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backstabbed again, but hey i am now single

supermanlives

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Was there any reason why you could get the lights and seeds but not the actual mothers? I would have been taking ALL OF IT if it was my property. That bitch would have been lucky to be still walking if it was me. Sounds like you handled her new guy the right way though

I got some of the gear. good enough for me for NOW. I have a feeling floro guy wont last long but who knows aint my problem anymore. me and her were together a long time it hurts a bit I admit.all that hurt will go away as I continue my adventure here in my new spot .but she is dead to me till she is really dead. then I either spit on her grave or her body lol. I didn't see this coming at all. deception at its finest.she knew them moms meant a lot to me, especially one dedicated to a dead friend who helped me alot before he died. steve r
 

Wiggs Dannyboy

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Bummer superman...

Sounds like you have a nice little community of people to hang with, that's a big help. You seem like the kind of guy who will have things moving forward asap. Live and learn.
 

supermanlives

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already working on it. long as I can have enough to smoke myself I am ok for time being. maybe I need another trailer nand make trailer park boys jealous lol. ya real good peeps here. so much so it amazes me. when I said things were tough to friend here he asked rent paid? got food? if ya need anything its taken care of. I have donated some time to a community gathering spot here cooking previously and will in future too so the good karma is gonna flow I think. this is the type of spot if ya walking down road folks will stop and ask ya if you need a lift .peace
 

IGROWMYOWN

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floros have their place and I have used em before. but it was already up and running for years and was dialed in. floros wont touch hid in a well run grow. end of story there. hey it made it easy for me to get them. otherwise it would have gotten real ugly. loosing the moms sucks but I always been a bit paranoid and hidden my seeds. so atleast I got em and finding a few new moms wont take too long. ......hey I liked the jokes all.... peace
I don't want to get into a pissing match do what works for you BUT there Are ton of T-5 threads with guys having bushes I know you think floros are a joke I don't have any of my old HID photos I'm not a big photo guy but that plant in the middle is more than 4 feet wide no stretch pots are sitting on the same table as the bucket is sitting on that's 7 weeks veg theres not an stretch I can get pretty close to plants MH cant do that where HID does have T-5 beat is canopy penetration but I don't usually let them go that long in here long story. These are supplemental light off to the side like I said long story :laughing: but you can see how dense they are here that's 6 plants crammed in. To each his own but I put it to you this way my there are 2 600 MH behind those in a cabinet i'm not looking back. I hope you get everything back better than it was before and you find a better more trustworthy old lady :tiphat:
 

supermanlives

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floros aint a joke and can work quite well. but not as well as hid is all I am sayin. floros have their place and I have used them many times. but the grow was already setup and dialed in running many years. to replace the hid output he will have to have a lot more plants vrs my less but bigger plants. making it a bigger risk if busted. not my problem anymore anyhow.. I might even go with a stacked shelf floro grow for a temp grow. works ok with lots of small plants. but that's sort of where it all started isn't it lol. grow with whatever ya want but science tells the story. aircooled hid for me. when I use floros I don't like the plants taller than about 18 inches. scrog or sog is my choice for floro grows for sure.
 
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thaicat

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I've said it before and am certain I'll say it many times again. Girls (or any human being) and growing don't mix that well together.

Kinda like Soda and Mentos...
 

BOMBAYCAT

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I'm glad the worms are good. It's all frozen here so the trout are all waiting for summer. Any chance you could get the mom plants back? At least you got the grow gear. It will get better and it sounds like you are better off. A good grow is a good thing with a situation like yours.
 

blastfrompast

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Think about it this way....

The new BF seems like he ain't the smarted tool in the shed....LEO's tend to bust these types of people.

Karma is a bitch...


My one bit of advise when finding a woman to settle down with.....18months house arrest...If you can make it through that...she is a Keeper...LOL. Trapped in a house for 18 months with only one 2 hour block of free time (besides work) teaches you whether you can REALLY spend your life with someone. :)

Not suggesting anyone go get busted to find out if your GF is wife material...but you get what I am saying I hope.
 
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1TWISTEDTRUCKER

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Keep on keeping on Superman.
Good on Ya for blasting that Prick.
Glad She didn't get Your seed bank.
I hope You take Your time before taking another partner.
When You do I hope You find a Lady worthy of your love.

Peace; 1TT
 

m314

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That sucks about the plants. I found out about my wife's new boyfriend a couple years ago. It sucked at the time, but she was nice enough to leave without taking my stuff. She even left me a bunch of cash with a note since she felt so guilty about it.

