thanks for all the advice and support guys.
arctic: i've contacted the local employment commissions and any labor offices i've found, i think it's just a matter of me being one of hundreds of people fighting for the same thing.
alpo: nah i dont. my dad is cfo at a utility company and got my younger brother a job there.. but he doesn't talk to me and wouldn't help me if i asked.
i even asked my brother if his restaurant he sous chefs at is hiring but he told me no. but i think it has something to do with him not wanting me working alongside him somehow and possibly reflecting upon his image there? i dont know.
i think my best option really is to just enlist in the navy (which i do want to do) asap, this means cleaning out entirely, which i've been doing, but i haven't smoked or done anything else for that matter in like two weeks. i might go sometime in november to get processed. if i were to enlist with my friend, all it would mean is that we would be going to basic for the same amount of time, not necessarily being alongside each other the entire four years doing the same shit.
part of me wants to think joining together will prevent us from going apart as friends, but that happened years ago when he got into heroin (which created a rift that took a long time to repair)
i can't put my future on hold for a friend. i can't really imagine what it would be like to not have the friendship i have with him though.
arctic: i've contacted the local employment commissions and any labor offices i've found, i think it's just a matter of me being one of hundreds of people fighting for the same thing.
alpo: nah i dont. my dad is cfo at a utility company and got my younger brother a job there.. but he doesn't talk to me and wouldn't help me if i asked.
i even asked my brother if his restaurant he sous chefs at is hiring but he told me no. but i think it has something to do with him not wanting me working alongside him somehow and possibly reflecting upon his image there? i dont know.
i think my best option really is to just enlist in the navy (which i do want to do) asap, this means cleaning out entirely, which i've been doing, but i haven't smoked or done anything else for that matter in like two weeks. i might go sometime in november to get processed. if i were to enlist with my friend, all it would mean is that we would be going to basic for the same amount of time, not necessarily being alongside each other the entire four years doing the same shit.
part of me wants to think joining together will prevent us from going apart as friends, but that happened years ago when he got into heroin (which created a rift that took a long time to repair)
i can't put my future on hold for a friend. i can't really imagine what it would be like to not have the friendship i have with him though.