Well I have to feel for ya.
When I was married to my 6th wife, her brother was strung on coke and stole his dads truck and wiped out his accounts in Vegas. I told him and all his family that I refused to ever be within rifle shot of him. My MIL mouthed off about "my self righteous attitude" and I told her the same thing.
Well I'm no longer in that family anymore but they never ripped me off or compromised the integrity of my own home and sanctuary.
A person has to insist that their sanctuary isn't violated. When your own home is no longer a secure sanctuary then it is human nature to explore other options. Explain to you wife that your sanctuary is being violated and that you can't live like that.
It would be no different than you deciding to raise deadly snakes in the bedroom: The snakes would go or she would look someplace else for her sanctuary.
When I was married to my 6th wife, her brother was strung on coke and stole his dads truck and wiped out his accounts in Vegas. I told him and all his family that I refused to ever be within rifle shot of him. My MIL mouthed off about "my self righteous attitude" and I told her the same thing.
Well I'm no longer in that family anymore but they never ripped me off or compromised the integrity of my own home and sanctuary.
A person has to insist that their sanctuary isn't violated. When your own home is no longer a secure sanctuary then it is human nature to explore other options. Explain to you wife that your sanctuary is being violated and that you can't live like that.
It would be no different than you deciding to raise deadly snakes in the bedroom: The snakes would go or she would look someplace else for her sanctuary.
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