Save ArcticBlast! A YummyBud Post

[SpasticGramps]

That's pretty intense Artic. I'll say you have some soul searching to do. I was your age not too many years ago and I was doing some stupid shit. The next few years are going to set the tone for the rest of your life. You are kind of at that age that you either start to figure stuff out or it get's pretty miserable for a while. You recognize you are the problem. That's the most important, but also the easiest step. Now you have to put your words into action and go to work on yourself for those kids. I don't have to tell you these are the consequences of your actions and the choices you make now will have consequences in the future. At the end of your life it's the decisions you make now that you'll take to the grave with you either as a man or a boy.

 

[h^2 O]

yummy's past the point of "late bloomer"...it's like in the Gacey and Dahmer movies...no girl...parents house..."was quiet"..."seemed like nice people"...
Just got to get him accustomed to naked women without passing out, then on to escort, then regular girls. The virginity has progressed to a point that only a scheduled regimen of a slow acclimation to In Diana Jones and Temple Poon before yummy can get to consentual sex with a girl. I wish I could help. I already said I'd wire money to a whorehouse or something

 

[ArcticBlast]

Yeah spastic, i know what you mean...that sounds eerily like what my dad just told me last night lol. but youre right, and its better that i'm figuring all this out sooner rather than later!

h20, i always thought yummy was like a secret military experiment that escaped...like the Navy training killer dolphins or something

ArcticBlast

 

[Bushwacker420]

no but can you imagine the amount of pathetic breakup/fuckup/whatup
threads we'll be seeing from him when he finally starts to get some trim?

Lol, well I guess we'll see

 

[kaotic]

IME the first thing I would work on is the temper with the kids. That's the relationship you don't want to ruin. See I've been here but on the other side. When you get to the point when the kids don't have you mad constantly you can then start working on making YOURSELF happy. If you can't make yourself happy you won't be happy with anyone when the "new" wears off. Your negativity affects everyones mood around you. You ever heard the saying "If mommas not happy nobody's happy?" Right now you're momma. The relationship will follow if meant to be. That's the last thing to worry about. The kids are first. I was 23 when I attained custody of my childeren. Got rid of the wife and haven't looked back. Instead of facebook find something productive. It's a proven fact the more housework a man does the more they get laid btw. Theres always rosie...

 

[ArcticBlast]

exactly kaotic. my kids are most important now. and yeah, facebook sucks, but its a necessary evil in my life...its the only contact i have with some family and friends...i just have to show better judgement on who i talk to

as far as housework...i think its almost impossible to improve on that...along with taking care of 3 kids under the age of 2, i keep the house liveable and safe...i cook and clean and do all the domestic tasks. the only thing i DON't do is dishes, because she says i do them wrong, and laundry, because she likes going to the laudromat like a vacation or something lol

but yeah, you're right, i have a lot to work on

ArcticBlast

 

[KnowBudz]

Ofcoarse people can change!

You need to focus on the things you can control. STOP lying, STOP doing things that you feel you need to lie about, be more open AND honest. It is really simple, you are young but you don't have to be immature.

That pretty much says it all. I might add that, considering the children, you don't have the option of being immature (doesn't appear to have stopped you, though).

 

[robbiedublu]

Ahhhh, to be 23 again.... When you're 50+ you'll wish you had just gone ahead and nailed all those chicks you had a chance to and then gone hunting for more. If only i'd had facebook/myspace 30 yrs ago!!

 

[eddie.saw]

AB, you're not an asshole or a piece of shit, you're just a 23 year old man feeling that things aren't the way you planned for them to be, i've met you man, i know you're a good dude, i seen you with your kids and you seem spot on there, but from what i've taken in you and your girl just aren't communicated enough, like you said the bottle it up silent treatment that she pulls doesnt make anything better as well as you're lying and hiding shit, your consciousness fells so much better without all that as i'm sure you're aware of.

Just continue to be honest, stay aware from the trouble bringing bimbo's and just work with your girl on trusting/communicated/appreciating. I know if you do things right this will pass and things will look up!!

also it never hurts to

 

[jerrypike]

Yummybud just the fact you are alive gives yourself a bad reputation

 

[Dislexus]

You got some rough years ahead of you, I'd start looking for a job now. Either you're with her and paying for childcare or you're not with her and paying child support. It's stupid and probably primal instinct, but the second a man doesn't have a job his woman's respect for him diminishes.

Anyways lots and lots of emotional pain ahead. The only reason she hasn't left you is because of the kids and its right before the holidays and she doesn't want to deal with the drama right now.

 

[SnozzleBerry]

Eat the children! I hear they're an excellent source of nutrition and child support is far too pricey to have to cover that shit.

 

[ArcticBlast]

wow shit got weird there for a second! and i'm pretty sure i got negative rep too! happy thanksgiving to you, too!

edddddiiiiieeeee.saw! yeah dude, i have a feeling things will be alright!

robbiedublu! i think i'll be alright when i'm 50! but that's a long way off!

happy thanksgiving dudes!

ArcticBlast

 

[eddie.saw]

Eat the children! I hear they're an excellent source of nutrition and child support is far too pricey to have to cover that shit.

 

[ArcticBlast]

http://www.icmag.com/ic/showthread.php?t=147029

that's my NEW post lol...thanks for the replies dudes and dudettes!
ArcticBlast

 

[Mrs.Babba]

closed at OP's request.