My Wife Hates That I Still Smoke ... W.T.F.

[armedoldhippy]

to be fair, most people who are in their 30's, 40's, and older who still smoke pot regularly are burn-outs and fuckups sorry to offend, but that's the truth

statements like this are why there is so little hope for the future in this old world. you can send them to school & offer them the best educational experiences on the planet, & they are STILL too stupid/uneducated to know the difference between their opinions & facts. there is a very good reason that older people hear a young punk open his pie hole, shake their heads knowingly, & ignore them completely or say something along the lines of "brain-dead little fucks"... THIS is the truth...

 

[onehitjake]

As soon as I got to the bold part, it all made sense, he's still young enough to think he knows everything.

Bingo!
There is a reason enlightenment and clarity come from wise old ones, right?

Shucks, I remember a common theme from my youth, which appears to
be far less common now.

"Respect your elders"

 

[Hank Hemp]

Come on y'll quit picking on jd like that. Y'll are a bunch of 30 and 40yo burnouts who...what did he say? and older? Screw'em and throw him to the Wildcats.

 

[Burt]

wife and you have different priorities-that's cool-lots of fine honeys who'll bed an older head out that way-you got nothing to worry 'bout old man

 

[TLoft13]

a. grow a set, b. dump her, or c. just be miserable...

Supported.
Spent years in a relationship with an abusive GF, always having sympathy for her her stupid behavior, playing white knight and hoping to heal her(bad childhood yadayada). Fuck that man, if she wished to be another, better person she would already be it.
Cut your ties and say hello to your new, beautiful life.
If she's grilling you about something so minor after 15 years...just FUCK IT!

 

[Azzazal]

Supported.
Spent years in a relationship with an abusive GF, always having sympathy for her her stupid behavior, playing white knight and hoping to heal her(bad childhood yadayada). Fuck that man, if she wished to be another, better person she would already be it.
Cut your ties and say hello to your new, beautiful life.
If she's grilling you about something so minor after 15 years...just FUCK IT!

I think that sums my wife!
I must admit things have changed in my life, me being the professional earning a good salary,always a smoker though, to now, the full blown house husband, by no means poor but not rich, middle of the road, 2 kids busy and full life!
My wife can be a tyrant now and then, really off the wall stuff, about smoking,money,children,house. Thing is we have friends and family that have never and may never have it "so good". She smokes a bit every now and then, drinks a small amount but OMFG she can be irrational if straight, So much so the doctor said time for meds..
Now for a quiet life I'd have gone for it, but in the REAL world where she has feelings too, could I really expect her to juggle her life, work travel and stoner Bob? Nah!
Rather than dump her and make a mess of her life and my lurverly childrens lives ,I do my best to try and make her happy and OFF of any MEDS, I married her so indeed I love her, faults and all..

So OP, I still smoke, always will, I just try harder is all.......


PPS My young Ladys' 18 months and 5 Years can speak or understand 3 languages, 5 year old can read and write pre school, My life is full indeed!

 

[Phedrosbenny]

Turn her out....

 

[Skyver]

With age comes... more weed

With age comes... more weed

Funny how offended some people get when someone expresses an opinion opposite to their own.

To be fair, yes, this is my own experience with older friends still clinging to their hippie years (I'm in my 20's, we're talking 40's and up here) and that might not mesh with all of your worldviews, nor should it...

I've climbed the ladder a long way in a short time but I'm not so arrogant or ignorant as to think that pot has not always been a positive influence in my life.

just my opinion, as always, sorry if it's harsher than necessary from time to time...honesty's always the best policy right?

Maybe you think that you have peter pan syndrome & that you will stay in your 20's forever? Well I stopped smoking weed for about 8 years & I'm 34 now & if their is anything wrong in my life I can say right now it ain't due to weed. Sure, if I smoked a shitload a day to abuse levels then it would hold me back but if a drank shitloads a day it could/would at the very least cause me physical damage or even kill me. If I work in the day & come home, eat & then chill with a couple of spliffs, that don't make me a loser. You obviously are not smart for your age, sorry no offence mean't just saying how I see it.

 

[love?]

Old or young, we're all fucking dumb.

Seriously.

 

[RoachClip]

My GF smokes but she will take a few hits then wave her hand fanning the smoke away from her face saying she's done so I get to smoke the rest of a fattie and she will not ever take any hits from my glass pieces no matter as she complains it's to harsh, so thank god she doesn't have a problem with me smoking.

