help with girlfriend

[CharacterZero]

Is this Yummybud??????

i kinda thought this sounded like a adult version of a yummybud thread myself.

and yeah i was thinking duct tape last night right when she was telling me that.

 

[CharacterZero]

If something as trivial as this keeps you from getting a boner for your girlfriend then you might be gay. If the girls is cool, has a nice bod and a a wet pussy that should be all ya need.

i dont think a lot of people here have experienced this.

last night i really couldn't get hard over this shit. and thats not natural for me. she always turns me on so much.

i dont know what it is. i just wasn't into it last night so i just got really stoned and passed out. i didn't tell her why. i just said i wasn't feeling it.


and thank you miss blunted. im glad you can see this from my point of view. i am not an asshole and im really trying here. i couldn't imagine it having this much of an effect on me but it did.

 

[Iron_Lion]

i dont think a lot of people here have experienced this.

last night i really couldn't get hard over this shit. and thats not natural for me. she always turns me on so much.

i dont know what it is. i just wasn't into it last night so i just got really stoned and passed out. i didn't tell her why. i just said i wasn't feeling it.

My g/f has some other dudes initials by her vag, it doesnt bother me really. We've been together for 6 years now and I know she is with me because she loves me, so why let that shit bother me. There hasnt been another a mention of the other guy in over 6 years.

Everyone has shit in their past they're not proud of, it doesnt mean you have to dwell on it. If she put it behind her (pardon the pun) who really cares. If you keep acting like a limp dick she's probly gonna leave you.

 

[SmokeIt420]

She probably brought it up to see how you would handle it - to see if you're the jealous, insecure type. Her delivery may have been a bit insensitive but it is what it is. If she wanted to be with her ex, she wouldn't be with you. It's natural to feel that pinch of discomfort when you hear about your girl's past, but it's the past and you're better off leaving it there.

Now if she were the type to continue bringing up her ex then you may not want to waste your time with someone like that.

From a woman's perspective, don't even bring it up. Let it slide. If the ex becomes a real issue then re-assess the situation. I think she wanted to see if you're man enough to handle the fact that she had a life before you but she's with you now and that's all that matters!

I hope you get this all sorted out. Best of luck to you!

 

[supermanlives]

who cares if the pussy is good.

 

[SmokeIt420]

Bummer man, you sound like a nice guy with a heart. Talk to her when you know you're ready to bring it up. If she's a nice girl, she'll understand why you feel like you do and try not to hurt your feelings in the future. I know that would have hurt me...but maybe she just doesn't realize that men actually do have more feelings than we think.

Actually this is good advice here. Communication builds the foundation of trust in any relationship. Discussing this with her will allow you to sort it out in your own mind and will show her that she can talk to you about more intimate matters.

Earlier I recommended letting it slide but never mind... Just ignore that. I have a different perspective on insecurities in a relationship but that just doesn't apply here.

If this girl and relationship are worth it to you, have a calm and honest talk with her. Try not to come off in a way that seems accusatory or angry. Take her by the hand, look her in the eye and calmly tell her what's on your mind. You don't want this to be an issue that comes between the two of you but you just had to get this off your chest. Let her respond and see how it goes from there.

I think that's better advice. Should have smoked that Jack Herer joint earlier

Let us know how it turns out if you decide to talk to her.

 

[NOKUY]

the real reason that he liked to hit it from the back was cuz her beard was a bit of a turn off.

....i hope she cleans up better for you....

 

[Green lung]

I can see where this guy is coming from, I mean please ladies keep that shit to yourself the last thing I want in my head is an image of my girl getting some degrading shit done to her by some ex douche.


I don't want hear about how you used to get penis slapped and shit. You know what I'm saying?

 

[Balarama67]

I once had a g/f who I discovered had a piece of sh!t between her labia when I went to give her a blowjob...I never went near her again after that - it was just too much for me - thppppbt....thpbt....thpppppbt - nah, can still feel it on my tongue after about 9 years...brrrr!

 

[SuperSizeMe]

I once had a g/f who I discovered had a piece of sh!t between her labia when I went to give her a blowjob...I never went near her again after that - it was just too much for me - thppppbt....thpbt....thpppppbt - nah, can still feel it on my tongue after about 9 years...brrrr!

