help with girlfriend

[CharacterZero]

haha this thread got out of hand. i didn't expect all this from it. i cant believe i even posted this shit. but that threw me for a loop.

and a lot of girls are shitty people and so are a lot of guys. but a lot aren't. i cant imagine all girls exactly the same and only out to fuck us guys over. really i see a lot more shitty guys out there than girls.

when i see that tat now, i just think to myself, this girl is with me now. she is worth it, but she needs to think about things a little better before she says things like that. she has only be smoking weed since she met me. she never really smoked before. she tried it a few times before me, but now its an everyday thing for her. and she loves to fuck while she is stoned.

 

[Miss Blunted]

Im not trying to find a "stoner chick"...a "stoner chick" prolly hops from dick to dick smoking whatever she can doing whoever has the bud....Im talking about a real lady...who wouldnt even think about carrying herself like todays fast ass hot panties do...it seems like im talking about an extinct breed of woman....perhaps i am...

i feel like this...if the bitch is so easy to get into bed/give me head/believe some dumb shit i make up/manipulate...then anyone can do that to the bitch and it doesnt make me special for being able to and it sure as hell doesnt make the bitch special enough for me to ever take her seriously

I'm a stoner chick and I am completely a lady. I say fuck a lot, but I'm still a respectable woman who doesn't jump around from dick to dick. I've been with few men for today's women and I'm very sure we do still exist. Sorry you haven't met nice women. What you put out there is what you get. That's how it works.

I was on my man's dick long before he was the guy with the best weed...he had the biggest dick, get it right....j/k, lol. We make our decisions on more than just a fuckin' bag of weed.

For you younger men in your early 20's....meeting a woman that's up to your standards at that age is as probable as us women finding a good man at that age....date until you're older, then look for a real mate.

 

[Kingsley Zissou]

How can you possibly not like Guns N Roses?

 

[CharacterZero]

How can you possibly not like Guns N Roses?

i dont know

i mean they are okay.. slash is pretty damn good. just dont like axle really.

and they just dont really do it for me. especially since the tat lol

 

[flubnutz]

i don't know what the big deal is, he probably couldn't see the tattoo anyways

 

[hard rain]

would this bother me? fuck no. tho' from the sounds of it many folks here sympathize with your insecurities.

but honestly, i'd be thrilled my GF trusted me enough to be honest about her sexual past. i always want to know about past lovers because if there was something they were doing that was getting my GF off i want to know about it.

if this is keeping you from getting hard there may be something else going on. maybe your just not ready for a real relationship with her. i mean, this is so insignificant in the grand scheme of things. rather than keeping your lips sealed i suggest you sit down and thrash it out with her. sometimes just talking about a problem makes it easier to deal with.

You're looking at the situation negatively. It is great she trusts you enough to tell you this. Make a decision not to let this get to you and it won't.

 

[Dojo]

I'm a stoner chick and I am completely a lady. I say fuck a lot, but I'm still a respectable woman who doesn't jump around from dick to dick. I've been with few men for today's women and I'm very sure we do still exist. Sorry you haven't met nice women. What you put out there is what you get. That's how it works.

I was on my man's dick long before he was the guy with the best weed...he had the biggest dick, get it right....j/k, lol. We make our decisions on more than just a fuckin' bag of weed.

For you younger men in your early 20's....meeting a woman that's up to your standards at that age is as probable as us women finding a good man at that age....date until you're older, then look for a real mate.

I have seen your point....and it is valid...only date and fuck...catch no feelings...and ill never be surprised when they spring some dumb shit on me

As for what I put out there....I dont even bother anymore its pointless..ive come to realization that my standards cannot be met...its like this epidemic of trying to grow up too fast and having babys with someone you KNOW your not gonna be with long...why every woman i met gotta have some loser baby father (or so they say...i say it takes two to dance)...or some fucked up desicion which haunts them....those type of girls that are SOOO easy to get ...and some dude like to think that cause you got that easy ass girl that somthing is "special" about it...i just know it isnt

But I do beilive in second chances and i do beilive they will disappoint

 

[teemu shalanie]

where is this douche bag that started this thread , we have all givin him , so many good senario's and super good ways to deal with a very small ,meaningless problem, he had,..well i hope he worked it out, anyways, I got to get back to getting a bj, from this random I just met , omg she has a gnr tramp stamp, so i smoked some weed with the bitch and she starts telling me a story about her ex , who didnt like getting his dick sucked , or fucking her doggystyle if he could see it, so she gave him his wish now he dont see that pussy @all.

hope this lil story puts it in perspective. peace.TS

 

[Miss Blunted]

Some of you newbers may like other sites better than this one...or at least you should try those out instead. Douche bags calling douche bags out is kind of a waste of bandwidth.

By the way, the threadstarter is not a douche because he asked other men (and women) about a situation he hadn't been in before. It just means he's not emotionally constipated and pretending to be this perfect person. Dude gets respect from me. I personally could sympathise with the situation and know that we are all human and do not possess a fucking instruction manual for this life.

 

[teemu shalanie]

Some of you newbers may like other sites better than this one...or at least you should try those out instead. Douche bags calling douche bags out is kind of a waste of bandwidth.

By the way, the threadstarter is not a douche because he asked other men (and women) about a situation he hadn't been in before. It just means he's not emotionally constipated and pretending to be this perfect person. Dude gets respect from me. I personally could sympathise with the situation and know that we are all human and do not possess a fucking instruction manual for this life.

haha< ooh Miss blunted you are too sensitive, we are all just joking around , so either have some fun with it or dont reply, maybe you would like another site better because there are a few of us joking around bustin balls in this thread, and then there is you who seem to take personaly , ? sorry if we offended you,

Just one question you have a GNR tatoo?

