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Sexuality - giving and taking.
- Thread starter Ganglere
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All this sex talk is getting me horny lol.
And my wife is in the 'wrong' time of the month
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towl shower man its your wife,what the fuck is a little blood!
Here's my advice...
if you try the other people's advice and nothing has worked, try this as a last resort:
Tell her, "You know, I just don't know if we're compatible sexually."
She'll ask why, you'll say, "Well, I knew this girl once who did this thing that just drove me crazy, and you just don't seem to be the kind of girl who would even consider doing that kind of thing, so...."
She'll either get really competitive with this supposed girl-from-the-past and insist on doing whatever it was you said she wouldn't' do, or she'll agree that you're not compatible and the relationship will be over.
That's why it's last resort.
if you try the other people's advice and nothing has worked, try this as a last resort:
Tell her, "You know, I just don't know if we're compatible sexually."
She'll ask why, you'll say, "Well, I knew this girl once who did this thing that just drove me crazy, and you just don't seem to be the kind of girl who would even consider doing that kind of thing, so...."
She'll either get really competitive with this supposed girl-from-the-past and insist on doing whatever it was you said she wouldn't' do, or she'll agree that you're not compatible and the relationship will be over.
That's why it's last resort.
i put up a stripper pole for my girl,i buy her lsexy outfits and always tell her how sexy she looks,especialy when she is blowing me or riding away like a cowgirl! get her in the 69er position bro its always a hit with the shy girls once they get goin!
and lick her ass if you wanna let her know your a freak! shel go crazaaay!
and lick her ass if you wanna let her know your a freak! shel go crazaaay!
graybeard
Member
Some/most chicks get extremely horney during their period. And if you don't like the blood, there are two other holes! Some won't admit it, but all I have been with enjoy/ get off on anal sex...takes a little finessing and lube…can't just blast away at it from the get go...give them a little time for their asshole to adjust…start off with a finger if need be…just don’t pick your nose with that finger until you’ve had a shower after…
Ganglere
Member
You guys are freaks for sure 
You're also my new idols
If it comes to it I will try the last resort-thingy... I'm beginning to realise who I am and what I'll accept. I have been way to weak, and can hardly blame anyone else for taking advantage. Things are going to change around here. No way am I taking care of her and her kid (not mine, I might add), and still have to browse for porn to gain some release.
Fuck, I don't mind my own company. And I do know enough freaky ladies to get by, gf's are overrated, I feel...
But, as said, things are a little better right now. I'll keep my eyes open, and if things don't improve permanently, then I'll cut my losses. And hers to, if she can't open up and reciprocate with me, it's obvious she should be put free to find someone she'll want to please aswell...
You're also my new idols
If it comes to it I will try the last resort-thingy... I'm beginning to realise who I am and what I'll accept. I have been way to weak, and can hardly blame anyone else for taking advantage. Things are going to change around here. No way am I taking care of her and her kid (not mine, I might add), and still have to browse for porn to gain some release.
Fuck, I don't mind my own company. And I do know enough freaky ladies to get by, gf's are overrated, I feel...
But, as said, things are a little better right now. I'll keep my eyes open, and if things don't improve permanently, then I'll cut my losses. And hers to, if she can't open up and reciprocate with me, it's obvious she should be put free to find someone she'll want to please aswell...
Ganglere
Member
LOL!!
Truer words never spoken!!
She just told me that my willy freaks her out, that in fact it's all willies... I don't hear any complaints about me being gross when I take her kid to school, when I make him calm (she don't know how to, for me it's a piece of cake), when I clean the dishes and rest of the house, and definetely not when she gets my cash...
Fuck... We'll see...
miss blunted & lazyman have got it cornered, i think. my wife is the submissive sort, but i didn't realize until about 10 years into marriage. i know, i'm slow
but now, there are scarves tied to each bedpost, & KY on the nightstand. gags too, & a cat-o-29 tails (made it myself) its easier to sneak in the back door if you are holding your thumb on the front door bell...
but now, there are scarves tied to each bedpost, & KY on the nightstand. gags too, & a cat-o-29 tails (made it myself) its easier to sneak in the back door if you are holding your thumb on the front door bell...montanaorganics
Member
Hmmm so your veiny triumphant member(sorry couldnt help it..lol ) freaks her out a little eh. And she has a little boy? I call bullshit nobody has and then raises a little boy being scared of cock. I, personally, would probably not give her anymore cock that she loves inside but hates to look at. Be courteous, lick her till she gets off and call it done... you do that for several days she will get the point that sex is not enjoyable enough for you. Hehe play the woman card and dont let her see you naked for weeks! After all in translation she equivalently just called you fat.
Ya'll are freaks!!! It's so good to know it isn't just me!!! All above advice from bjs, to anal and even the asslickin' 69ers got it right, you need to show her some shit she probably hasn't done. She just may even be freakier than you, you just haven't unleashed it. All women are freaks.....I question those who are say they aren't
Penises are only "ugly"(funny to me) when they're not hard, what is she talkin' about?
Penises are only "ugly"(funny to me) when they're not hard, what is she talkin' about?
Put on some Barry White
And say, in a deep voice, "Come on baby, take off that brassiere."