 

[Green lung]

I once had a g/f who I discovered had a piece of sh!t between her labia when I went to give her a blowjob...I never went near her again after that - it was just too much for me - thppppbt....thpbt....thpppppbt - nah, can still feel it on my tongue after about 9 years...brrrr!

I'll make sure i double check for now on.


But thats a very different problem than the OP

 

[Balarama67]

I was trying to make him feel better!

 

[ItIsTime]

Yummy....reincarnated?

 

[SuperSizeMe]

Sounds as if the OP has a bead on what he needs to do, it's all in good fun...after the sting is all gone of course

 

[Peanut Butter]

GNR tramp stamp and GNR soundtrack just to hit it doggystyle? He sounds like he wanted to fuck the band more than your girl

 

[SuperSizeMe]

GNR tramp stamp and GNR soundtrack just to hit it doggystyle? He sounds like he wanted to fuck the band more than your girl

Yeah...sounds as if she may have left out the corn-row wig part

 

[teemu shalanie]

I have been dating this girl for about 8 months now and we get a long really good. we even live together now. she is cool with everything that i do and she loves weed too. she has pretty good taste in music as well. laid back, sexy, etc.. she is almost perfect for me....

almost..

okay my problem is, she has this guns and roses tattoo on her lower back (tramp stamp area). I like guns and roses a little bit so i didn't care that much at first. i just figured she was a big fan of them or something. she is pretty into them but it had more meaning than just the band.

she got really high last night and told me her ex-fiancé wanted her to get it so he can always listen to guns and roses and see the tattoo on her back while he fucked her doggy style. thats what she told me and my jaw dropped.. why the fuck would she tell me that.

she didn't even pick it out, her ex did. how stupid is that? her ex's mom used to follow guns and roses around and so it was her ex's mom that even got her into the band in the first place. every part of that tattoo is about her ex fiancé.

so now i know every time she listens to that band she thinks of getting fucked by her ex.

now it is impossible for me to fuck her doggy style.

i dont know what to tell her? what should i do? i like this chick so much. its kinda fucked but its bothering me. it even worries me when she listens to that band period.

and i fucking hate guns and roses now.. i never want to hear another song.

am i being childish or what? i know this is a stupid post but its really getting to me.

i trust her and all that. she is very trustworthy. it just really fucks with my head.

its almost like dating a girl with her ex's name on her back. so you always see it while you fuck her. but i think i would even rather it be a name than the guns and roses tattoo. at least a name doesn't have much of a story behind it. its officially a tramp stamp now. that tattoo is all about getting fucked by her ex while he listens to his favorite band...

Yo mate with a name like taintstick u should be calling my boy young wing to help u out , u must know who i mean, any ways i will try my best to give u a quick dude am i gay? or dude is she a slut!....

So she gets high and tells u she gets doggy'd by her ex, while listening to GNR , while all i got to say about that is that chicks are smart and venomous they will drop shit like that on you , like they are tossing the car keys on to the counter.
So basically i think she has beef with u , u fuck her good all the time? , (probably not).
If i was u i would harden the fuck up and hate fuck this bitch doggy style, and shoot a load on her SHIT TRAMP STAMP , just to show her how u roll!,

let me know how she goes .. TS

 

[Green lung]

Dam now everytime I listen to GNR I'll think about this dudes girl getting banged doggy style.

 

[Cojito]

would this bother me? fuck no. tho' from the sounds of it many folks here sympathize with your insecurities.

but honestly, i'd be thrilled my GF trusted me enough to be honest about her sexual past. i always want to know about past lovers because if there was something they were doing that was getting my GF off i want to know about it.

if this is keeping you from getting hard there may be something else going on. maybe your just not ready for a real relationship with her. i mean, this is so insignificant in the grand scheme of things. rather than keeping your lips sealed i suggest you sit down and thrash it out with her. sometimes just talking about a problem makes it easier to deal with.

 

[buckeye-leaf]

well thats a weird one there......thats probably why she is with a nice guy like you rather than some goofball retard that didnt care about a lady!