Do I see yellow bananas in the first pic coming out of your bud?
Looks like it could wait a little longer but if it's going to start throwing out yellow bananas of male pollen then you want to go ahead and harvest it soonish.
Harvesting with 10% amber thrichs will give a different effect than 90% amber trichs. Look into that.
it is a risk if you leave that hermie bud in the grow space. you could seed that bud and all the rest eventually. if you can afford it, cut it down. otherwise, yu can try to carefully pick off the bananas but its probably not worth the trouble in the end.