How to ask a girl you are interested in how she feels about chiefin?

[SpendThrift]

What's up brothers.

Have any of you ever had a dilemma where you were talking to this girl and interested in trying to get to know her and possibly date her but weren't sure of how to introduce the thought of being a "pothead" or smokin reefer in general.

Like most of us here I'm a very efficient stoner and I get shit done even when I'm blazed out of my mind. But because the way society has cultured us to feel or think negatively about smoking, I am worried about ruining something that has potential or having to have a double front.

I'm gonna be takin her out in about 2 weeks when she gets back for summer and this isn't no kiddy shit we are adults.. we had a class together one semester but haven't taken the time to get to know eachother until now.

Don't think in my perspective think about it in yours because this is like some Thurgood Jenkins shit. I'm in love with MARY J.

 

[NoSaint]

What's up brothers.

Have any of you ever had a dilemma where you were talking to this girl and interested in trying to get to know her and possibly date her but weren't sure of how to introduce the thought of being a "pothead" or smokin reefer in general.

Like most of us here I'm a very efficient stoner and I get shit done even when I'm blazed out of my mind. But because the way society has cultured us to feel or think negatively about smoking, I am worried about ruining something that has potential or having to have a double front.

I'm gonna be takin her out in about 2 weeks when she gets back for summer and this isn't no kiddy shit we are adults.. we had a class together one semester but haven't taken the time to get to know eachother until now.

Don't think in my perspective think about it in yours because this is like some Thurgood Jenkins shit. I'm in love with MARY J.

You sure she doesn't already know? Its fairly easy to figure out who smokes and who doesn't a large percentage of the time

 

[Classyathome]

Offer her a hit...

 

[Don Dump]

about 2 mins before you pick her up smoke a fat joint of skunk in your car

if she says 'what smells so good? your in

if she says 'it stinks in here' it wasnt meant to be

 

[ROJO145]

LOL.......whats wrong with hey darlin,wanna burn one?Always works for me....................

 

[SmokeyGriff]

Just come out and say it. Would you want to be with her if she hated it?

 

[BurmeseDragon]

Take her to a beer party, where a friend has some pot and hit it.......if she gets funny and doesn't hit it, or hit's it and gets paranoid.......then just forget since you had one to many drinks.....but it's over at at that point, unless your a good liar/captain fantasy.

 

[Vernon]

This is my first post but if it were me I'd make sure she was even worth the trouble. So hide it for the meantime and figure out if you would marry her if not, why even tell her. You need to know each other a lot more than you do now before this becomes an issue. If she really is the one, she might not like it a whole lot, but she will tolerate it. My wife hates it, but loves me so were even. We get along just great by being out in the open. PLUS the bottom line of all is she will find out eventually so......Good Luck

Vernon

 

[netwerx]

<Gangsta Talk> Netty don't want no hoe's who don't smoke the chronic </Gangsta Talk>
I'm with the guys here, offer/smoke before and if she is offended, it wasn't ment to be, hit it and run.

 

[jaysplifferton]

talk about a pop-culture reference that involves pot. IE harold & kumar, cheech and chong, dave chapelle, anything. Put on some Willie Nelson (or led zeppelin or whatever), and see where the conversation leads.

 

[Classyathome]

That's all fine and dandy - but how does she feel about Queefing???

 

[jaysplifferton]

there's NOTHING funny about queefing

 

[h^2 O]

yummy?

 

[Classyathome]

there's NOTHING funny about queefing

Says you...

Nothing says lovin' like a puff from her muffin...

 

[flubnutz]

talk about a pop-culture reference that involves pot. IE harold & kumar, cheech and chong, dave chapelle, anything. Put on some Willie Nelson (or led zeppelin or whatever), and see where the conversation leads.

i second this one. ease into the discussion about pot, e.g. check out "pineapple express" or something that brings up the topic of pot. or, go with her to a party where people will be tokin, see if you can get a read on her opinions. when it becomes a momentary topic of conversation, ask her if she's ever toked. i've always found it very easy to sort out, and quickly.

 

[sackoweed]

while on yer date set it up so that when you get out of car. You toss a joint down when she is not looking then walk right by it and say oh wow look a joint. pick it up check it out act like hmm is this real.. Wait for her response then you will know right away if she puff or hates... Also make sure its a skinny joint so incase she asks you to toss it. Just an idea.. peace..

sack

 

[dixbutler]

those are good ideas

 

[Prof Sublime]

I always just go "Ay' you smoke, wanna smoke, ever smoked..."

 

[Higher Power]

Roll a blunt (joint, etc) then when you go see her bring up the subject (figure out a good way to break the news). If she responds favorably, show it to her (place in your mouth etc.) give her that James Bond look and tell her that you want to hit it. Get it... hit it.

 

[Baddog40]

Have sex with her and afterwards instead of lighting a cigarette light a joint and hand it to her. I guarantee you if you were halfway decent in bed she'll take a hit regardless of her views on weed. On the off chance she flips out on you, well at least it wasnt a total loss.