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Relationship issue.... dont worry im not yummybud.

iGro4Me

The Hopeful Protagonist
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well there has always been another one right around the corner!


:laughing:

When I had a live-in back in the day and she started that "I don't need you" crap, I gave it right back to her....I started frequenting a laundry run by a Chinese lady which coincidentally (and convienently :D) was connected to a massage parlor.

My clothes were never cleaner.... :joint:
 

Neuronaut

Active member
you asked our opinions... So here is mine. She is on the phone trying to have a conversation and you are being a little nagging bitch. Leave her alone and take your own temperature. How old are you, five? Jesus. Go to the doctor and after that a shrink.
 

Mrs.Babba

THE CHIMNEY!!
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Guys are such babies when they get sick!! you'd think its the end of the freakin world!! lol
Sorry but your not gettin much sympathy from me, like dogboy said, enjoy the peace and quiet and she wont feel like she is your personal nurse. Sorry Get Mo :) Hope you feel better bud :D
 

White Rabbit

Digging in the garden
ICMag Donor
advice: do unto others as you want done to yourself. In other words, would you do for her the same if the roles were reversed? Would she expect it? And also, she loves her sister, and probably just wants to see a little respect from your side...uuuhhm... I dunno, the argument is a bit one sided. Flu is quite the bitch tho...good luck anyways.
The White Rabbit
 

whodi

Active member
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Maybe your realtationship is stale and she doesn't care about you the way she used to. Maybe you don't please her enough for her to cater to you. Maybe she's a spoiled little girl that takes things for granted. Maybe she is in the relationship because she is using you or has nothing better. As you can see, lots of possibilities. Communicate with her and see what she says.

I bet you are older than her.

Been together 6 years and not married or dont have plans to marry? Sounds stale and blah allllready. She's probably sick of your ass and just puts up with your shit because you are 'someone'.

Sounds like you want a submissive asian girlfriend. They are the best as long as you're a strong independent person. Just be nice to them though, they are fragile and hurt lil easier than the avg chick.

p.s. "the world doesn't revolve around you" Just because she doesn't jump for you when you call doesn't make her the worst girlfriend ever. And if you want a girl to jump for you then go get one.

Give me her number and see if she stays on the phone talking to me.

At least yummybud would fix his own soup and even her soup but would prolly put something in hers :D
 

dopeshow

Member
Only after 6 years of a relationship would anyone get upset at their girl for something that trivial heheh.

How dare she talk to her family on the phone...

Evil wench.. don't she know the woman's place in the relationship?! Make me some food and coddle my balls while your nurse me back to health. I am the MAN in this relationship, so you start cooking and take my temperature or ELSEEEE! / end sarcasm

Seriously dude tell her youre leaving 'cause she talks to her sister on the phone and she wouldn't make you a can of fuggin chicken noodle soup when your tummy heart... come back and tell us how that goes!! GET MO lol not so gangsta with the flu, eh?

Sounds like you need to kick your ho to the curb cause she totally doesn't know her place in the relationship... you should just move back in with mommy.. she'd make you feel better when your tum tum hurts :*(
 
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if the worse thing about her is not hanging up the phone I wouldn't make too much of it. There's some CRAZY women out there, if you haven't noticed. Could be a lot worse - chicks have been known to cut of penises and shit
 

GET MO

Registered Med User
Veteran
Damn, cant believe I even made this shit. I had a fever of 103, I ate 2 brownies, a weed losenge, and a cup of weed tea (heard edibles are the cure for the swine flu). My fever came down. She ended up getting off the phone and cleaning the house hella good after I went bad cussed her out and broke a cup (not the right way I know, shit I was dillusional give me a break) thanks yall for tryna help me on this lame ass thread. this my last thread Ill ever make about my broad, promise.
 

TNTBudSticker

Active member
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Take off all your clothes and walk around naked.....If she tells whoever's on the phone that you're walking around naked...

Then its time to bring it....bend over and give her the moon.

Maybe THEN when she gets off the phone and Actually TALK to you Why You were walking around naked and you showed her your moon cheeks.

Tell her you were sick and tired...but sick that she cant bring you moon soup errr chicken soup when you had the energy to moon her.
 
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alpinestar

Just wanted to get the opinions of some my folks...
I been sick all day, tempature trippin and fealin like the flu. Well my girl get home from work and is on the phone, Im askin her if she will get off the phone but she will ignore me or say no, then keep talkin. Well that made me hella mad and nothin I would do would get her off the phone. I might got the damn swine flu, does it sound to anybody in here like shes in the wrong or is it just me? I been with her for 6 years and she acts like she got some kind of issue with what she says is 'control'.... its not like she talkin to anybody special, just her dumbass sister, they talk for hours over dumb shit. All I ask is for 10 minutes of her time.... should I give her the thumbs down?(Im not gonna kill her, just leave her alone.)

step back and take a look at the big picture

if its not your fault (and youre not trying to control her) then she has obvious personal issues she is trying to deal with and is using/treating you in the same way a rebellious teenager does a parent

try to reason with her and watch
youll regret it - somehow youll be wrong even if youre right

-either ignore it and put up with it as you would a a nuisance caused by a child, until she grows out of it,

-take a break and maybe shell get over herself,

-or break up


6 years is a lot of time invested into a relationship to just drop it like that though
 
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