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Why you should NOT tell anyone..

dustin27

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Oh, where to begin? Perhaps a little background history.

An old "friend" from high school and I moved into a small apartment together. My girlfriend started living with us. We all moved up two floors to a larger apartment, and his girlfriend started living with us as well. We split rent 4 ways; I got a high speed internet connection in my name, and that was split 4 ways also.

Well my "friend" has some issues. He was diagnosed bi-polar years ago. For some reason, he has hated every girlfriend I have had; I suspect its because he stops getting all my attention. He has a temper too. I have seen him have fits and break shit; he spent a night or two in jail for throwing his skateboard through his grandmas window.

So were living together, and its stressful. My girlfriend and I are quiet, clean, withdrawn, and keep to ourselves. The other two are loud, egotistical, lazy and messy. I would spend my days cleaning their messes from the night before out of the kitchen. They would never have rent ready on time or internet money, when I came to collect.

So over the last year it just got more conflicted. I had a grow in the living room closet, and he freaked about seeing the light. (I'm medically legal, by the way). I had vegging plants in a hall closet. I actually moved both grows into my own bedroom. Used a chunk of my closet to veg, and built a 7x5x7 grow tent right next to my bed. Not the most convenient, but it had to be done. Next he freaked about the tent, in my own room. He said he was paranoid and couldnt sleep and was just waiting for something bad to happen.

It just gets more and more hostile. We would always try to stay in our room and leave only after they had left. They picked up on that and verbally attacked us one night, calling us passive aggressive and stuff, because of the way we openly avoided them. They say they want us out. They went out and looked in the paper the next day, and even called on an apartment for us. WHAT THE FUCK, YOUR NOT HELPING!!!

So the internet is in my name, they ask if Im taking the modem with me. I said that service isnt provided where we are going. They said they already called the provider, it would be possible to change the account to their name.

My girl and I had been looking for places for a while and finally found a decent place. We started packing our shit. When I graduated from high school, my parents got me a bunch of housewarming stuff. Pots, pans, cooking gear, ect. I pack that crap knowing its mine. I take a load up to my new place and start getting text messages.

This is the day after they ask about the internet. I go up to our new town to drop shit off. Before I left town, I stopped at the internet place and asked about switching names; they gave me a form to fill out. ( The modem and wireless are in my room, mind you). I get up to our new place and get a call from my girlfriend, who says the internet people have showed up already. WTF!? I DIDNT AUTHORIZE THIS. In fact, I never even gave them my name when I stopped in the store. The fucking roommates had called them. Well, he walked right into my room and took the modem and wifi with the technician, and take it to set up in his room. Well about that time they realized they didnt have permission to do it, so they left, leaving the damn internet unplugged.

So then I get a message saying I need to sign a paper at the net place. I reply "i need half the internet money before I do that" and then he said that he wants his stuff back. I ask what stuff and he specifically mentions pots and pans that I know are mine. POTS AND PANS. Well his girlfriend gets on and texts me some mean shit and I just say nope, those are mine and staying that way. The reply was "im not paying internet, fuck you". I say "Ill just cancel my account and have them pick up the modem." Well that got them to shut up.

So somewhere between me denying them my cookingwear, his girlfriend went into our room and tore up half of my vegging plants that I had left. My SD Riri cut. My 4 Doublewreck phenos I needed to run again and test. 2 Sour Diesel IBLs I had vegged and scrogged. I get home and find my shit trashed. My girlfriend freaked out big time, I was more sad then mad. They came and tried to say sorry and my girl freaked, it was nice. Luckly only one Chem IBL pheno was damaged, but it will be fine.

I'll add now that these fuckers have done alot of shit to fuck with us. They play music really loud, too loud, just to piss us off. They are loud all night with no respect for anyone else. They watered down my girlfriends shampoo. They used her tampons, drank our soda. Used shit that we paid for, secretly. We could hear them sit out in the living room with their stupid friends talkin shit. He is a charismatic kid, and i'm sure when he was "talkin shit" it was in a way that glorified himself while it put us down, you know what I mean?

So lets continue. That brings us to Christmas Eve. We have most our stuff out of that place, and were planning to get the rest out Monday. My girlfriend and I are planning to stay at her grandmas over night to celebrate the holiday. I give the kid the paper I signed to switch the internet over. We go to her grandmas. He starts texting my girlfriend a bunch of mean shit, saying I dont think for myself and that she screwed ME up. Then he finishes by saying I'm allowed to come back and get our stuff but if she comes back, he will call the police. Yeah. On XMAS eve.