Penises may be ugly, but vaginas are not that much prettier..LOL
And say, in a deep voice, "Come on baby, take off that brassiere."
Penises may be ugly, but vaginas are not that much prettier..LOL
not only is your girl a classic starfish but she also disrespects the cock which is very unhealthy! i recommend lsd-therapy in combination with some rocco siffredi porn.
Kinda sounds like she's got some skeletons in her closet. Was she abused in the past? I've never met a girl who is freaked out by cock. Something ain't right, she either needs therapy, or she's playing your ass. My wife likes to be submissive too, but she knows I need a lazy fuck here and there, and what kind of life can you have without blow jobs. Good luck
oh yeah, is she young or inexperienced?
oh yeah, is she young or inexperienced?
Ganglere
Member
You guys crack me up and lighten my day
Marywanna aired the possibillity that my skills were not up to par. I definetly don't deny the possibillity, but she has given every sign to be enjoying my efforts. I talked to a girl friend (a friend who is a girl, sic!) about my 'situation' a couple of days ago, and she suggested that I could use my pent up frustrations on her. Now, if you saw her you'd call me crazy for not jumping at the opportunity. But I really don't want to be a cheating bastard.
If she were a cheap bitch, and no fun I'd dump her in a heartbeat. But she is generous, warm hearted, and smart enough to take atleast some of my attempts at humour. What I need is a way to bring out that side of her personality in bed aswell.
I think I'll ask if it's okay if I get it somewhere else, just to provoke some sort of reaction. Like, if she wants me, but can't give me what I need, I could give her my heart. Hell, I'll even give her hers... Don't think I could go through with this even if she were to accept my proposition. But it would be kind of like the splitting of the baby proposed by Solomon in the Bible. If she accepts it it would be clear that she don't really want me, and I'd know. I doubt she would, but an answer is an answer...
If anything, this thread has really opened my eyes to the needs I've supressed. Keep posting, please, I really appreciate your thoughts on the matter
And you give me some great ideas, you beautiful IC-people
Marywanna aired the possibillity that my skills were not up to par. I definetly don't deny the possibillity, but she has given every sign to be enjoying my efforts. I talked to a girl friend (a friend who is a girl, sic!) about my 'situation' a couple of days ago, and she suggested that I could use my pent up frustrations on her. Now, if you saw her you'd call me crazy for not jumping at the opportunity. But I really don't want to be a cheating bastard.
If she were a cheap bitch, and no fun I'd dump her in a heartbeat. But she is generous, warm hearted, and smart enough to take atleast some of my attempts at humour. What I need is a way to bring out that side of her personality in bed aswell.
I think I'll ask if it's okay if I get it somewhere else, just to provoke some sort of reaction. Like, if she wants me, but can't give me what I need, I could give her my heart. Hell, I'll even give her hers... Don't think I could go through with this even if she were to accept my proposition. But it would be kind of like the splitting of the baby proposed by Solomon in the Bible. If she accepts it it would be clear that she don't really want me, and I'd know. I doubt she would, but an answer is an answer...
If anything, this thread has really opened my eyes to the needs I've supressed. Keep posting, please, I really appreciate your thoughts on the matter
And you give me some great ideas, you beautiful IC-people
Ganglere
Member
Yeah, that was my first thoughts... I waited a while before asking, but she denied it was the case. As to youth, I would really say no, but I do think she's kind of inexperienced, atleast with freaks like me. But the truth of the matter, and the greatest reason for my uncertainty is that I just don't know the reasons. Maybe about time I told we've been together for three + years...
Ganglere
Member
Dude, you're so fucking right
I've had quite enough of being mr nice guy and being used... I've got one final test planned for tonight, if she still wont do anything just for me i'll fucking walk. Just for the record, I've pleased her (or done my best, that's really all I ask...) without any payback innumerous times, if she can't do it once, them i'll know without any doubt whatsoever... Hehe, I just got a text from my aforementioned friend asking me how it goes. I'll keep you posted, prolly several times tonight as I try to grow a pair 
time to trade her in for a kinkyier model. theres plenty o chicks that will suck you dry LOL
i think its a give and take world........if ya give some ya should be able to get some hehehe. ya should hook up with my ex for a few days what a wild wild girl, i could sit and toke on a joint and drink a beer while she went to town. good luck to ya bud things will be alright if not with her theres tons more out there.
Dude, you're so fucking right
Did it ever occur to everyone that she just might be one of them woman that don't like giving oral? And although you admit that she is warm, generous and a great person, you'd dump her because she won't blow you? I'm thankful my wife enjoys it, but I wouldn't "dump" her if she chose not to. There's plenty of other things the two of you could do. And for you to think she should be compelled to blow you because you give her "kid" a ride to school is fucked up. After three years this child should be like your child, not referred to as "her kid". I think I'm seeing the problem here.
I haven't heard anything about her cheating on you, abusing you or being a bad person. Her only fault is she doesn't enjoy oral sex. If you come off to her that "she owes you a blowjob" because of what you do for her, like you have here, I don't blame her. Maybe if anything, try wording it differently and see how that works. And remember that you shouldn't do something for someone just because you expect something in return.
And would you please enlighten me how her not giving head is using you?
