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Mr. Nevermind
I used to be into trying to look all fit, but soon realized it wasn't worth all the effort. I then got into rock climbing... you keep fit in that, and surprisingly you end up in way better shape than lots of other training you can do. But you never look huge. You just become more defined, toned, and really flexible.
Its hard chasing after images... and in my experience its not worth it. Its better to just enjoy exercising for the enjoyment itself. For me going after an image actually was hurting me in life. And I did that for probably 10 years.
One thing was that I attracted woman who really only cared about physical intimacy because of my body. It wasn't like I was always super ripped and it was obvious to see...but because I personally was so obsessed about it, thats what I got.
To be healthy, you don't need to look like some male barbie in the men's health magazines. I think we've distanced ourselves somewhat from reality, and now we think thats what we need to look like. Its the same thing that girls go through, if they look at beauty mags all the time.
For example. Look at pecs. If you open up a men's health, you'll see a guy with pecs that look so big and plump. Thats not healthy. Thats just the result of pushing and exercising that muscle excessively. I doubt anywhere, or anytime in the world, a man would naturally have that look... Sure pecs can become harder and more defined, but thats just ridiculous.
It all comes down to nature, our views of opposite sex that is. Women like a strong man due to nature. Same as in a group of lions the female lions end up with the biggest, strongest hunter. That way the female lion knows she is breeding with a lion with good strong genes giving off spring a better chance of survival. Same as women and men. Women go after bigger men because of nature. And vice versa. Men go after women with big hips, not cuz we love asses. But because wide hips shows that a women would be able to easily bear children. Same as big boobs, we see big boobs as a good thing for a partner to breed with. It all comes back to nature.
Though we have thumbs and big brains the fact of the matte ris we are just animals and most of our actions are based around that
Nevermind
Its hard chasing after images... and in my experience its not worth it. Its better to just enjoy exercising for the enjoyment itself. For me going after an image actually was hurting me in life. And I did that for probably 10 years.
One thing was that I attracted woman who really only cared about physical intimacy because of my body. It wasn't like I was always super ripped and it was obvious to see...but because I personally was so obsessed about it, thats what I got.
To be healthy, you don't need to look like some male barbie in the men's health magazines. I think we've distanced ourselves somewhat from reality, and now we think thats what we need to look like. Its the same thing that girls go through, if they look at beauty mags all the time.
For example. Look at pecs. If you open up a men's health, you'll see a guy with pecs that look so big and plump. Thats not healthy. Thats just the result of pushing and exercising that muscle excessively. I doubt anywhere, or anytime in the world, a man would naturally have that look... Sure pecs can become harder and more defined, but thats just ridiculous.
It all comes down to nature, our views of opposite sex that is. Women like a strong man due to nature. Same as in a group of lions the female lions end up with the biggest, strongest hunter. That way the female lion knows she is breeding with a lion with good strong genes giving off spring a better chance of survival. Same as women and men. Women go after bigger men because of nature. And vice versa. Men go after women with big hips, not cuz we love asses. But because wide hips shows that a women would be able to easily bear children. Same as big boobs, we see big boobs as a good thing for a partner to breed with. It all comes back to nature.
Though we have thumbs and big brains the fact of the matte ris we are just animals and most of our actions are based around that
Nevermind