She does have a problem though when I watch porn and why I enjoy watching a hot 130 pound redhead freaking on the screen and I do love my GF Honestly I do all 346 pounds of her and the best thing of all is in the winter months she keeps me nice and warm so really what have I done wrong by watching some porn DON'T YOU?

Originally Posted by jd4083 https://www.icmag.com/ic/showthread.php?p=3656818#post3656818
to be fair, most people who are in their 30's, 40's, and older who still smoke pot regularly are burn-outs and fuckups sorry to offend, but that's the truth

JD I think when you made that comment you had your pamper all tight up in a bunch in your ass crack & need to stop wearing a bib and sucking on a lollipop

 

[foaf]

My wife of 21 yrs smoked some pot and sure knew I was an advocate when we met. She knew I grew mushrooms, hell, I did it in our kitchen, and she has taken LSD with me a few times. She has never been the enthusiast that I have.

Now, slowly over 20+ years and partially because we have kids, 2 teenagers now, she is "against" it. Now she mostly complains if I come in from my mancave reeking. She knows I smoke, but my life is much less complicated if I just minimize the amount she is aware of. I kinda have too anyway because I haven't shared my hobby with my kids yet.

I obviously grow pot, and had the good fortune to be able to build a special secret room at a property I own that is between work and home, and serves as an industrial machine space and storage. She doesn't know about that. On the best of days I think she would complain about the legal risk a little, since I dont smoke all that much and can afford to buy pot, but I do it for the fun of growing. On the worst days, she still has periods, she would probably use that against me in an argument.

So, you aren't alone in your situation. I am for the most part content with my less than perfect situation and I can get high as much as I really want to despite her changed attitude. I do smoke exclusively vapped hashoil when Im around the house because I dont reek, and me and the friends do have to go out back to the workshop/mancave to do it, but with kids who arent in the loop yet. It would be nice to prop up in the house with a bong in my underwear. Maybe someday.

 

[RockyMountainHi]

ya-know,,,,,

I know straight laced parents - the kids usually smoke.

I know parents that smoke,,, most of thier children - don't smoke.

I don't know what that means- but it seems to be the case more often than not.

- I know the post was about wifes vs hubby. But maybe the lesson there is - if you want your kids to avoid mj, be a stoner! lol (As for me - the wisest thing we learn is,, if you win an argument with the wife - you loose. Learn it, admit it. Know it. Don't know why,,,, lol

My wife said she was leaving if I kept hanging out with my fishing buddys.
Then I bought a bait shop.
Hope she's happy where ever she is.

 

[Young Pumpkin]

My wife said she was leaving if I kept hanging out with my fishing buddys.
Then I bought a bait shop.
Hope she's happy where ever she is.

Bumper sticker
"Wanted, female with her own fishing boat. Please send picture of boat"

 

[Ironeek]

 

[bigdaddyc9]

I have been married 14 years and get the same thing from my wife.She is afraid she'll lose her RN license.Bullshit.I dont smoke around her or the kids.But all she ever does is say "You smeell" at 1st I thought"Did I put on deodoreant today?" but finally figured out it was the weed.Even after almost dying and being pulled out of the fire by cannabis she still goes ballistic.Sad to think there will be another 14 years of "You smell",oh well,sucks to be her!

 

[jd4083]

What's that they say? "The truth hurts..."

 

[KSP]

Must be a pretty common problem. When I first met my ex-wife we both smoked, a lot, and I grew my own. She loved the fact that I smoked and didn't drink. She especially liked that I grew. After being married for about six years she did an about face and wanted to become "respectable" and to "just go straight". Said all her friends at the hospital thought I looked like a "druggie", and that she wanted us to start going to church every Sunday. Finally it was just too much bullshit to deal with and I quietly packed my shit one day and moved out. Life is too short.

 

[Hank Hemp]

Your right there KSP for sure. If they decide to become something different than what you fell in love with that's their fault. Too want to change you into something totally different than what she married, wow. Good deciding on your part.

 

[Lakota412]

Women come and go, (yes even wives), but weed will be there for you all your life.

Weed never bitches, never complains. Weed will not hold smoking weed against you.....

Tell her like it is.

 

[fatass]

My wife hates that I smoke too - she never tried - I warned her that I'm going to hide some weed in her food and she didn't screamed at me - so ?i guess she kinda want it