about people throwing and breaking phones. I did not come here to have anyone take me under their wing, but if anyone else feels the stress of trying to be a grower and other while in a chaotic relationship they are free to chime in. I don't go to threads and trash people that I don't agree with. I just ignore those for the most part.