Seriously!

[SumDumGuy]

I don't even know how to start this! I'm feeling like utter shit right now. Maybe someone has a similar experience and it'll make me feel less shitty.. My last grow I scored over a pound and a quarter of which half a pound was stolen. So says the courier who was on the way to a cooperative. What can I do. I'm not violent and I'm not a talker so I took it for a loss swallowed it.

A couple months ago a friend fronted me some work and it was all golden. At this point I'm working with a new courier whom was somewhat quick and reliable up until the last batch where he simply forgot to pay. Seriously? I don't bother you while you work but if I call you then enough is enough! Where is the cheese?!!! Now I don't fucking work - being a total fucking moron I quit my job because I decided to grow full time and I need to answer for this debt myself!! Yes this is my fault. Yes I will never accept fronted work especially when someone else puts in their sweat and effort and has to wait for me to come through!

At what point does the lid explode? I've never been violent but something inside me is changing and it's scaring me! I have thoughts I never had before and I know what will happen if I see anyone of these two couriers.. Is there a fucking school where you can recruit good couriers??

I am a farmer. I consider myself a farmer. Maybe not a good farmer but a farmer nonetheless. At what point in a pea sized brain does someone decide "I don't have to pay for this because he has plenty?" And who gives you the right to make that decision? So now here I am on the verge of losing a great friend because I literally do not have the means to comply with what is due! I will clear this debt. Hell I'm working on it as I type but WTF!!! Are you fucking serious??

I'm sorry for being out of character but I've been holding this in for some time and this is just something I can't speak about with anyone. Thanks. FUCK MY LIFE!!

 

[genkisan]

If someone burns you, retribution is due.


There are non-violent means of doling out karma beatings.......PM me if you want fer details.

 

[Iron_Lion]

Sounds like these peeps look at you as an easy target. 1st mistake was trusting someone else with a task as important as that one. If you want shit done right ya gotta do it yourself.

 

[Natagonnaworrie]

They are called Hitters and you should know a few for just this type of scenario

 

[SumDumGuy]

If someone burns you, retribution is due.


There are non-violent means of doling out karma beatings.......PM me if you want fer details.

Thank you Genkisan I shot you a PM brother..

Sounds like these peeps look at you as an easy target. 1st mistake was trusting someone else with a task as important as that one. If you want shit done right ya gotta do it yourself.

Iron Lion brother you are right. Because I'm your typical "nice guy". I suck at the sales end - or better yet I just don't want my face to be synonymous with the end product but I see your point and it looks like I'll have to LEARN to become my own rep as well. Maybe I'm a little pussy! You know what that name suits me well!!

 

[paladin420]

If these couriers are workin for or with collectives they need to be fixed and fixed pronto. Explain to your friend the situtation they may hav some imput. This business is risky, as even legal we can get no help (nor do I want ) from LEO.
PM me for amusing stories from the good old days workin collections (Bad Karma -. Neither courier would b courierin.. Good Luck Brudda

 

[SumDumGuy]

They are called Hitters and you should know a few for just this type of scenario

Hi NataGonnaWorrie.. Seems like I will definitely have to play a different game. There is no trust in this field!

 

[SumDumGuy]

If these couriers are workin for or with collectives they need to be fixed and fixed pronto. Explain to your friend the situtation they may hav some imput. This business is risky, as even legal we can get no help (nor do I want ) from LEO.
PM me for amusing stories from the good old days workin collections (Bad Karma -. Neither courier would b courierin.. Good Luck Brudda

Hi Paladin420 and thanks guys for your replies bro. I tell you my emotions are on highs and lows brothers.. Fucking sad-tears-anger-deepanger then sadness. Shit sucks.. I spoke to my buddy and he understands totally! The thing is this is my responsibility and a friend is worth too too much to lose I will clear this debt. You guys made me feel aware again . Just ice to know you guys are here when I need to talk but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't going crazy inside.

 

[intotheunknown]

or there is always.....

what goes around, always comes around.
let it be, and let what happen, happen.

