Just lost a good friend because I grow..

[PoopyTeaBags]

Sure I've lost friends because of this before, but this is different.. he actually knew I was a grower. Hell, he taught me how to grow originally.

The guy used to grow but after a few years off he just got a girl who's trying to keep him away from what they call 'that side of life.' It's just bloody weird hearing a good mate say they can't have anything to do with me because I love growing.

Oh well all for the best I guess. Sad that it's probably because of a voice in his ear though..

Anyone else lost a friend specifically because of our 'side of life'?

no offense but your boy in not a man and that girl is taking shit away from him that he enjoy's and sooner or later hell leave her because he is unhappy... Why do guys let girls change them??? grow some balls tell the girl this is the way... or we can be apart.... peroid... no offense but your boy is taking the bitch way out instead of standing up to his girl... pretty soon he wont have any friends cause she find something about each one and tell him he cant be friends with him until she is all he has... then they will both be unhappy.... wtf is wrong with people

sorry for the rant

a real man is never told what to do he decides thats what he wants to do on his own without any outside influence... your boy is not a real man and for that id be scared to trust him.. what if she wants him to snitch on you next? fuckign redicoulous

 

[cannagrower]

It is, it really is.

Women who manipulate their boyfriends are not to be trusted and neither are boyfriends who let that type of woman know their buddies business.

Cut ties and move on

This last part is what would really worry me. He's your buddy and told your business to someone else.

Who else has he told?

Someone who puts your business out there is not a friend in my opinion, even if he taught you to grow. Sounds like he's gonna teach you what getting busted is like.

Even if he comes back after losing the girl (or she loses him), I'd be careful.

 

[teemu shalanie]

exactly I would be concerned , because he mos def told that bitch, ur biz , now he cant kick it wit you?., hopefully they dont drop dime on yA?, or anything like that , be good piece of mind to move your shop, so they dont know where u r @.....sounds to me like he wasnt a good friend @ all.
peace TS

 

[Kiwi Star]

He doesn't know anyone else lol. And I'm not currently running anything or I'd already be out of town. Hmm actually out of town...

Oh and he's cut. No doubt about that.

 

[BrainSellz]

need a sign from "god/Will/nature/heavens (hope i didnt leave any out)...this/that is it

 

[HighDesertJoe]

Sounds like your Friend is thinking with his little HEAD.

 

[mriko]

Sure I've lost friends because of this before, but this is different.. he actually knew I was a grower. Hell, he taught me how to grow originally.

The guy used to grow but after a few years off he just got a girl who's trying to keep him away from what they call 'that side of life.' It's just bloody weird hearing a good mate say they can't have anything to do with me because I love growing.

Oh well all for the best I guess. Sad that it's probably because of a voice in his ear though..

Anyone else lost a friend specifically because of our 'side of life'?

A close friend of mine is with someone who hated me from the very first time we first met. The less he would meet me, the more she would be happy as she was considering me as having a bad influence on him. It took about 2 years, but we're now good friends. Took a lot of patience and explanations, but I still have my friend so don't despair !

Irie !

 

[supermanlives]

buds over babes

 

[ReelBusy1]

Sure I've lost friends because of this before, but this is different.. he actually knew I was a grower. Hell, he taught me how to grow originally.

The guy used to grow but after a few years off he just got a girl who's trying to keep him away from what they call 'that side of life.' It's just bloody weird hearing a good mate say they can't have anything to do with me because I love growing.

Oh well all for the best I guess. Sad that it's probably because of a voice in his ear though..

Anyone else lost a friend specifically because of our 'side of life'?

You didn't lose a friend because you grow.
You lost a friend because he isn't a friend.

 

[purple_man]

high bro!

forget that "character" you used to see as a "friend". i mean come on dude, he thought you how to grow -> he loves mj. and suddenly he cant have no more contact with you, and had to drop mj altogether? screw him, that aint a friend... at least in my opinion, aswell as some stated, he seems to be pussywhiped... so sooner or later, he ll get separated with her and will recover, and will link up again, ... BUT it's up to you to decide if you need folks like that around you

blessss

 

[whodair]

her tatty smell stank and she rarely gives him a lousy BJ !! fuck the haters !!

 

[seekinggreen]

Guess your boy isn't down with bros before hos. The pussy will get old and he'll be back. Make his sorry ass earn his place back

 

[David762]

Yep! It does happen ...

Yep! It does happen ...

Sure I've lost friends because of this before, but this is different.. he actually knew I was a grower. Hell, he taught me how to grow originally.

The guy used to grow but after a few years off he just got a girl who's trying to keep him away from what they call 'that side of life.' It's just bloody weird hearing a good mate say they can't have anything to do with me because I love growing.

Oh well all for the best I guess. Sad that it's probably because of a voice in his ear though..

Anyone else lost a friend specifically because of our 'side of life'?

I once had a boss who was also a toker. For a long time, I wasn't, although I remained pro-legalization. We remained friends for a long time after he wasn't my boss, but as he grew older he became more conservative, even stodgy. It seems that as I became more militant regarding cannabis as an expression of civil rights, we grew further apart.

I still consider him a friend, but no longer a confidant. There is no way that I would consider telling him that I was actually growing cannabis, or where -- not a chance.

As far as family is concerned -- my sister used to be a best friend, until I discovered quite by accident that she was colluding with my practically fascist arch-conservative mother to try and get me busted -- their idea of a family "intervention". Ironically, at that point in my life I was no longer a toker, but merely a strong proponent of re-legalization of cannabis. It was their lame attempts at manipulation and punishment that pushed me full-bore back onto the cannabis band-wagon.

Friends you can choose, but family -- not so much.

 

[mk6]

He has no balz.... a true freind is there for you... no matter what!! Im sure you dont care that he has a c__t for a girlfriend. His loss...

 

[BOSCO]

so sooner or later, he ll get separated with her and will recover, and will link up again, ... BUT it's up to you to decide if you need folks like that around you

Thats when I'd be worried about shit hitting the fan
In the crazy way people like the girl sometime think, it may be poor old Kiwi that will be to blame in her mind not the unreasonable way she behaved or the lapdog boyfriend who should have put a stop to her from the start.

Kiwi it's sad you lost your buddy/mentor but if the guy was so easily manipulated by the girl I'd question how easily the cops could manipulate him if he were ever busted for growing or possession.

When your buddy has learned a few life lessons and dumps her, he will be back in touch no doubt.
If you still want to be friends (some people deserve a 2nd chance) I'd wait until the dust settles and the girl finds another lapdog to order about before resuming the friendship.

 

[Captain Ginyu]

Chances are he'll get tired of her, or vice versa. Then, who knows? He might come aound, not that you should hold your breath. Definitely go forward with your own life, perhaps make new friends.

 

[use]

there's plenty more stoned fish in the sea

 

[whodair]

first remove your wristwatch, then punch her vag !!

 

[juicepuddle]

Thread title should be

Thread title should be

I lost a friend because his wife is running his life for him.

 

[whodair]

your friend cant come out and play no more ?? cuz hes busy hidin under mommas skirt !! and shes taking a stand against marijuana addiction, as she pops a vicodin ... she is addicted to controlling him, its her way of expressing love, by being angry at his flawed ways and correcting them !!!