It's hard to accept that this kind of ridiculous shit still takes place. I can definitely relate to nosy neighbors and the paranoia that comes with it. Having grown for decades in my home, I was always super paranoid about smell and post grow disposal and clean up.
In the old days, I never threw used nutrient containers and grow equipment boxes away in my trash containers, and excess plant waste always got burned late at night in my fireplace on cold winter nights. I can still remember one time when I was growing some 4SD and my room had a tiny leak that was getting past the carbon filter. A life long buddy came by to visit who had parked in front of my house rang my doorbell saying, "Rocky you dumb fuck, I can smell fuel infested weed as soon I get out of my car!"
I grabbed him by the shirt and yanked him into the house, freaking out hoping that a neighbor didn't hear him. Sound tends to carry. We both went downstairs to my grow room, traced the source of the leak, and fixed it ASAP.
Compounded by all of this ridiculous shit, it always turns out that you cant even trust many of your friends to know about your "little secret" downstairs in the basement. I've had a couple of different so called good buddies who threatened to call the cops on me after disagreements, Needless to say, they're not welcome in my home anymore and I've told them to go fuck off and never return.
You need to find a good lawyer which is going to cost you a pile of money. Caveat emptor with any which one you choose, because at the end of the day, they are all a bunch of slime bags who are only interested in your money, not your freedom and personal welfare.
Stay strong, remain bold, and you will somehow overcome all this. It must be a heavy burden to bare.
When it's all done and passed, move to a legal state, and try putting this all behind you. The adversity will make you better person in the long run, even though it probably doesn't appear that way to you right now.