Take the time and ask the woman when her last period was. If her next period is due within the next week then oral sex is the order of the day. If she is on her period then you both go take a shower. I haven't had sex with a woman that I would not be proud to father a child with since school anyway. The FDA regulates hormones in our food for a reason but will let you take them directly. It used to be you had a shot, pill or cream for anything. That has changed and has changed my attitude about sex. Our society has come to expect a pill for everything.
^Rythem method is more effective than a lot of other methods are, imo. Condems have a failure rate of 10-30%....rendering them 90% effective at very BEST. In reading this....I fear getting pregnant too soon. We used the withdrawel method successfully for 8 1/2 years until I got pregnant. I don't want another baby for at least 2 years, so us using condems really isn't the best way. I should be charting all parts of my cycle and finding my rythem. Both methods would be pretty effective together. I won't take a horomone shot or pill. I almost did after my Son was born, but I'm glad I didn't.