 

[Hammerhead]

did you ever confront the dude? I would you dont need to get violent as that will most likely bring Leo. If you get some bullshit from the guy just tell him you got his # and will be telling all of your contacts that he has stolen from you. Most run in a small circle if they here he has done this most wont do any buisness with them anymore. I learned along time ago to be very careful of the bridges you burn.

 

[SumDumGuy]

or there is always.....

what goes around, always comes around.
let it be, and let what happen, happen.

Hi IntoTheUnknown, and trust I live by that statement but it gets to the point where enough is enough.

I made this bed! I've always been afraid of the consequences of getting caught but no more. Like Iron Lion stated I'm going to be my own courier from now on!!

 

[Weird]

admitting your culpability is the first step

realizing the stupidity of thinking there is such a thing as easy money will be your second

energy spent in retribution will not resolve your issues or possibly help incline the people who owe you to pay you back

starting a business without having conceptualized, analyzed and provisioned for the workflow and related processes necessary to complete the revenue cycle is a HUGE failure you can only blame on yourself

hate to be tough on you like that but it is what it is

 

[SumDumGuy]

did you ever confront the dude? I would you dont need to get violent as that will most likely bring Leo. If you get some bullshit from the guy just tell him you got his # and will be telling all of your contacts that he has stolen from you. Most run in a small circle if they here he has done this most wont do any buisness with them anymore. I learned along time ago to be very careful of the bridges you burn.

What is good HammerHead.. It's been some time since that 16oz cup brother . Yes indeed I confronted both. The guy who lost a half a pound of my own was very very apologetic like I said I swallowed it. But the the guy from the last drop just fucking dodged the hell out of me. I know his mother! This is what complicates things. When we speak he runs stories so damn fast with unbelievable rhetoric! I'm not violent brother HammerHead. Just feelings is what I referred to..

My area is full of scumbags that smoke sell and swear they know all about the ganja but I'm learning they are ALL SCHEMERS! I love the way they negotiate too.. Ex: "Yo man but give me a good price yo so that I can eat too". Why the fuck are you asking for a good price if your intentions to pay are clouded? Not a fucking clue!

 

[SumDumGuy]

admitting your culpability is the first step

realizing the stupidity of thinking there is such a thing as easy money will be your second

energy spent in retribution will not resolve your issues or possibly help incline the people who owe you to pay you back

starting a business without having conceptualized, analyzed and provisioned for the workflow and related processes necessary to complete the revenue cycle is a HUGE failure you can only blame on yourself

hate to be tough on you like that but it is what it is

Brother Weird thank you for your strict words. Indeed you are absolutely correct! With such a great community here I should have ASKED first the more experienced distributors for advice instead of assuming "there is such a thing as easy money" as so stated eloquently!

I see Growing and "the Business end" are 2 completely different BEASTS!!

 

[SumDumGuy]

I'm going out for a walk I really need to smell some outside air and the sounds of the fan are becoming irritable at the moment. Thank you ICMag for talking to me when I needed someone to talk to. I promise I will return the favor if you need someone to talk to..

 

[whateverman]

You lost, what, five grand and in the process learned a hard lesson?

My last hard lesson cost me way more in lawyer fees alone.

If you truly learn from this, you made out like a fucking king.

Perspective.

 

[HighDesertJoe]

We'll get you though this BUDdy

 

[mule420]

Hate to hand you your ass, however never front on a front first rule of this bizness... and the second rule fuck me? NO fuck U! Takes years to lay it out sometimes... My longest fuck u took ten years... Time never forgets, And nether do I... Hope you find peace over the deal!

 

[Hammerhead]

I think he's got it. You learn by yor mistakes its all good my brother.

 

[headiez247]

I feel for your situation because you come across as a very genuine, nice, laid back, non violent farmer. Sadly it is people like this who often get burned.

If your courrier knows where you grow, your best bet is gonna be to just leave it be and you will never see him again. If you can afford to move your grow location then by all means go after the guy.

Its a big lesson but clearly you need to deliver your meds to the dispensary yourself from now on and fuck all these other non working losers who think its cool to just drive away with your hard earned herb.