I had eaten a small dose of cubensis, so naturally this stress just set me off. I freaked from all the stress, and cried hysterically for two hours. :) Laugh it up. On Christmas, before we went back, we stopped by the police station ourselves. The cops agreed with me that there was nothing he could do. We didnt have a lease or agreement with our or his name on it. We just went back to our room, and they never spoke to us once. And then we got the fuck out of there the next day.

NEVER keep your precious mothers where your enemies can destroy them.
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Here is another anecdote about the fuckhead i have encountered.

WAY WAY back in August, I sold this other "friend" my old Cadillac Deville. For 300 dollars. I trusted the kid, and I told him it would be okay to make payments. I got 50 bucks and 10 bucks a week later, and then shit got bad. I believe he got fired from his jobs, what I heard, and he got some bitch pregnant. Well months go by, and during this time I tried to disassociate myself from him, he was peddling pills and crap. Then he starts contacting me, because my plates were still left on the car and they expired. He says he needs the title to register it so its legal. We'll theres no way in hell I wanted to give him the title before its paid, because I knew I would never get paid that way. I said "No I'll give you the bill of sale and you can get a temp registration." He goes on to argue thats not how its done, and says " IF you dont give me that title, I'll call the police and tell them about your op." At this point I'm down to a few plants left to harvest. " Its all legal you fucking asshole." And he said " We will see about that if I dont get my title." He said he would give me 50 right now and pay the rest in two weeks. That 50 turned into 20 the next day, and then when I gave him the title, I got nothing at all. I got fucked, I know it, my mistake. I have just cut my losses, I'm not expecting anything from these people. I'm just glad to get out of that town and be away from those horrible people. Can you believe this shit. I might go back and pop all their tires or something....Damn.

Dont tell anyone you grow, they could hold it against you for something, like money they owe you. Dont get fucked like I did.

Maybe not anyone, just dont trust people, unless you can 100 percent. I am starting anew. Only my parents know I grow now, my brother, my girlfriend. Thats all. Its also alot harder to keep a huge grow tent secret in your apartment bedroom. :laughing:

:thank you:

Thanks for lettin me vent peeps.
 
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firefox

looks like you have learned a lesson my friend but look on the bright side you have getting rid of the deadwood..lesson learned...:smoweed:.
 

slackx

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knock his teeth down his throat and teach him a lesson. Gonna let him disrespect your girl?
 

SOTF420

Humble Human, Freedom Fighter, Cannabis Lover, Bre
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There is such a thing as "enough is enough" with certain assholes in your own apartment or house. I believe in peace and kindness but there is always a point where beating the shit out of someone just seems to accomplish more. If you are legal then you should have pummeled this dickwad in the head and smacked the fuck out of his girlfriend as well, bare minimum. I would have also pissed on their clothes, in their shampoo, and shit in their shoes. Is that a toothbrush I see? Oh yeah the toilet needs a good scrubbing! ;)
 
Dude get a fucking backbone, yea I totally understand as a grower you sometimes have to put with shit, OK almost all the time but enough is enough.

You are in control of the situation believe it or not, you have choices always they might not be the choices you want but still always have a choice make a decision and get the fuck on with it.

Not trying to be a dick I just hate when people get taken advantage of, been there done that. Now I pick my friends more wisely.

Just remember success is the best revenge!
 

slackx

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There is such a thing as "enough is enough" with certain assholes in your own apartment or house. I believe in peace and kindness but there is always a point where beating the shit out of someone just seems to accomplish more. If you are legal then you should have pummeled this dickwad in the head and smacked the fuck out of his girlfriend as well, bare minimum. I would have also pissed on their clothes, in their shampoo, and shit in their shoes. Is that a toothbrush I see? Oh yeah the toilet needs a good scrubbing! ;)

amen! Always saying what i meant too say

Hows that tooth of yours go to the dentist yet ;)?
 

Noobian

Green is Gold
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I am just thankful I don't know you or anyone else in that story. You all sound like some real winners.
 

whodair

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dustin, you've just got a little practice for marriage/divorce...without the lawyers, kids, child support...conflict sucks !!

keep it peace homie !!
 

baan

Member
"hey why don't you be quiet at night and stuff? I can be a dick too, I just don't want to. I can smoke cigarettes in your room, leave rotten food in the fridge, get a mean dog that barks at everybody, soak your bath towels before you use them, or even stop flushing the toilet. I don't want this to go there."

A fight might cause more problems than it solves, especially since it might turn into felony charges... I know that your place is your place, but playing your cards carefully is better than having violent felon status. Sadly this isnt the 80s or 90s anymore, a fight draws more heat than a small grow op where I live. Shit sucks, sorry to hear that this happened to you.
 

BPJR

Member
Dude you need to surround yourself with better people.

Its almost a new year. TIme to take the lessons learned and move on to better things and better friends.