The best thing to do now is to cut contact and do your best to focus on the future. Thinking about her and the new guy will only make you unhappy. Focus on yourself and your plans for the future, and before you know it none of this will matter.

Meeting new girls has a way of taking your mind off things. I'll never forget the first time I got laid after my divorce. Petite Japanese girl in Oakland. I felt like I was the king of the world that whole weekend. Lol. It's funny how one little thing can make you feel a million times better.
 
So many people on here pimping strong. Good thing it wasnt me I would of.... Thats why prisons are full. You handled it right. Low profile. Thats how smart pimps roll. Life lesson learned and from reading your posts over the years I know you will come back stronger than ever. Theres some killer phenos just waiting for you in those seeds.
 

supermanlives

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off to party at 6 . on lookout for new woman lol. theres a lot of parties here it seems .my friend here knows everyone and is well respected. peace ,pot and no relationship pussy.DAVESNOTHERE
 

LEF

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Think about it this way....

The new BF seems like he ain't the smarted tool in the shed....LEO's tend to bust these types of people.

leo bust these people, and these end up snitching

sorry to hear about your troubles, but I know you will gain from it

I can sort of imagine how that must be for you, the surprise, the treason, the fluoros... I would be pretty upset too

I think that if take a look at the bigger picture, it could be much more worse

sounds like you got a lot of support too, good for you

it amazes me, the stories of women doing some pretty wacked out stuff, burning men to the ground etc.

sounds like you are taking it pretty good
I know some guys have a hard time getting it together after they learn off their woman having an affair

cheers and friendly vibes
 

siftedunity

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so he flowers under floro and uses cheap soil and nutes? no wonder he stole your hids lol that was most likely his only chance at getting a decent crop. I mean his new gf isn't much cop either by the looks of the situ. what a looser! chin man up man and good luck!
 

LEF

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Some people wait until they have found someone new before leaving their first partner.

it's like the monkey branch theory, you hold onto one branch before grabbing another

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pappy masonjar

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I think 99% of women do the Monkey Branch thing. Some just have the decency to wait to fuck the new guy until their last relationship is over. I have used that analogy for years.

Sorry to hear this bro. And i know this is a cheesy cliche, but if she did that to you, you really are much better off without her.
 

blastfrompast

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leo bust these people, and these end up snitching

I also suggest making like the wind for a while, cut all ties, drop cell, total wipe...sounds like your crashing with friends which is good.

Though punching him in the nose might have either helped or hurt your cause in this respect.

Don't let her know where you live, no nothing.

And I wouldn't jump back in trying to find a GF... Have fun..

I suggest making a list of what you REALLY want in a woman...worked for me..sounds weird...but I'm gonna say it worked..take the worst thing about each of your ex's...crazy dad..too needy..whatever..

FYI... Her being a stoner is not a requirement...my wife gets migraines from the smell of pot...doesn't smoke...but is extremely supportive of my medical grow....I have a jungle in the basement and she is happy as a clam even if she has a migraine around trimming time...this weekend incidentally :)..

Finally...holy crap am I ever blasted after reading the stuff I just wrote..lol
 

m314

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Some people wait until they have found someone new before leaving their first partner.

it's like the monkey branch theory, you hold onto one branch before grabbing another

That's what happened with my marriage. Things had been going downhill that last year. At some point she decided to find someone else. She didn't want to deal with the loneliness that comes with ending a relationship, so she found someone else first.

Looking back it was really a blessing in disguise. I wanted to stay with her at the time, maybe try marriage counseling or something. Looking back we just weren't meant for each other. I hope she's doing well these days, but I hardly ever think about her anymore.

Being single is fun. I can meet new girls every weekend if I want. I've had some of the craziest experiences since the divorce. Two girls in the same day, 3 girls over a 3 day weekend, two girls at the same time (bi girls in a relationship who wanted to have fun that night). I do pretty much whatever I want whenever I want these days. I'd still like to find the right girl and stay with her; I'm just more careful about making that commitment these days.
 
Hey supes

Hey supes

Hey supermanlives
That flouro guy sucks! Probably thinks he is some kind of hero. Blech! May his flouro grows suffer hemaphroditism, chemical saturation and powdery mildew! That woman never deserved you, or your worms! That is pathetic! Stealing worms.
Hope your having fun with your freedom brother. Woop!
 
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