simple green
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I'm in mid 30's so were talking about a serious relationship...not talking about pulling some ass or anything...
...This is a nice girl that I've known for a while, like and respect and enjoy spending time with, flirted with, but never took the next step because of this huge difference in our lives and the legality that surrounds it....
I've known this girl for awhile and trust her a lot....she' doesn't deserve to be hurt by falling for a guy then learning they'll never be compatible....
She brought up last night that there's something between us and we should be dating (she has that right, i fear by flirting w/ her all the time when i know she's game, it's leading her on...starting to feel like an ass)...and I told her straight up that I smoke herbs, more then she'd think, and always saw myself with a woman that did too...She said she didn't that that would ever be a sticking point in a relationship.....
There's part of me that thinks the only thing thats fair to her is to put my cards on the table from the getgo, let her know of my hobby, and give her the chance to bail before things get serious and someone gets hurt....
Who's in such a relationship?
How long did things go before you let her know you grow?
Did she say it would be ok at first, then get settled in and bitchy about it?
Of course your worried about the break-up/rat out combo too...
Not sure what to do.....
...This is a nice girl that I've known for a while, like and respect and enjoy spending time with, flirted with, but never took the next step because of this huge difference in our lives and the legality that surrounds it....
I've known this girl for awhile and trust her a lot....she' doesn't deserve to be hurt by falling for a guy then learning they'll never be compatible....
She brought up last night that there's something between us and we should be dating (she has that right, i fear by flirting w/ her all the time when i know she's game, it's leading her on...starting to feel like an ass)...and I told her straight up that I smoke herbs, more then she'd think, and always saw myself with a woman that did too...She said she didn't that that would ever be a sticking point in a relationship.....
There's part of me that thinks the only thing thats fair to her is to put my cards on the table from the getgo, let her know of my hobby, and give her the chance to bail before things get serious and someone gets hurt....
Who's in such a relationship?
How long did things go before you let her know you grow?
Did she say it would be ok at first, then get settled in and bitchy about it?
Of course your worried about the break-up/rat out combo too...
Not sure what to do.....