yo its definitely yummybud 4 sho! lol
need some help with confidence and women.
- Thread starter G0d5hand
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Don't try, don't think about it....meeting cool chicks is as easy as just randomly saying hello or striking up a conversation without even thinking about the pressure of meeting. A guy that comes up to me with the intent to "meet" me....automatically loses. Most of the time he sized me up on how I look and his initial intent is sex. The guy that doesn't really pay attention to me that just starts a conversation (or continues one I started) is the guy you get to know without the sexual pretense....and that's the guy that gets me, the one who wasn't looking at me in the first place.
I like them genuine....just be genuine and don't try. Trust me, you'll end up meeting the really good ones.
I like them genuine....just be genuine and don't try. Trust me, you'll end up meeting the really good ones.
808kahumai
Member
If you look past how hot she is (stop staring at her tits, her mouth, her eyes, or what ever) and talk to her like a real person, you won't be nervous and you can find out if she is LTR material or ONS material. She will let you know what her thoughts are through her body language and you can either go with it or try to change her mind. A woman knows within three seconds of meeting you if you are going to get anywhere with her or not. Don't waste your time on a non responder. Just wish her a nice day and carry on. But if she plays with her hair, gives you the over the shoulder look, looks down and then back up again with a smile, looks you up and down...you know things like that, it's on. Then it is just a cat and mouse game until you catch your prey. Careful though, you have to keep up the alpha male behavior until the prey is caught or you might loose your catch all together. If you get the over the shoulder look or anything that I stated above, tell her you have to go right now, but that you would like to see her again. Give her your number on a professional business card and let her call you. If she likes you, she will call and you won't have to worry about anything other than learning how to put on a woman's necklace and how to take off everything else .....
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TrichyTrichy
It's not Yummybud
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sparkjumper
Yummy or no yummy these lonely heart loser theme threads should be against TOU.For christs sake how fuckin boring and pitiful these threads can be.You cant express how you feel about world events because someone may deem it "political"( If they disagree with the subject matter) but this garbage uses more bandwidth by far.Its just bullshit all these loser fuckin threads.If you cant find a fuckin girl just deal with it for christs sake...
If political thread wouldnt end up in a huge name calling fight, they would be able to stay around here, but EVERY thread about politics ends like that. Not sure why, well I do but thats just how it always rolls!
Thanks miss blunted and 808kahumai and everyone else. I am not yummy bud or know who he is. Thanks for your replies. As for this being a lame topic or inappropriate, well I apologize. I read these boards everyday, and didn't know where else to ask, and yesterday I just got piss off of my lack of trying so I wanted to ask for advice. You can think I am lame, but that's OK, cause I don't mind. I came on only with the intent of getting some advice, and I have gotten it. I like that these forums can be used to not only talk about bud, but everyday problems. This is a great community, thanks to EVERY one who posted. I hope you have a great day and feel as optimistic as I do.
G0d5hand
G0d5hand
co-sign.
Deep down i find myself social awkward, even though growing up i have had numerous girlfriends and had girls say i was attractive, shit even i think im pretty good looking, but my mind just freezes up sometimes when approaching a girl i havent talked to before.
So i sort of project my own "fake confidence". I try to talk and act like i am Mr. Swagger, i pretend im someone im not, and i think it tends to work.
Sometimes you just gotta force that confidence into your mind.
But yeah, i think Godshand= YUMMY BUD!
Yea dude ive been on this web site since its inception and i have not seen this topic come up before except for this thread and all the ones yummy bud's made. Im kinda sick of the whole topic myself, if you aint yummy bud sorry dude but he ruined it for you, and if you are yummy bud..damn dude you are creepy LOL
Kizzattack
Member
I have such a hard time meeting new people. I can't look strangers in the eye, can't make small talk and find it awkward, and generally find it very hard to make friends. When I do talk to a new person, I usually end up offending them by accident because I don't know what to say. This has resulted in me having almost no confidence at all when talking to new people.
I somehow managed to get a girlfriend a few years back. She's a hairdressing student and I'm an IT nerd with autism. I've been with her for nearly 4 years now. If I can get a girlfriend, anyone can (Yummybud being the exception). I made absolutely no effort to pick her up, and had no confidence at all when talking to her. I guess it's just a case of being in the right place at the right time. Some day there will be a girl that you somehow end up talking to that you will click with.
Your lack of confidence is something I've had to deal with as far back as I can remember. One thing that seems to work for me when talking to people is thinking, "If this goes wrong, I'm not going to die, but I might learn something. If it goes right, great!". It seems to put me at ease a bit when my lack of confidence is getting to me.
I somehow managed to get a girlfriend a few years back. She's a hairdressing student and I'm an IT nerd with autism. I've been with her for nearly 4 years now. If I can get a girlfriend, anyone can (Yummybud being the exception). I made absolutely no effort to pick her up, and had no confidence at all when talking to her. I guess it's just a case of being in the right place at the right time. Some day there will be a girl that you somehow end up talking to that you will click with.
Your lack of confidence is something I've had to deal with as far back as I can remember. One thing that seems to work for me when talking to people is thinking, "If this goes wrong, I'm not going to die, but I might learn something. If it goes right, great!". It seems to put me at ease a bit when my lack of confidence is getting to me.
o.gkushowns
18 and Doh!
Just go out like every nite. if u dont go out for a while u tend to get rusty. also fake confidence if u have to. and hard liqour helps for me, not beer tho for some reason.