 

[Miss Blunted]

^ Ohhh, you're not even funny Too bad.

 

[Hovz]

take me down to the paradise city where the grass is green and the girls are pretty. OH WONT U PLEASSSEE TAKE ME HOMEEE!!!!

 

[CharacterZero]

where is this douche bag that started this thread , we have all givin him , so many good senario's and super good ways to deal with a very small ,meaningless problem, he had,..well i hope he worked it out, anyways, I got to get back to getting a bj, from this random I just met , omg she has a gnr tramp stamp, so i smoked some weed with the bitch and she starts telling me a story about her ex , who didnt like getting his dick sucked , or fucking her doggystyle if he could see it, so she gave him his wish now he dont see that pussy @all.

hope this lil story puts it in perspective. peace.TS

i thought i made a post explaining what happened with the situation, did i not?

i dont see how you can make a post like this and call me a douche bag?

oh your just being funny... okay

no respect at all.

 

[Squiggles]

its just a tattoo mate honestly
also if your doing ya missus doggie and all you can think about is a tatt
you are doing something wrong

 

[Dojo]

Some of you newbers may like other sites better than this one...or at least you should try those out instead. Douche bags calling douche bags out is kind of a waste of bandwidth.
.

Where should the newbers go?

Fact is if someones gonna ask a question on a forum expect everything from helpful answers, to opinions, to even...and now get this...negetivity...

The OP wanted a different perspective to his situation... a vast collective of different minds can lead one to some wisdom

Im going to bookmark this thread and bring it up in a year or so to see the outcome of this situation

 

[CharacterZero]

i could swear that i posted the outcome of this situation already. i already talked to her about it and its all good. it just got to me for a few.

its all good now

and i appreciate everyone's opinion's, even negative ones. i didn't ask for positive opinions only so ill take what i get.

but i mean I ALREADY POSTED THE OUTCOME OF THE SITUATION. just read the thread, its in there.

 

[CharacterZero]

thanks for all the replies. i got a lot of bad advice, good advice, and a lot more laughs.

so yeah, we have been together for about 8 months now and we have been living together for 3 of those 8 months. it is going so well too. i dont have many issues with this girl. she is pretty perfect for me. so i brought it up when we got stoned last night and i told her how i felt about it. i told her i didn't really want to hear about it and that it upset me. then i told her that im okay with it and i really like her so im willing to deal with it. i know she is more into me than she has been with anyone else. she has even told me multiple times that we have the best sex she ever had.

i guess she actually hates her tattoo and she is kind of deeply effected by it. she always mentioned to me that she hated that it was a "tramp stamp". so i just figured she hated tramp stamps before i realized that it was because of her ex that she go it. she was only 16 when she got it and now she is 22. she told me she was thinking about getting it removed long before she ever met me. also, she said she was sorry for bringing it up. she just starts talking and not thinking when she gets stoned and didn't mean too.

so yeah we just talked it out and it was fine. its really no longer a issue for me. we fucked so good last night. the best yet. sooo good. i leave all those details out.

i still hate guns and roses though.. seriously i always kind of disliked that band but i really cant stand them now.


and j-man, sorry man that you never could work things out with her. that deserves a entire thread in itself, but it made me look at my situation in a positive way. thanks.

so most of the good advice i have received from miss blunted, verdant green, flub nuts, the j man, scrogerman, empreror herer, christen23, etc... (sorry if i missed you i was sick of typing names, but i read every post so thanks) really helped and i just got over it. she is way worth it and a hell of a good match for me. so its nothing really. it was just jealousy on my part. but i still understand my part. i mean it was a huge blow to hear that. complete shocker. i was just like wtf.. why..

and i would never want her to get a phish tattoo.. she only has 1 tat by the way and its just that GNR one.

also some people are just fucking assholes on here. i think those people are the most insecure with themselves. no respect what so ever. so what, some shit got to me.

and some people just assume things way to much. you already had an idea of the person you think i am and how i act. which is judging way to quickly off of very little information.
i really dont give a shit, though. i guess some of you guys are just way cooler than i will ever be right? nothing fucks with your heads? tough as nails....

give me a break...

once again here is the outcome of the situation... it was on the last page before this one... so ill post it again

 

[CharacterZero]

Hey I know this chick

apparently you and quite a few others on the board. small world i guess..

its funny cause she told me my cock was "intimidating" and she has problems sitting on it..

 

[teemu shalanie]

hey buddy, sounds like you are a little upset , i guess i would be too if my ol'lady came @me with the same type of shit, i think all your anger about the thread is mis- directed im only providing a comic opinion to a comic situation, i was just bustin balls and didnt mean anything to be taken to heart, thats just my sense of humor, so if you dont want everyones opinion on on doggying your ol' ladt to GNR, dont ask,
P.S i guess your not a douche bag either, but you sure are gulable if you belive the ol'GNR CHAMP is "intmidated". peace , respect.TS

 

[CharacterZero]

hey buddy, sounds like you are a little upset , i guess i would be too if my ol'lady came @me with the same type of shit, i think all your anger about the thread is mis- directed im only providing a comic opinion to a comic situation, i was just bustin balls and didnt mean anything to be taken to heart, thats just my sense of humor, so if you dont want everyones opinion on on doggying your ol' ladt to GNR, dont ask,
P.S i guess your not a douche bag either, but you sure are gulable if you belive the ol'GNR CHAMP is "intmidated". peace , respect.TS

cool... whatever you say.