Am I bi-sexual?

[CannaCompulsory]

It works find the most repulsive video doesn't have to be porn and watch it enough and it won't even bother you anymore.

yea i know desensitization "works" but some things perhaps we should not try to desensitize ourselves to IMHO>its kinda like reprogramming your gut instincts.
imo, definitely dont watch any porn 50 times or you might be considered slightly obsessive, even if your trying to 'deprogram' yourself
Dudes orginal post is right on in my estimation. I dont think most people like to watch other people doing it, it most certainly is voyeurism, but very popular these days, you might not even realize it; you have been desensitized.

 

[CannaCompulsory]

88% gay 22% bi

88% gay 22% bi

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A 2002 Gallup inquiry asked Americans to estimate the percentage of American men and the percentage of American women who are homosexual. The average estimates were that 21% of men are gay and 22% of women are lesbians. In fact, roughly a quarter of the public thinks more than 25% of men and 25% of women are homosexual.

Yea, pretty subjective. Depending on the locals of whom they asked. What if you grew up in and only knew of places like SanFran, Greenwich Village, or Chicago's boystown? I bet those numbers would be A LOT higher, and of course much more fierce...
im out with 2 circles and a snap ; )

 

[bottomrail]

Hey dude! Life is too damn SHORT to be tripping on such insignificant things like "if you are left handed or right handed". You get my drift? Just enjoy the moment!

 

[WoodsyOwl]

Hey dude! Life is too damn SHORT to be tripping on such insignificant things like "if you are left handed or right handed". You get my drift? Just enjoy the moment!

Word.

 

[mpd]

I'd figure that this question would be best asked in the Women's Forum, whereas I can't expect the same level of maturity in other sub-forums.

It's an idea that I've been tossing about in my head for some time now, and now I propose it to you: am I a bi-sexual male?

I strictly have anecdotal evidence for the former proposition. I militantly avoid crass conversations within my group of friends. If you're genuinely mature enough to help or guide me then please continue reading. My intention is not to offend feminists and by any degree, or the like. I apologize in advance if my queries are inappropriate by any means, whereas that is certainly not my intention.

When viewing pornography I try to only view solo female or female/female films and clips, avoiding penii where possible. However, I know of straight friends of mine who have no qualms with watching male/female penetration I personally find the act of watching a couple's sex acts revolting, whereas I feel like a voyeur.

On several occasions my father has called me "domestic," since I clean up after myself and do dishes therapeutically. Knowing my father, his comment is some backwards remark regarding my sexuality.

So many items are making me question my sexuality. However, as far as I know, I am not attracted to males. But my population of friends, exceeding less than half a dozen, is strictly male.

My hope is that which the provided information or prompts from the women on this sub-forum that I will be able to disambiguate my sexuality.

One of my kids is gay. I've fostered another who is gay who thought he was bi-sexual for a while. Let me tell you what my experience has shown me and what life has demonstrated to me and then you might make some connection (or maybe not).

Nobody gives a damn about your sexual preferences other than your partners. You DO owe them the truth so they can make their own decisions on health issues - STDs are a fact of life in the GLBT community and you will take your life into your own hands the very first time you decide he/she is just so cute that condoms or dental dams aren't necessary.

You will find happiness by being truthful to you and no one else and I mean no one. The gay lifestyle is replete with problems and issues that can make your lifestyle choices have consequences - there will always be people ready to take advantage of you once they know you are part of a group - this isn't homophobia, this is the history of mankind.

If you like girls and you like guys or you like peanut butter parties with the Pope the rule is healthy relationships and nothing else can be substituted. If you want a great sex life, start with having great relationships.

If you want your sanity get used to being comfortable with the person you look at in the mirror. Recriminations and guilt games are for people who will be seeking to take advantage of you; personal moral inventories are what make us human-beings. Know the difference between taking a moral inventory and taking a guilt trip and your landings will always be smooth.

Labels are the way people take advantage of you; live your life and let the wags wallow in their self-induced misery. God loves you and nobody can take that from you.

Most of all; remember the golden rule: there are no victims in this world and there are no villains - just volunteers.

 

[Mrs.Babba]

Well said mpd...Owl, not sure what anyone can tell you, you have to follow your heart and what tells you is right or not. We dont know you and your situation so its hard to give you advise, but good luck with what ever you do, remember...you only get one chance at this life, make the most of it!