Girlfriend is demanding I open the locked door. What to say?
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medicaluser2
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i've read all 17 pages of this thread and wow:
dump her gracefully by telling her you cheated on her with mary jane. tell her you were sleeping with MJ (substitute any womans name) all along.
you are wrong for putting her in this whole situation. the best thing you can do is give her a great reason to leave you with little cause for suspicion. you will end up in a concrete room with bars if you dont save yourself. take the hit to your ego and lie to her again but about cheating even if its only for a temporary breakup to finish the grow you need her out of there til harvest.
1.you did this to yourself
2.AND you asked for advice before it happened (which you didn't take)
3. you are selfish to put her in this position and naive to think nothing will happen to her WHEN you get popped.
4. you are just it for the money now.sounds like you live flashy and dont want to stop. flashy people get robbed. it isnt pretty and you could be putting her at bigger risk than you think!
time to grow up in a different light and do the right thing. let her know its over.
dump her gracefully by telling her you cheated on her with mary jane. tell her you were sleeping with MJ (substitute any womans name) all along.
you are wrong for putting her in this whole situation. the best thing you can do is give her a great reason to leave you with little cause for suspicion. you will end up in a concrete room with bars if you dont save yourself. take the hit to your ego and lie to her again but about cheating even if its only for a temporary breakup to finish the grow you need her out of there til harvest.
1.you did this to yourself
2.AND you asked for advice before it happened (which you didn't take)
3. you are selfish to put her in this position and naive to think nothing will happen to her WHEN you get popped.
4. you are just it for the money now.sounds like you live flashy and dont want to stop. flashy people get robbed. it isnt pretty and you could be putting her at bigger risk than you think!
time to grow up in a different light and do the right thing. let her know its over.
I agree with ya but he's past that now. She is already suspicious or she wouldn't be "demanding" anything.
Cojito
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informed consent? curious about this. what happened to "tell no one?"
so you're saying all indoor growers must either live alone (allowing for one or two trusted visitors), or have enough money to own a second home to grow in?
seems extreme and unrealistic. i mean, if he was actually involving her in the grow somehow then i could understand, but why is he responsible if the cops decide to be dicks and arrest his innocent guest? the police are not required to arrested or harass law abiding citizens. that's really on them - not the OP.
i had a buddy that grew quite a bit back in the day. i was over his place often. never had a clue until he told me years later. i've had roommates that had stealth grows. no one said shit about it. hell, i imagine most of the computer case/speaker/cabinet/closet grows on here are meant to be hidden from visitors and roommates. i mean, why grow in a speaker if everyone in your home knows what's up?
if i'm ever swept up in a raid while i'm at a friend's stealth grow i sure as hell won't be blaming anyone but the cops and folks who support cannabis prohibition. that said, i really think the OP should start being honest with his GF. if he really wants a relationship with her just spark up a "J" when she's over and see what happens.
Wow, I sure wish I knew about this earlier.... I CAN'T STAND when people do that shit! ! ! I wouldn't have bothered posting in this thread. This is YUMMYBUD PART DEUX.
Dude you're being very selfish. I understand the need to lie to most people about this out of necessity, but if you are going to let someone get close to you and attached, and lie to their face and put them at risk while they're over your place, just because you think you'd be miserable alone? that's just wrong man. You don't give a shit about her you are only thinking of yourself.
This is going to end bad for you and it should. You fucked up. Next girl you'll know better.
Like I said before I was in this EXACT situation a few years ago. My conscience got the better of me and I did the right thing and told her, and she ended it. Why? Because she didn't want to be with a pot growing criminal. I don't really think of myself as a criminal, but that's exactly what I am. And so are you. The vast majority of society is going to see you that way.
My last girl I picked because she was a cool chick and smoked and knew how to keep a secret, so I told her within the first week. Never had a problem and she loved that I was a pot growing criminal.
If you want to keep doing this you need to be a little more selective, unless you just want someone to fuck. In that case, lie and keep them at an arms length. Don't let them fall for you, which is what it sounds like you've let this one do. I wish you luck dude, but honestly like I said. You did this to yourself and deserve what you get. Live and learn.
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thyme time
what happened ?????
I believe what happened was the gentleman aired his laundry and didn't expect the wind to blow quite so much. Ain't friends grand?
he told her and now shes feeding the trees and he is cleaning the wood chipper
I quit doing meth to date you but I still cook it in the back room. Hope you understand...
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gdawg
"My last girl I picked because she was a cool chick and smoked and knew how to keep a secret, so I told her within the first week."
^^new thread coming soon^^
^^new thread coming soon^^
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LadyCropSitter
It's very unrealistic and expensive, yet it's the only way to keep safe. You can thank LEO for that.
You simply have to have a gf who smokes so that you can keep her stoned and in the house all day. This truly eliminates alot of potential hazards that come with women. You also don't really have to worry about her snitching either because she won't want to lose her free weed connection not to mention she will already be too paranoid of the cops to ever call them! 
Chomp
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Yeah like I said you find ppl like that and then not only go out with them but stay with them?? Again that's on you....you got to watch out to who you are calling friends lol Headband707
What are you like 15? Did you not understand a word I wrote? Put the pipe down for a minute and use your head for something other than a place to store your hat
"My last girl I picked because she was a cool chick and smoked and knew how to keep a secret, so I told her within the first week."
^^new thread coming soon^^
haha well we've already been split for about 6 months so...
I think a good general rule is you don't tell anyone at all but there are exceptions to this and you just have to use your judgement.
Gdawg, so is your solution to never have a real relationship? You can't get very close to someone if they don't know an aspect of your life that is so intimate. If that works for you that's cool but I've known a few people whose girlfriends have known whats up and no probs to date. Always a risk though.
Hell yeah, a trump card or thirty never hurt a thang.
Naked pics are never a bad thing, even if they never get used as a card, they still get used.
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