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Marywanna
Yeah ya know what makes wives lose their desire? HUSBANDs. So what if your wife got hurt and became paralyzed and couldn't have sex? Would you leave her? Sex ain't that important,love is.
Sexuality - giving and taking.
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Cookie monster
Mary hun thats where true love enters the equation.
If there's a valid medical reason why 2 people cant enjoy sex and you realy love the other person then sex doesn't matter.
I would never leave my baby if he couldn't physically have sex with me anymore. He's it. I WOULD buy a really nice vibrator and maybe he would operate it sometimes, I dunno.
If my wife was paralized and couldn't have sex, I would stand by her, take care of her, and have one huge right arm. But if she wouldn't have sex with me just because she didn't want to, I would feel like she didn't want to be with me anymore and I would leave her for someone who does. But fortunatley I/we have a fantastic sex life.
This thread was good fun, lmao.
Ganglere
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Thanks, Cookie.
Lots of good input here, but nobody, including me, has adressed the part of the problem that has made me consider walking. My hands are strong, and know just how to please their master, so physically I can live with a lousy sex life on that level. We've been doing it frequently, and to the best of my observetional abilities, she's pretty happy about it.
The problems are more like self-esteem issues. I never had too much to begin with, and even though it has grown considerably over the years, shit like this eats away at it. If I feel like walking excrement I won't be as nice a person to be around as I know I can be. The last couple of days I've started to feel like a man, and I sense this spring may see me finally growing up. I think this will help all around...
I know you people laugh at me. I don't care whatsoever
I've used you guys as therapy, and it's better than the one you have to pay for
Along with the returning sun has come a sneeking feeling. Just like they say every fat person has a skinny one trying to get out, I suspect every wimp has a... I don't know, maybe a tougher guy
trying to get out. And I think mine can be pretty formidable... Hehe, if you saw me you'd laugh even more at me for being a wimp. In a country of tall people I still see over their heads, I'm wide and strong, and you'd probably be scared if you met me in a dark alley. And now I feel like my 'heart' grows stronger as well, mostly for other reasons...Yeah, and maybe if I chill it with the excellent hash I'll stop rambling on and on and on and on... But prolly not
Peace to all and fuck you very much
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Marywanna
This thread has shown that there are some really good men out there. Women,don't be fools and let them go. A man that is concerned about pleasing his woman and can talk about it is a guy that women want. Love shows itself in all forms.But an honest,kind and loving man is what women want. I'm not laughing at you ganglere,not at all. In fact I think your lady is lucky to have a man like you. MW
Ganglere
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You girls are most kind
Life is really pretty sweet. The sun shines and the world comes to life. I lack nothing, my food is tasty, my beverages deliciously chilled. My friends are good. I walk without fear in streets safer than most of you could dream about, nature is all around...
Life goes on, I think I'll try to make the most of it
Life is really pretty sweet. The sun shines and the world comes to life. I lack nothing, my food is tasty, my beverages deliciously chilled. My friends are good. I walk without fear in streets safer than most of you could dream about, nature is all around...
Life goes on, I think I'll try to make the most of it
I totally disagree....
It is your job in a relationship to figure out what your partner needs and wants and provide it...and not just in bed.
Love is not about what you get....it about what you are driven to give.
If both people are on the same page, then it works.
If only one of the couple feels that way, it will eventually degrade into psychic vampire situation, and the one who has the need to give will be sucked dry.
If this girl really loved and cared about Gang, she'd learn exactly what gits GAng uber-horny and she'd provide it, even if it was not something she got off on that much......because HE does, and that's where her head should be at.
And Gang......if all else fails...
PUT IT IN HER POOPER!!!
Making sure my wife lives a happy and fulfilling life is my number one priority.
If I got paralysed and could not please my wife, I'd fucking well find someone who I could get along with who could (male or female)...
By the same token, if tomorrow she wanted to get off with two guys, as long as one of them is me, I have no problems with that...because what matters to me is that she is getting what she needs, and what excites me is her pleasure.....and she feels the same way....so everyone gets taken care of and no-one has to be selfish.
Ganglere
Member
lmao!
Mind you, she loves it when I threaten her with it, so who knows where one's madness leads
So what's the update? How's the sex life been improving? lol I can't believe I received so much positive feedback on saying "she should get loads to the face to save the world"
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Marywanna
You be real CRAZY,girl! All the guys agree with you
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Cookie monster
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Marywanna
LOL you dumbass,thats funny
Wah chicka wah wah...!!
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tokinafaty420
As usual you guys bring some sense to the table
It is love for sure, it's just that in my screwed up head that just ain't enough sometimes.
I think I need some therapy, but I don't even know if it exists...
Guess I'll try to man up and talk it over
Thanks alot for not shitting on me, I have no illusions regarding my own greatness. But it's nice of you not being A-holes just because you had the opportunity... Thanks and props
You just proved you are not yummy. You thanked people for advice and actually acknowledged it. Yummy would have went after the "just shove it in her ass" comment or just repeated his question a few more times for the next couple of hours. Nothing wrong with a serious relationship question.
