Am I bi-sexual?

[whiterabbit9]

there are gay men that can't accept it

 

[chronisseur]

shit I get turned off by girls for the smallest shit. to the point of mysoginy almost, lol. Im still hella straight - just because most dumb slutz arent up to standard isnt a problem with ME...

 

[us stoner]

well man u sound straight, but if havin questions, i don't know, stay straight but if your not that cool too, be who u are. peace

 

[trouble]

So many items are making me question my sexuality. However, as far as I know, I am not attracted to males. But my population of friends, exceeding less than half a dozen, is strictly male.

I'm no professor of Homology, and I don't know much about the subject, however, most gay men seem to have more girlfriends, than male friends. I once had a gay kid that worked for me as an office manager, and that kid always had the hottest girls coming by my office to visit him. What a waste.

If you would rather go out on a limb, than down on a bush...I would say that there is a good chance your gay.

If you stick your pecker in some guys mouth and liked it...I would say there is a better than average chance that your gay.

You sound young and most likely your just a little sexually confused. A late bloomer so to speak.

I don't think your gay, just a little confused.

 

[oldfatguy]

Hey woodsy don't sweat the small stuff. call me juicy fruit or doublemint. double your pleasure double your fun. I've thought about it also. All sex is great if preformed well. go ahead caress your self, did it feel good of course it did if you preformed it right. If it did not then keep practiceing until it does then you have preformed it well. I Wish that i had been a lot more domesticed earlier in my marrage it would have eased tentions tremendously with my wife. however negitive behavior reiforcement i.e. with holding sex can be a tremendous educational tool. I would ask however how is your relationship with wemon? Do you feel that you constantly are getting off on the wrong foot with. them. have you placed them on a peddastle and now feel that a female relationship is unatanable? Have you negatively reinforced your behavior by believing that your mere presence will sully or mar them. I ask only because you don't mention them but to appoligize before you have even started to explain your plight. these are not acusations i ask these questions only in hope of understanding. As i don't know you i don't understand you. Yea dad some day i'll grow up and make someone a good wife and i learned it all from you. just remember it's whats on the in side that matters. Is your word honor bound. Do you you go out of you way to harm others to feel good about yourself. would you give your life to save another? straight people rape murder steal and lie so what makes being straight such a big deal? ofg okay wheres the spell check grammer cheek on this friggin thing and where did you kids put my thsarus.

 

[WoodsyOwl]

I appreciate the genuine answers you've all given. They were quite insightful. The comedy in this thread is tame, in good humor, and generally pretty funny.

I must also point out that the pornography jazz was really the only helpful anecdote I could think of. Not that my original post was made without proper consideration even having been a bit medicated. My point is that I don't think it'd be fair to be singled out as that guy who made the creepy post about his browsing habits. Please.

I think I needed Hydro-Soil to break things down. The test he proposed is quite conclusive. I don't physically evaluate men, ever, in any context. Case closed, really.

Thanks again to everyone for breaking it down, so to speak.

edit: Since it has been asked I figure I'm obligated to reply: I don't necessarily put women on a pedestal so to speak, nor myself. I feel that both genders are equally capable of achieving any particular task or goal with the same adeptness of skill. I don't feign some alternative personality when I meet a new women. I'm as genuine as I can portray, whereas I'd like platonic and also potentially intimate girl friends to like the real me. I've attempted facades in the past and they are quite transparent.

edit3: I have some compulsion to return to this post to try and clear things up. What I was trying to articulate is my respect for my equal and opposite gender. If a young, single, straight male isn't granted a special extension of companionship found in pornography by feminine-rights activists then I've clearly failed this thread and those in it. I am well aware of the feminist arguments against pornography and other potentially objectifying acts, and I support those positions completely.

As far as I've witnessed, individuals with thought patterns similar to my own have, frankly, fucked lives. Maybe what my question essentially boils down to is this; with all of my perceived, and perhaps accurate, notions about my asocial but genuinely respectful personality, do I actually stand a chance in the real world?

Pro-tip: grammar Nazis will be baffled when they try to call you out on ending an English sentence with a proposition. But they don't know this syntax only applies to Latin.

 

[WoodsyOwl]

what makes being straight such a big deal?

I'm trying to re-evaluate my morals, ethos, and ideology having left the Mormon church a few years ago. Being brainwashed with fiction pawned as truth and faith for hours, every week, for twenty years has certainly taken a toll on my self-confidence.

