Update. I'm glad I tried hydro again. Now I gotta figure out how to do a multiplant hydro system. Because every time I do a multiplant system the plants die quick. And every time I do a one plant system I get a huge flower. I don't know what I'm doing so much different. Other than with one plan it's easier to change out the water.
With this plant it got practically 0 vegetation and I didn't even think that it was gonna survive anyway because it was originally in soil and then moved to hydroponics. So this plants big and has a nice fat white root ball.
Stick with it you will figure it out