I'm not a woman, but I do prefer to ask women about relationship advice because I think women think relationships through more than guys.
Anyways, I just have somethin that's been on my mind. I met my gf in a 6 week program (not treatment--a field course for school). We talked here and there, I thought she was cute and was interested in her from the start, but our plans to go for hikes together and whatnot never came to be until the very last week. However, I had talked to her previously and taken the time to get to know her, and needless to say, I didn't need to do any persuasion for her to like me by that 6th week apparently.
So the last week together was great. We were really busy with the workload we had to do, but we had lots of sex and walks in the little time we could before the course was over. Then it came time to disband, but we stayed in contact. She's come to visit me in my city since then. She now lives 1,500 miles away in grad school, and we have a long distance relationship going. All is good
...except...
for my pissed off cousin who says our relationship is doomed because it's long distance, and that we had sex too early, and we're blinded, blah blah blah. She's been trying to plant seeds of doubt in our relationship garden, and it's frustrating. My gf and I are very happy now, and I'm thinking I might move to CA after I graduate this year to kick it with her for a bit until it snows and I probably move to mountains.
My cousin claims to know me better than anyone because we've been close and known eachother for, a lot, of years. Do you think being a long distance relationship when you only "dated" or whatever for a week prior is a bad idea? Maybe we had sex too soon? Not gonna lie, we compliment eachother really well in bed, but I also like her for her quietness (last gf was loud and annoying), care (but not obsession) about her self image, and outgoing-ness.
So, your thoughts. Sound like it would be a terrible idea to keep this relationship going, possibly moving out to CA next fall?
or is my cousin just pissed off because she hasn't had a BF in two years and the guy:girl ratio at this program was 3:1 and she still drummed up no interest
thanks ladies (or guys reading), for reading.
and for your opinions
Anyways, I just have somethin that's been on my mind. I met my gf in a 6 week program (not treatment--a field course for school). We talked here and there, I thought she was cute and was interested in her from the start, but our plans to go for hikes together and whatnot never came to be until the very last week. However, I had talked to her previously and taken the time to get to know her, and needless to say, I didn't need to do any persuasion for her to like me by that 6th week apparently.
So the last week together was great. We were really busy with the workload we had to do, but we had lots of sex and walks in the little time we could before the course was over. Then it came time to disband, but we stayed in contact. She's come to visit me in my city since then. She now lives 1,500 miles away in grad school, and we have a long distance relationship going. All is good
...except...
for my pissed off cousin who says our relationship is doomed because it's long distance, and that we had sex too early, and we're blinded, blah blah blah. She's been trying to plant seeds of doubt in our relationship garden, and it's frustrating. My gf and I are very happy now, and I'm thinking I might move to CA after I graduate this year to kick it with her for a bit until it snows and I probably move to mountains.
My cousin claims to know me better than anyone because we've been close and known eachother for, a lot, of years. Do you think being a long distance relationship when you only "dated" or whatever for a week prior is a bad idea? Maybe we had sex too soon? Not gonna lie, we compliment eachother really well in bed, but I also like her for her quietness (last gf was loud and annoying), care (but not obsession) about her self image, and outgoing-ness.
So, your thoughts. Sound like it would be a terrible idea to keep this relationship going, possibly moving out to CA next fall?
or is my cousin just pissed off because she hasn't had a BF in two years and the guy:girl ratio at this program was 3:1 and she still drummed up no interest
thanks ladies (or guys reading), for reading.
and for your opinions