However, as with most twentieth century Mormon kids, most of us knew that what we were being taught in church was utter bullshit. When my folks moved out west I was lucky enough for them to choose a home in the most liberal city in our state. My childhood education was thorough and intellectually stimulating.

Once I left the parents' nest I had to make a decision; choose faith or choose the scientific method. I chose the latter. I now regret that decision whereas an ignorance is empowering in its own right.

Definitely knowing my sexual orientation may prove to be exceedingly empowering for myself.

 

[j6p]

The Klein Sexual Orientation Grid may shed some more light. It is considered more thorough than the Kinsey Scale, since Klein evaluates orientation over time, and sexual feelings often change during our lives.

The best thing is to look around and research, explore your own feelings; only you can discover the truth - and remember that feelings can and do change as years pass.

 

[Laugan Gaucher]

This time I'm searching a beautifull young girl for my wife...I'm very Happy

excuse me, maybe I haven't to post in this section ( I'm a man ) but the title of the thread tilt me

 

[WoodsyOwl]

look around and research, explore your own feelings; only you can discover the truth

Thanks for your big letters.

God forbid I post about a problem asking people for help. An attempt at human dialogue as opposed to your proposition of solving complex emotional problems with maths. I'd rather, proverbially, get myself "pointed in the right direction" with a dialogue.

 

[Marywanna]

Why did you post this in the Womens Forum? Did you want women to answer? Cuz looks like mostly menfolk are giving you advice. Just curious. Mary

 

[unclefishstick]

I'm a trisexual,i will try anything once!!

 

[WoodsyOwl]

Why did you post this in the Womens Forum? Did you want women to answer?

Yup.

 

[antimatter]

Your not desensitized enough to porn that is all. First time you watch a repulsive video its repulsive but watch it 50 times and you probably won't flinch.

 

[nepalnt21]

i think society gives us unreal categories to try and fit everyone into. i think everyone should stop worrying what they are and what labels we can fit here and there. if you are comfortable where you are, than you are healthy. but if you are constantly worried about what is going on, that cannot be very healthy. if you are sexually attracted by both men and women, you can probably say you are bisexual. if you are not attracted at all by men, than i guess you are heterosexual, but i dont see why it matters. there are so many levels a person can be attracted to someone without it being even slightly sexual. there is nothing wrong with having extremely close relationships with members of the same sex, nor is it wrong to have really close, intimate relationships with members of the opposite sex, even without a sexual attraction.

dont worry about how others label you, labeling is only a way of making stupid people settle down.

 

[CannaCompulsory]

im not gay, but my faggot boyfriend iz

im not gay, but my faggot boyfriend iz

First time you watch a repulsive video its repulsive but watch it 50 times and you probably won't flinch.

great advice...watch it 50 times LOL!

I agree, with the level headed posts i.e. fatigues, etc...

Butt, who cares? You shouldnt. "Straight" "Gay" "Bi" are all subjective little boxes society loves to RAM everybody into.
Like the "super straight" jock that hangs out with all his very masculine guy friends, likes to wrastle with them, and occasionally do some gay bashing. hmmm...
Labels LABELS AND MORE damn labels.

 

[grapeman]

Let me check with my magic 8 ball.

Is this clown "gay"?

"All signs point to yes".

there is your answer.

 

[LiLWaynE]

the second you question your sexuality is the second you are GAY

 

[Rosy Cheeks]

many sex therapists assert that 10% of the population is exclusively homosexual and 10% of the population is exclusively heterosexual ~ that leaves 80% of the population somewhere in between!

I would revise those numbers if I were you,

The "10%" figure comes from one single - now obsolete - study published in 1948 by Alfred Kinsey.

ALL other studies since arrive at a much lower figure, generally between 1% and 5%, leaning more towards 1% than 5%.

The 2000 U.S. Census Bureau found that 1% of the American population is openly homosexual.

A 2002 Gallup inquiry asked Americans to estimate the percentage of American men and the percentage of American women who are homosexual. The average estimates were that 21% of men are gay and 22% of women are lesbians. In fact, roughly a quarter of the public thinks more than 25% of men and 25% of women are homosexual.

 

[antimatter]

great advice...watch it 50 times LOL!

It works find the most repulsive video doesn't have to be porn and watch it enough and it won't even bother you anymore.