My fiancee is a bit slow I think....

[LAMBS-BREAD]

Ok heres the situation my fiancee and I live in a 1bdrm house. Because she is bisexual and I lost my virginity to her, she thinks we should get a girlfriend for us, not only that but a live in girlfriend so she is kinda just around to hang out with us, because we both don't leave very much, considering we both don't have jobs at the moment.

But I am trying to get her to realize just how bad of an idea this WOULD be, as I have a closet of flowering plants and a flowering cabinet as well. I would not want anybody else knowing besides my fiancee, since that was part of the reason for my recent move. More privacy. There is no way for me to hide my hobbies from a female roommate, even if she is cool with the bud and shrooms, what happens when she feels ignored/or some other BS?

Get a blind one ...

 

[northernlightss]

still can't figure out why the current girlfriend REALLY wants a live-in.
to contribute to rent because neither of you are employed?
as others have suggested, due to the predictable polyamorous nature of many bi folks?
tell her that you'd love to try it out on a trial basis but that you retain the right to abort the experiment when (if?) things become unpleasant. see what she says and follow the rabbit hole.......

We have rent and the like covered, I wouldn't have the girl pay. I think she wants a live in to help her with her "work" load with me. Like I said since shes Bi if I wasn't comfortable with her being with woman, I wouldnt have jumped into this relationship.

 

[hippie_lettuce]

What do you mean with her "work" load with you? Is this a pun on words?

 

[Weezard]

Engaged to be buried?

Engaged to be buried?

Aloha, NL.

I hate to sound un-romantic, but couldn't you two, just rent one for the trial?

Three-somes are great, in theory, but the sexual diplomacy required is a fine art.

Who does what, with which, and to whom, is a moving target tugged at by 3 egos.
It can work, but the delicacy of the dance can age a man rapidly.

Still...


Aloha,
Da Weeze.
(Old before his time)

 

[Lloyd_Christmas]

I wouldn't like the idea of a random person knowing about my grow...

 

[Pulchritude]

Girlfriend here, got my own login. =]

Girlfriend here, got my own login. =]

What do you mean with her "work" load with you? Is this a pun on words?

He means I literally cannot keep up with his sex drive.

 

[humble1]

hah.
ur thread got bumped by a yummy thread.
his imaginary problems are worse!

 

[Moneygrowonweed]

Great idea i would love for that to happen but at the same time i know women and fuck that it might all be good for a minute but in the end you would be fucked harder then you ever could have imagined never trust the pussy. NOT WORTH IT BY A LONG SHOT IMO.

 

[nukkumatti]

GO FOR IT MON!
You just have to keep both ladys happy train your tongue and take them to heaven

 

[funkervogt]

You're like the anti-YummBud : too many girls to juggle.

I think you can mitigate this risk depending on your circumstances and area.

What are your state laws? If you get caught, is it a game-ender?

Can you keep the grow secret? People with big houses can if well stealth.

Can your real girlfriend keep the grow quiet? Some can, most cant.

There's a lot more gray area now when it comes to grows and safety.

 

[armedoldhippy]

no, no, i aint even gonna say it...sorry dude.

 

[Bionic]

They're just gonna team up against you and the jealousy issues...OH, THE JEALOUSY ISSUES!

 

[stickylungs]

dude, i need to see pics before voting.

 

[SuperSizeMe]

dude, i need to see pics before voting.

Yeah that...

I know it's a lil' premature (pun intended), but...

 

[SpasticGramps]

Oh cool, the chick is here now too. Relationship and sex counseling on IC Mag. Could be interesting.

Someone mentioned webcams. We are definitely going to need those to really make this work. Go ahead and put them all throughout the house.

I say we start screening potential candidates.

 

[Stoner4Life]

so what's it gonna be lights, yes or no?


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[Megas]

Dr. Drew spoke about something similar like 5 years ago. I agree with him this is the fastest way to ruin your relationship and not even living with the other person. Why are you in a committed relationship when someone who is supposed to be yours can also be someone elses. Move on my friend move on.

I lost my virginity to her,

This will be your hardest breakup, this woman will also be able to pull your strings for a long time and she knows this. If you don't think so, look at what she's asking.

 

[Norrath]

i thought i KNEW my ex so well, like the back of my hand, and then she blackmailed me.

i wouldnt say go all maximum reclusive, nor hermitey, but deal with ONE relationship hurdle at a time. MARRY this girl so you can fuck her life up if your grow goes south, man is this deep water to drown in. too many ifs for my taste..

one girl is enough to introduce into a life of growing...

keep it from the "new" girl completely?

there been a lot of "#1 golden rule dont tell anyone" amendments made lately, welllllllll, it's okay to tell if and but, and this and that, but youre really stretching that, including a random...into a love triangle no less...

 

[Classyathome]

All the above posted warnings are prudent...

But...

Think of layin' some pipe to lady #1, and lady #2 has to / wants to pull it out and lick it clean every few minutes...

Or doggy stylin' lady #2, while her face is buried in lady #1's lap...

Or sittin' back w/ a bong, watchin' 1 and 2 compete to see who can suck the chrome off your bumper...

Even just one nite of that would be worth puttin' up w/ 2x the tampon brigade...

Of course, I am biased, due to me being

A straight guy with a penis

But I'm sure you'll do the right thing...

 

[Pulchritude]

Lights' entire point in asking you guys was to prove to me how wrong an idea it is.
Point taken, no girlfriend, live-in or not. I appreciate all the input from you all, you have made it abundantly clear that Lights was right the entire time. >.>