GrassRoots
Active member
Hello ladies of IC! I have an issue in my relationship and I'm curious on what other women think of it.
Do you think it is reasonable to get upset when your significant other when you are being denied sexual release on a regular basis? I don't know if I'm being unreasonable or not but I am in my mid 20's and have a pretty strong sex drive. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and I still get very frustrated when I'm horny but she is not and that means we can't do anything about my desires. I think it is not fair that whenever she is horny I will do whatever she wants in order to satisfy her but if I'm horny she is frequently tired or in a hurry or just not in the mood. I guess I feel like it can just be a quick thing (if she is not in the mood) and it's a small part of her day to give up to make me feel so good, why would she want to deny me that pleasure and instead leave me feeling rejected and upset? I feel that she is the only one I can turn to (I don't cheat) in this situation and to reject me hurts. I know I can take care of these things myself as well which is what I frequently end up doing.
Am I way out of line here, getting upset? I appreciate your input.
GrassRoots
Do you think it is reasonable to get upset when your significant other when you are being denied sexual release on a regular basis? I don't know if I'm being unreasonable or not but I am in my mid 20's and have a pretty strong sex drive. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and I still get very frustrated when I'm horny but she is not and that means we can't do anything about my desires. I think it is not fair that whenever she is horny I will do whatever she wants in order to satisfy her but if I'm horny she is frequently tired or in a hurry or just not in the mood. I guess I feel like it can just be a quick thing (if she is not in the mood) and it's a small part of her day to give up to make me feel so good, why would she want to deny me that pleasure and instead leave me feeling rejected and upset? I feel that she is the only one I can turn to (I don't cheat) in this situation and to reject me hurts. I know I can take care of these things myself as well which is what I frequently end up doing.
Am I way out of line here, getting upset? I appreciate your input.
GrassRoots