Good luck to you and your girl.

Cheers,
Bobby
 

SOTF420

Humble Human, Freedom Fighter, Cannabis Lover, Bre
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Yeah and next time you ever find yourself living with such fucking selfish tormenting idiots (hopefully never) ask yourself "how much LSD can I possibly obtain this month to put into ALL of their food condiments and personal hygiene products?" :bigeye:

Poke holes in condoms, shredded fiberglass on clothes pillows and bedding, red dye in laundry detergent, nair in shampoo & bodywash, vinegar in eyedrops, shall I go on? :crazy:
 
^ haha

dude please dont advocate violence especially hitting a girl comon man you know better than that!

Next time have a tape recorder because blackmail is a felony in itself! Booyah!
 

SOTF420

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Would never hit a girl dude, thats what your girlfriend is there for! :biggrin:
 
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Classy@Home

It's like dealing w/ dogs. Show hesitance or weakness, that fucking dog makes YOU it's bitch...

One of my brothers was renting out his first house, and got a collection of sub-human tenants that wrecked his place, never paid full rent, and otherwise dicked him around good. The rest of us siblings offered to go down and rectify the situation, permanently. He declined, saying that the tenants were having a rough time financially, and that he felt bad, and was cutting them a break.

A break???

No, he was a pussy, and a target, and by feeding the wildlife, he was getting set to be used, abused, bitten and shit on.

Tell no-one, Say nothing, but if you do, the first fucking time that dick threatens your grow, your freedom, your castle, you hit first and HARD. No mercy, no quarter, no dicking around.

Threaten my family, my wife, my kids?

Kiss your dental work, your knees, and maybe your life, goodbye...

"Weed Snitches are Bitches that end up in Ditches"

It's not too late - burn those motherfuckers, fast and brutal, and they'll never threaten anyone again...
 
I smell yummybud does anybody else or maybe its one of his cousins LOL

Scew me over once shame on you! Screw me over twice shame on me!
 

Stress_test

I'm always here when I'm not someplace else
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Unfortunately it is true that the people who usually screw you the worst are also the people you trusted the most.

I'm a med grower/user also and trust nobody but my immediate family. Nobody but myself, my girlfriend and my brother know about my grow.
But a couple months ago I had a blooming male in a closet for a few days while I was building an isolation chamber. I really needed that male to breed again to stabilize the strain I'm working on.
Well one day I came home and as I walked down the hallway I noticed the the closet door was ajar so I nudged it closed again. Then I thought "that's weird cause it never popped open before" so I opened it up and my prized male was gone...

My heart fell at my feet and I panicked! My ladies!
I had company so I couldn't even go look or mention that the male was gone. My grow is in a concealed room built behind a book case full of DVD's and CD's and my stereo setup. Everything in the room can be controlled with buttons on the stereo, including the door latches. So I could tell that nobody had opened the door at least.

I was furious and shocked at the same time. It didn't make sense. Who would steal a male plant in full bloom? Especially a pure Ruderalis?

Later that night a friend of mine called me and asked me to drop by his house. I have known that he grows for years but he has never even considered that I might also.
Anyway I got there and sitting in the middle of his kitchen table is my male. I flipped out!
He explained that his teenage son had been to my house with my kids and while rough housing he accidentally found it. So he stole it and hid it in his dads indoor grow room, where his dad found it. Needless to say that my male seeded every plant in his room.

My friend thought that I didn't know it was a male and began trying to calm me down and explain that it was just a worthless male anyway and was a waste of time to grow. I calmed down and told him I didn't know it was a pot plant and we just thought it was really pretty.

So his son now splits and stacks my firewood, shovels my snow and will be mowing my lawn this summer, for free.
 

Yes4Prop215

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haha wow thats what happens when you mix young 18 year old couples together...a bunch of unstable immature sloppy lifestyle going down....so glad i dont gotta deal with this BS anymore...

and growin some buds with 3 other people in the house...in the MAIN LIVING ROOM? with a SCHIZO?? wow bro you should be happy things went the way they did.

live and learn.....no more roomates no more headaches.
 

thelaughingman

Active member
There is such a thing as "enough is enough" with certain assholes in your own apartment or house. I believe in peace and kindness but there is always a point where beating the shit out of someone just seems to accomplish more. If you are legal then you should have pummeled this dickwad in the head and smacked the fuck out of his girlfriend as well, bare minimum. I would have also pissed on their clothes, in their shampoo, and shit in their shoes. Is that a toothbrush I see? Oh yeah the toilet needs a good scrubbing! ;)

knock his teeth down his throat and teach him a lesson. Gonna let him disrespect your girl?

"enough is enough" Mo'fo lol...sodomize him lol
 
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