With all due respect, I think sending them to your own residence is stupid...unless you grow elsewhere. Find a trusted friend who has no intentions to grow or other questionable activity, offer him or her some free herbs once you've grown em out...everybody wins.
Didn't the Shmoe bust start from a kid who did not use a safe address? Then he ratted on JS...
I did read a news story a while back about a doctor in Illinois, I think, whose seeds got caught by customs 2 times within a short period of time and they went and searched his house and found a grow.
So I'd recommend if your seeds ever get stopped by customs, wait a while before ordering again from the same vendor or an even safer way would be to order from a vender in a different country.