So people must think Im a total asshole or weirdo or something...

[bagend12]

Im a loner by nature...By this I mean I'd really rather be by myself doing my own thing (reading, biking, being otherwise productive, etc) as opposed to just hanging out with a bunch of other people doing nothing at all, especially a bunch of other single guys,
so all this does not really bother me that much, but I am still left wondering that people must see something in me that they really dislike.

When people I know have parties Im never really invited, and when I am I am pretty much ignored to the point that I would have been better off staying home.

I play an instrument, and since I was in a band that recently broke up I placed an ad on craigslist. Someone responded that knows of me, has met me, and is currently in a band with a person I used to play with. When they found out it was me all communication ceased.

There are other things also, phone calls or emails to people are not returned, stuff like that.

Sounds paranoid and crazy, but this kind of stuff has been going on long enough and often enough that there is obviously something going on....

I've never lied, cheated or ripped anyone off so I know thats not what is at issue...

 

[cody2white]

You seem normal. Do you rub your nipples a lot or something.

 

[bagend12]

only when i think people are not looking...

You seem normal. Do you rub your nipples a lot or something.

 

[cody2white]

Hell yeah I do it too. Man friends come and go and I trust my dog more then my closest friend so I kinda relate. If u want new friends maybe go out and do something you like? Maybe go take a class. Theirs plenty of cool people out there don't let those kinda people slow you down

 

[Sativa King]

Yeah life sucks dude. People are fuckers.

 

[Squiggles]

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[OjoRojo420]

Most alpha males and geniuses are loners...

The "path" has never been crowded!

And the more you get in tune with Nature, the more you see all that is lacking in humans... such as honesty and gratitude.

Alone you can be connected with All... and maybe... as I try, learn each day a little from It.

 

[sal a man-deer]

You're ugly, you're annoying, and you suck at playing the guitar. The only possible answer.

 

[Islandbud]

Get a pet cause people are basically useless as companions.

 

[Kalicokitty]

Most other people suck

 

[Guest 18340]

Yummybud?

 

[sparkjumper]

Yep.Unless you get really lucky a german shephard mix is the best choice.I'm a loner and love it.I'm 50 single with no kids and can grow at will.Who needs another two legger..until harvest time anyway.I dont know why people react the way they do to you,but don't think being alone is terrible or something.Maybe for some it is

 

[EnjoiKush]

Yummybud?

^^

 

[accessndx]

Ya' know what I didn't hear at all?

That you have an exceptional sense of self hygiene.

Seems like you avoided that topical landmine......almost deliberately.

Maybe you haven't showered in a millenia and you're pretty ripe. That could easily account for all the missing friends.

 

[Weird]

Most alpha males and geniuses are loners...

The "path" has never been crowded!

And the more you get in tune with Nature, the more you see all that is lacking in humans... such as honesty and gratitude.

Alone you can be connected with All... and maybe... as I try, learn each day a little from It.

I think I read that in a fortune cookie once....


i got another one that said

"he with big hands and feet wear bit shoes and gloves"


seriously when I first glanced at loner, craigs list, instrument I went to far worse places, but sadly I can identify

 

[Weird]

with the loneliness not the ads on craigs list

i dont like technology so I'll stick to stalking

 

[Weird]

its the weed,




give it to me ill take care of it.

 

[chilum]

Don`t worry .

I`m almost in the same situation. I`m loner, also, preffer being lone with guitar, PC or my litlle garden.

So called friends know `bout me only when in need of smtng, but from invited aprox 30 person( for my b-day) ...nobody come...nice..

Got my things, so called "my litlle world".

Sorry for poor english.

greetz


C

 

[SuperConductor]

When people I know have parties Im never really invited, and when I am I am pretty much ignored to the point that I would have been better off staying home.

Did you ever think that maybe they think you don't want to be invited to the parties or spoken to when you're there? Maybe they think you don't like them?

How would they know without ever having spoken a word about it to them? Do some research on non-verbal communication (speaking without words), it's a lot more important than you'd think.

It's pretty much inevitable that people think you don't like them if you're a quiet person, sad but true. You'll never convince them otherwise so the best idea if you want to change the pattern is to actually learn social skills. Good luck

 

[Miss Blunted]

I'm a total loner than blends well in social settings, but I f*cking hate people. Oh, but I am the "animal loving" wierdo. To some people, liking animals more than humans is a serious abnormality. I love my abnormalites, screw people man. If you are a good person, meaning what you said...you don't steal or harm anyone...screw anyone who doesn't dig you. YOU dig you...and keep it that way.