med_breeder
Active member
Hello,
To start off this is not a self pity inducing thread. I want no pity. I am just curious. I am a nice,warm, some times out going person. I work hard, and a little on the serious side.
I am not the best looking guy in the world, not in the best shape, but I make an effort. I have no friends. I have people, and co-workers who will chat with me, pass time when work is slow, but that is about it. I take an interest in people, get them talking about themselves, but that is where the topic stays. I try so hard to create a warm and inviting athmospere always, I just find it so hard to attract people. The people I attract are so self centered.
I am not anti-social, I wish I could join the party, but I am never invited.
Our favorite hobby helps keep me sane.
my question is, is it common for people over age 30, to not even have one friend?
To start off this is not a self pity inducing thread. I want no pity. I am just curious. I am a nice,warm, some times out going person. I work hard, and a little on the serious side.
I am not the best looking guy in the world, not in the best shape, but I make an effort. I have no friends. I have people, and co-workers who will chat with me, pass time when work is slow, but that is about it. I take an interest in people, get them talking about themselves, but that is where the topic stays. I try so hard to create a warm and inviting athmospere always, I just find it so hard to attract people. The people I attract are so self centered.
I am not anti-social, I wish I could join the party, but I am never invited.
Our favorite hobby helps keep me sane.
my question is, is it common for people over age 30, to not even have one friend?