Marraige is a trap. If you can not live without her, well ya can't. But you will pay, and pay, and compromise, and loose your liberty. Run away if you can.
I was gonna read through the whole thread, but this summed it up best from the start. RUN!
Marraige is a trap. If you can not live without her, well ya can't. But you will pay, and pay, and compromise, and loose your liberty. Run away if you can.
Cynic -
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a person who believes that only selfishness motivates human actions and who disbelieves in or minimizes selfless acts or disinterested points of view.
Too funny. I was going to make a yummybud comment in the original post, since this seems like something he'll be asking about eventually.
You're probably right s4l, if she was the one, I probably wouldn't be asking. Truth be told, I don't see the point of marriage when the two of us don't want to have kids. I'm committed now, what's the ceremony going to do but make it expensive and more difficult if either of us ever changes our minds/hearts?
Anyway, I'm just scared. We get along so well most of the time but she's a lot like her Mom. I feel that I'm a lot like her Dad. Her parents don't get along well at all. They should be divorced. There had to have been a time where they felt more like we do now. I'm scared of going down the road that her parents are on. Doesn't look fun.
Keep it coming though guys and gals. I know we've got a lot of older members with plenty of life experience that I can learn from.
And for you divorced members, offer us advice about the red flags you wish you could have noticed before you got married.
Hey everyone, I'm considering marriage. How did you know your partner was the right one for you?
And for you divorced members, offer us advice about the red flags you wish you could have noticed before you got married.
Support me, scare me, whatever. Bring on some stories and advice!
After lunch she got up to stretch, I did too, but then I went down on a knee, said some really nice and personal things to her about how happy I was in life and our relationship and how wonderful she was, I could tell she still didn't see it coming (awesome, just what I wanted). Then I reached into my pocket, pulled out the ring box, opened it, and asked her to marry me!
She was shocked. "Are you kidding me?" "Am I being punked?" "Of course I'll marry you!" It was great. We hugged and kissed. Talked about the week I had of planning, asking permission from her parents, getting shit from her for not doing stuff around the house and having to lie to her and just say I was being lazy, playing video games, when I was really preparing for the weekend with her. She called her parents and we hung out for a bit and talked more.